When do you feel the love of your parents?

I encountered some grievances outside, and encountered some unfair treatment when I was working outside, so when I got home, my parents comforted me, and they said that the child should let go of some of the troubles in the work during this time, and feel the warmth of our home, you see that my father made you some delicious sweet and sour pork ribs he made for me, I feel very happy, and I also feel their love for me, let me know that I will always have them behind me, and I will not worry about what I do.

I was not well at the hospital last year and have been recuperating ever since. Every time I came home, my mom would always tell me some home remedies. I don't know how she knows these things because she doesn't know how she can use her mobile phone to surf the Internet, although it doesn't work, but I can still feel the love of my parents.

Life has always been full of love, but you just didn't care about it. I have time to go home more often to spend with my parents, eat with them, and chat.

No matter when, I will feel some care from my parents, because on the way I am studying, they always tell me to study hard, if the living expenses are not enough, then tell me, when I encounter grievances, they tell me that it is okay, I believe that after this incident you will become stronger, I can feel their care for me all the time.

I don't go home often, and sometimes I feel homesick, but I can't go back. My mom will take the initiative to call me **, and then comfort me every time, and then in fact, my dad is also the kind of person who doesn't particularly like to talk about love, but it seems that it's because I'm in college that he has a hard time seeing me, and then he will take the initiative to express it, and he says he misses me, or he loves me, that is, I think I can make my dad who doesn't speak very well to do this, and I can actually show that she loves me very much.

One of the most impressive times was when I was only eight or nine years old. I told my dad the day before that I wanted to have a birthday cake for my birthday, and my birthday at that age was really a very happy day, and my dad promised to do well. The next day, my birthday coincided with the autumn rainy season, and it was raining hard and cold, so my father went out to work early in the morning, and the original plan was to come back in the evening to bring me a birthday cake from the city.

Looking at the pouring rain in the sky, I no longer have any hope of eating a birthday cake, I just hope that my father can come back early, and it is good that we can eat the delicious dishes made by my mother together as a family. Just when I was no longer paying attention to whether there was a knock on my father's door at the door, my father came back! Looking at the rain on his father's body, I was glad that he was wearing a big raincoat.

What caught my eye was my father's birthday cake! I was so excited, I almost burst into tears, I felt that my father was so good, even if my father didn't carry the cake, I wouldn't blame him, after all, my father has worked so hard to make money to support me. The cake that day was the sweetest cake because it was sweet to the heart.

When I was in junior high school and high school, because I was living in school, there would be a cycle of holidays, it was very hot in the summer, and it was very cold in the winter, and my dad still picked me up on time every time, which was really hard, and every time he gave him something when he was in my high school, he would go to the school to see me, my high school was quite far away from our home, and it was really hard.

My parents' love for me, they are very deep, even though my parents are no longer alive, their love for me has always remained in my heart. When I broke my leg when I was a child, my father took me to the hospital 30 kilometers away on his bicycle in the rain. This impression is still unforgettable to me and continues to move me.

Usually parents should be not good at words, because the rules of society make them develop this habit, and my parents are also not good at words. They always silently give love, I am very impressed that when I was a child, the environment at home was not very good, but my parents always gave me the best, no matter what I dressed, what I used and what I ate, did not make me feel worse than others, only to find that they were very thrifty when I grew up, but I never saved on me.

It should be that after having my own children, since I was promoted to a parent, I have experienced the sadness and hardship of my parents, and I have understood how great and selfless the love of parents for their children is! I am a post-80s generation from the countryside.

I remember when I was a child, every summer, the children liked to go to the river to bathe, adults went to the river to wash clothes, of course, I was no exception and often went to the bath, accompanied by my father, anyway, the river was very lively at that time, the cows and sheep bleated on the riverbank grass, and the children in the water played and laughed, this scene I think was no stranger to the rural children of that era, and I also wanted to be like other children in Yuan Li to have more choices, my father didn't let me, I was very depressed.

One day I secretly went swimming with my friends, and I had a lot of fun, but when I got home, I was beaten up by my father, and I didn't understand it for a long time, didn't I just take a bath, as for it? Later, with more and more people going out to work, there are more left-behind children in the countryside, and when the parents are not around during the summer vacation, the grandparents can't control it, and every year there are children who drown because of bathing, resulting in an irretrievable human tragedy of Wang rent, at that moment I realized that being beaten by my father is also a kind of love, that is because he loves you too much, afraid of losing you, afraid that you will receive a trace of harm!

We often hear a lot of people say that motherhood is great. Indeed, it is precisely because of the care and love of our mothers that many of us have grown up healthy and happy.

But some people. Especially some children, they are very accustomed to their parents' care and love for them since childhood. Mom's love for them is something that makes them feel accustomed. Even they didn't know exactly how his mother hung up on him.

So some people just want to know at what moment you feel your mother's love for you. A lot of children are around their parents, and they may feel the love of their parents. But when they go out to work or study, they will find that their mother really cares and loves them.

Because when they leave their parents, they find that they have to do a lot of work on their own. In the past, mothers would help them get things done, so they would fully feel their mother's love for them.

Actually, for us. I really feel that our parents care and love us when we have a problem. Because each of us believes in Zheng Zai, it is inevitable that we will encounter some problems and difficulties.

In the past, when we encountered problems and difficulties, it was my mother who helped us solve them. But when we are outside, we find that many times we have problems that no one else is willing to help us.

Therefore, when my mother knows that we have any problems and difficulties, she will care for and help us as soon as possible. It is also with the care and help of my mother that any problems we encounter can be well resolved.

Therefore, for each of us, my mother is the person who cares and loves us in the world, and it is under my mother's care and love that we can grow up healthy and happy. So we should also care and love our mother, so that our mother will be happier and happier, and I can also be with my mother. Life is happier and more fulfilling.

As we grow older, our relationship with our parents will become more and more rusty, and many words that we can say casually when we are young will become very awkward when we grow up. Sometimes we feel that maybe our parents have grown up, and a lot of love and regret will gradually disappear. But in fact, maybe the parents have never changed.

What we don't know is that the love of parents is hidden in a lot of small details, which will always be revealed when you don't know it.

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As a married woman, I know that it is not easy to be a parent, so many times I, like most people, always like to report good news and not bad news. Even parents have followed our trend and learned to use mobile WeChat. But they have also become my group friends, in WeChat, I always report some of my good recent situation with them, and even the circle of friends does not let them find out that I have the slightest bad situation, I always look like "I am fine" in front of them.

And just over a year ago, I never thought that the good image I worked so hard to manage in front of my parents was actually known to them for a long time. I worked hard in the city with my children and husband, but I didn't have a good life. Every day, I will be dizzy by the trivialities of my family and the pressure of work, and I will even doubt myself many times.

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And when I thought my parents didn't know anything about it, in fact, my parents had already learned about my situation through other channels. Who would have thought that some people who don't seem to talk much are actually undercover agents planted in my list. Just when I was anxious about my job and future, facing my husband's incomprehension, my parents who were far away from home called me.

Child, if you are tired, you can take your child home for a while, it just so happens that we haven't seen our grandson for a long time. "I burst into tears and I asked them if they knew something. But they didn't say anything, they just said to me, "Son, go home when you're tired, there's nothing to worry about."

At that moment, I felt the endless love of my parents, which made me feel very relieved, knowing that even if I worked hard in society, I still had the solid support of my parents as I did when I was a child.

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When we grow up, we always feel that there is more and more estrangement from our parents, and even use the "generation gap" to try to avoid all the care of our parents. As a result, we communicate less and less with our parents, and we let them know less and less. As everyone knows, these are the reasons why we are becoming more and more estranged from our parents, who have been silently keeping up with us, while we are pushing our parents away step by step.

Sometimes when you open your heart, you will find that our parents love us far more than we think.

Yes, I'm next door to my mother's house, my mother has a set of keys to our house, as long as I dare to sleep lazily over the meal one day and don't get up, my mother will run to my bed and ask me, is it uncomfortable? If my husband and I had a quarrel, my mom would help me, and of course, my husband would be nice to my mom (with a smile). If I tremble and sing that I am idle and don't do things every day, my mother will also scold me for being lazy, whether she scolds or not, no matter how much she scolds, it is also my mother!

The love of parents for their children is deep and deep, even if they always scold you, it is for your good. Thank you.

There are many moments that make me feel this way.

My father has loved me since I was a child, and maybe it's because of this pampering that I was a little unscrupulous. The day before the college entrance examination, my father rushed home from out of town. I have long been accustomed to living alone, and facing my father's care makes me extremely uncomfortable.

After the Chinese test the next day, I was reluctant to go home.

I was about to go home for a long time, and on the way I met my father, who had just finished cooking and came to pick me up. When I got home, I saw two dishes on the table, one eggplant and one egg. Judging from the appearance of the fiasco, there is not much appetite. I said, "Why don't you even put oil, how can you eat this?" ”

My father felt a little guilty, but he still smiled and said that the newspapers and television said: "The college entrance examination should be light in cooking these days." Although I knew that my father had a point, I was very depressed at that moment and blurted out:

There is little soup and water every day, and it is still light these days. Holding back his dissatisfaction, he pulled the rice into his mouth. The father was a little apologetic and said:

You wait, I'll go buy some cooked food. ”

I knew I was wrong, but I still didn't want to show it. He said angrily: "Forget it, let's make do with it." But in my heart, I wanted my father to buy it, but I didn't want to see him go out and buy it. Later, I learned that this kind of psychology is called holding.

But what I didn't expect was that my father insisted on buying it, and I insisted even more on it, hoping that my father would be more insistent than me. When my father saw that I was tough, he said, "Then you can eat and go out to eat at night."

When I heard my father say this, I was supposed to be in a happy mood, but when I got home, I suddenly became upset. Whatever my father does, he can make me unhappy. My father stood a little bewildered, and he didn't even care about my grades.

After the test the next day, I returned home to find no one. I felt guilty in my heart. I feel why I want to do something hurtful, but I am full of self-blame afterwards.

Open the door and a table of dishes. When I ate, my eyes were full of tears, my hands were shaking from side to side, and I couldn't even hold the dishes.

It turns out that we always think that we have grown up, but we never think that we have never left the wings of our parents, he has always cared about me, but he has never spoken, and he has done what they think is best. Every inadvertent injury will make me know how to cherish them more when facing their aging faces.