How do you deal with scheming friends in life?

As for how to deal with scheming friends in life, I will talk about it from the standpoint of me as a college studentWhen I went to college, I came into contact with more friends, just like a small society, to handle a lot of interpersonal relationships correctly and smoothly, in college we have our own money at our disposal every month, just like I experienced how to live with such a little money in the next month.

So let's talk about the various people and things I have encountered in my university life, starting with our dormitory. It can be said that the people in our dormitory are very fateful, they are all in the same place, and there is no difference in terms of hell, unlike some dormitories where the dormitories come from all over the world, it is really a bit embarrassing in this different region, so we have to tolerate each other.

There are six people in our dormitory, and each person has a different family education, so everyone's ideological concept is also differentFor example, like Xiao A, her family conditions are very good, but she has no concept of spending money, she just buys whatever she wants, like those useful and useless things in the dormitory are all she proposed to buy, so there are a lot of things in our dormitory. She's just a lazy person at best, and she won't play those tricks on you.

Another example is B, he is a girl who can bring happiness and happiness to everyone, and she has laughter and laughter every day in the dormitory, she is a temperVery nice girlAs long as anyone has something, she chooses to help, never shirks, always silently does something for the big family of the dormitory, and never talks about it. <>

Another example is Xiao C, I think her person is not bad, but she loves to be careful about you, especially in terms of money,This thing also happened to me.,At that time, not long after I entered college.,Once I went to take a shower with her.,And then when I got to that place.,She said she didn't bring money.,Let me help her pay it.,I thought to myself that it's a dormitory anyway.,It's not much money.,I helped her pay.,I didn't think too much.,But I helped her pay once, and she had to let me pay one after another,I'm the one who doesn't get angry with anyone until I push me up, and I told her about it that time, and I haven't asked me to pay for her since.

I have a good relationship with a little d, she is also a good person,Another time she told me that she and Xiao C went to buy rice, and when she was buying rice, she wanted to buy a grilled sausage and meatballs to eat first, so they went to buy it, and then Xiao C saw that this good friend of mine, Xiao D, had a leftover change in his hand that could buy a roast sausage, and she said (and said very much) I want to eat it too, and then Xiao D said, then you can buy it if you want to eat itLittle C said, "Oh, I'm out."didn't take the change, and then Xiao D had no choice, so he helped her pay, I heard this, I was also helpless, what can I do, people are like this, I can't help it.

I think money is a trivial matter, but there is no need to move these thoughts on friends because of this, so that no one can tolerate you forever, I suggest that if there are people around you who are scheming on you, you can't blindly choose to tolerate, and you should be tough when you should be tough.

It's good to ignore him, if he plays tricks on you, he won't take advantage of him if you ignore him, for this kind of person, either ignore him or retaliate.

For such colleagues, you should choose an indifferent attitude and don't pay too much attention to it, so as not to be hurt.

Deal with him in the same way. This kind of person will only give up if he suffers a little loss.

Sometimes in work and life, you will meet the kind of person who is good with you on the surface, but after a period of contact, you will find that this kind of person has scheming, how do you get along with him? Treat each other with sincerity This is the basic principle of being a person, the so-called harmful heart can not have, in the interaction of life, and those scheming people should also get along with the principle of good faith, the so-called Qin Hui also has three helps, no matter how scheming people can also become friends with him.

<> don't overthink some colleagues just play with a cautious eye, there is no substantial damage to you, don't worry too much at this time, too much care will find you very tired. If you care too much, you will be unhappy, and if you are unhappy, won't you be the one who suffers in the end?

Don't talk about people's rights and wrongs behind your backMany times we find out how bad a friend is, we may want to talk to other people, and it is inevitable that we will add fuel and vinegar when we talk about it, try not to have this kind of behavior, and many things are good to understand in our hearts, so that everyone knows that it will always reach that person's ears, and it will not be good when the time comes. For those who are scheming, if the calculation of others is too obvious, we will not be able to let him go free, so we can treat him according to the way of treating others the way they should be, and we will shoot when we should act! Sometimes it's too much, and you can't stand it, so you can kindly remind you.

Let him understand that his actions or words are too aggressive, and hopefully make him realize his mistakes. Finally, I would like to say to those who are scheming, don't lift a stone and shoot yourself in the foot!

You know that the other party is a scheming woman, and you have suffered such and such losses, and you still think about how to get along! It just shows that there must be some reasons why you can't end this bad relationship. So?

The same goes for the other party! At this moment, she can only think seriously and ask on the InternetHow do I get along with my pig teammates?

And you? Just keep yourself.

Scheming people are generally more calm and will hide their bad thoughts. You may be smart with people, and you may see through the real intentions behind them, but please see through them.

I think it's best not to be friends with scheming people, and try not to treat scheming people as friends in life, unless you are more scheming than him.

For these people who like to play tricks on the same high wheel, there is no need for in-depth interactions, just stay away, and Qi Zhengxin should be vigilant everywhere, so as not to fall into the trap set by the other party.

When dealing with scheming colleagues, you can stay away from them in time. Or don't provoke the other party too much.

I think the only correct way to do this kind of colleague is to stay away from him as much as possible, if it is really unfortunate to be with him when doing things, don't be enthusiastic about him, so that he will feel that it is easy to bully you by laughing at you, then he will often come to you after touching the stove, and this will make you feel annoying.