If you could talk to your past or future self, what would you say?

I think I'll say to my future self: Hello, how are you doing now? Are you continuing graduate school or working?

If you are in graduate school, I would like to say that you must work hard, and finally get admitted to a course you want to study, you should use 100% of your strength to do your best in your studies, what you have to do is to believe in yourself, although you are not as smart as others, but as long as you seriously want to do a good job, you will definitely do well. If you are at work, I want to say to you, I hope you can find a job that suits you, if you don't like it, leave as soon as possible, and find a job where you can enjoy going to work, instead of complaining about the bad job every day, if you choose this job, I hope you can work hard to discover your ability, strive for the top, and have a good relationship with your colleagues. I don't know if the relatives and friends around me were still there at that time, I want to say to myself at that time, you have to care more about your relatives, they need you very much, whether they are alive or not, you have to be a filial person should be, more care, more home to eat, even if you don't work in your hometown then you can be more **them, relatives are the most important.

There are also friends, I don't know what friends you have made now, but I hope you will keep your eyes open and make friends, you must not have the heart of harming others, you must not have the heart of guarding people, and you should not be deceived by appearances. You have to catch up with old friends, some friends are your treasure in this life, and you need to keep in touch with them.

No matter what, I hope that the future you will live well, don't be haunted by troubles, be a truly happy person, and believe in the future.

<> talked to my past self and told me that it was time for me to study hard, and as a rural child, only by studying hard and being admitted to university can I be more likely to achieve the future I want. Tell me that I am ignorant, that my parents' words can be listened to, and that the teacher's reasoning can be believed, that the world will not change because of any rebellion from you, and that all you can hurt is yourself and the people closest to you.

Talk to your past self and tell me that is, don't be with him. Don't start a first love that you think is beautiful because of emotion and curiosity, and finally scarred yourself, even if there is no so-called love, it doesn't matter, there are still many things in life that we need to work on.

Say a word to your past self and spend time with your parents. When you grow up, the burden of life weighs on you, and you will find that accompanying your parents will become a luxury. When you are still with your parents, don't make them angry, be a good child, and stay by their side quietly.

Say to your past self and don't feel so inferior. You are you, you are unique, you are not as bad as you imagined, you are a baby in the eyes of your parents, a pistachio in the eyes of your classmates, you should be happier, enjoy the carefree time that should belong to that age.

Say a word to your past self, laugh when you're happy, and cry when you're unhappy. When you can still be willful, please don't be so sensible, when you grow up, you will find that you will laugh when you are sad, cry when you are happy, and life will never be able to do what you want.

Say a word to your past self, and say that you were so good at that time!

<>If I had the opportunity to have a conversation with my past or future self, I would choose to have a conversation with my future self. First of all, I would like to thank her for allowing me to see my future self and see what my future self will look like. I have experienced all the things and people in the past, and I know that in the past I had my own joys, my own sorrows, my own pains, my own youth, and my own regrets.

These are my own personal experiences, the past will not come back, so I will not be entangled in the bitterness, will not regret again, after all, there is no regret medicine in the world, now I will be happy and say goodbye to the past! I haven't experienced the future yet, I yearn for the future, and I think about the future. Everyone has a future, and they don't know what the future is.

If I meet the future, I will ask her what my future looks like, my future life, and everything that will come in the future. I know that this needs to be experienced by myself, but what about someone who doesn't want to know their future? No matter what the future looks like, it is necessary to create it with your own hands, and only through your own efforts and hard work can you realize your dreams.

But now the future is in front of me, I will say, has my dream come true? What did I go through to achieve it? If I knew, I would have worked harder in the future.

In the future, I want to change what I used to be, what I didn't do before, what I wanted to do that I didn't do before, many, many, many more. And what does my family look like in the future? Happiness?

What will my child do in the future? How are the children doing? Did you go to college?

How's it going? Will I be old and busy with my life? Are you still fighting for your children?

In the future, I would like to thank all the people and things around me, and thank you for meeting us in the future.

I will choose to have a dialogue with my future self.

People should look forward and not blindly indulge in the past, just as we always love to miss our carefree childhood when we grow up, and only realize that he was good after falling out of love.

It's just that there is never a regret medicine to buy, and the only thing we can do is to look forward and move forward.

To be honest, I really want to know what my future holds, and for me, who is still in a period of confusion, maybe after knowing my future situation, maybe I will have a firm goal to strive for.

Instead of working for one outcome after another, an uncertain future, as in the present.

If I meet my future self, I should ask her a lot of questions, I will ask her everything that is bothering me now, such as whether I will go to graduate school or take the civil service exam after college, whether I am working in **, whether I am married, whether I have children, and whether everything is okay at home, whether my parents, grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents are healthy.

Maybe I'll know the answers to these questions in the future, because she's the other me, just standing a little bit ahead, staying in the future, but I'll always get closer and closer to her.

In addition to asking her all kinds of questions, one of the most important questions I want to ask her is, is she having a good time?

Over the years, from junior high school to high school, from high school to college, I have gotten everything I wanted, but I have never experienced everything that I am happy to rejoice in, or I am numb to it.

I hope that she will be happy and happy in the future.

Hello, little ones! I'm your future self, and I'm here to talk to you now. How was your life at that time?

Kid: Hey! I have a lot of good friends and a lot of fun toys to play with.

The future you: That's great! You are a very lucky little kid with so many good friends and fun things. However, have you encountered any difficulties or challenges?

Children: Sometimes, I feel unfair and think that other children are luckier than me, or have more toys. Sometimes I feel lonely and want to talk to my parents or other adults, but they are always busy.

The future you: I understand your feelings. In fact, sometimes we feel that others are luckier, but everyone has their own stories and difficulties, and we can't easily compare them with others.

As for feelings of loneliness, you can try talking to your parents, teachers, or other adults about your thoughts and feelings. They will help you.

Kid: Okay, I'll try to talk to them. How is your life now? Is there anything you'd like to share with me?

Future you: My life is not bad now, although there are some challenges and difficulties, but I have learned to face them better. I want to tell you that no matter what you face in the future, be brave, strong, and confident, and believe that you will be able to overcome difficulties and achieve your dreams.

Kid: Thank you for your advice! I will also work hard and believe that I can get better!

Future You: Very good! I'm sure you'll be a great person, no matter what field you're in.

When you grow up, you will encounter a lot of challenges, but when you grow up, you will have more choices. Our lives are no longer limited to getting a question right or memorizing a good one. We can choose the job we like and make our own achievements in our own position.

The meaning of life is no longer to be a good student, a good child. In fact, everyone, at different stages, will have different feelings, will have different pressure, as long as we look at it with a normal heart, all difficulties can be solved.

Be happy every day, don't be bothered by some things, learn to persevere, keep your mind at peace, if the idea in your heart can be realized, go to achieve it, do things with a plan, be beautiful, although you look very embarrassed with your efforts, but you look beautiful on your own, don't complain, learn to be grateful. Be an excellent girl, don't depend on who you count, don't please anyone, and live a clearer life.

After entering the society, we have the responsibility, responsible for our own future life, responsible for our parents, people who are better than you are still working hard, you have no reason to give up, if you don't work hard now, the future life will force you to work hard, when you grow up, only you can help yourself, to recognize the reality, everyone's life is not easy, no one has the obligation to accommodate you, although this society will be very bad, but we have to live our own way. If you work hard now, you will have more choices in the future.

Don't rest on your laurels, don't forget your original intentions, be hopeful, be motivated, and wish you a shining life. Love life, but also love yourself. ❤️