A man betrayed his marriage and was found out by his wife, why didn t he apologize and clamored for

Maybe I'm a little annoyed and angry, and I feel that my wife is usually too strong and manages too much, so I have long had the idea of divorce.

Because he no longer cares about his wife's opinion of him, and he doesn't want to continue living with his wife, that's why he is like this, his purpose is to divorce as soon as possible and be with his lover.

Because the man no longer loves his wife and may have a new relationship, he divorced after being discovered.

Because men are very face-conscious, they feel that they have lost face by their wives, and they are annoyed and angry, so they will do this.

Because until this moment, he has not realized his mistake and thinks that the betrayed marriage is because of his wife, so even if his wife finds out, he will not apologize, and he will quarrel for divorce.

Because a man behaves like this, it proves that he is really tired of you and is eager to get rid of you.

First, Ms. Zhang: I will not forgive.

When I first married him, I told him very clearly that if one day you betray me, I will not hate you or blame you, but I will definitely not be with you again, so let's get together and disperse!

After three years, the last thing I want to see has happened, and I have not broken my trust with anyone, and I have fulfilled my original promise, without a single tear, without a trace of resentment, just despair and a cold heart. Probably, I won't love anymore, probably this pain will follow me for a lifetime.

Second, Ms. Su: There is only one chance.

Speaking from the bottom of my heart, if he betrays me, I can give him a chance, but there is only one chance, and it depends on whether he can grasp it.

I have thought about this question many times, and in the end it took me a long time to come up with such an answer, and giving him a chance is also equivalent to giving myself a chance, giving myself a chance to die. After six years of marriage, I have been repeating this question to him, and I have told him many times what I think, and even I have clearly told him that I will only give you one chance to hurt me in this life, and if you miss this time, either you go or I go, there is no third choice.

Third, Ms. Xu: I might forgive me.

I think as long as you are a woman, you should have thought about this question, if I am not married today, my answer must be not to forgive, but for me who has been married today, I think even if he betrays me, I will still forgive him.

Forgiveness is forgiveness, but trust or distrust is another matter, if he really betrays me, I will no longer have any feelings for him, nor will I have any more giving, even if I am a pair of strangers under the same roof, I admit it, no matter what, he is my choice, no matter what happens in the future, I will always go on this road.

Undoubtedly, then I will never forgive a person who betrays me, because if he does this kind of thing, then it is unforgivable, even if he has a last resort, then I understand the other party, but it is absolutely impossible to forgive, just like the mirror is broken, then there is still a crack where there is, then there must be a gap in the heart, forgiveness is basically impossible to forgive, if you understand, then it is possible to understand, but forgiveness is impossible.

Unforgivable. If this kind of thing is done, then it is basically a thing that cannot be forgiven, because many times although we will encounter something that we have to do, but this does not mean that we can forgive the other party, because if we do this kind of thing, then we have done this kind of thing, then we cannot be forgiven for any reason, after all, what we have done is what we have done, and things have happened, so it is basically unforgivable, because betrayal is the most hateful thing.

Understandable. Of course, there are many times when betrayal is due to some unavoidable reasons, then I can understand the other party, but basically I can't forgive the other party, I believe that anyone who is in some unavoidable reasons, then will do this kind of thing to betray things, but it can't be forgiven, because some things can be forgiven, but betrayal is a thing that can never be forgiven.

From the point of view of a person who betrayed me, then his behavior has made me very cold, so let this kind of behavior appear is an act that can be understood, but can never be forgiven, betrayal is absolutely not able or enough to be seen.

They have a very strong sense of tolerance, they can't abandon the days together in their hearts, they don't have a plan after the divorce, they can't face the wind and rain alone, they don't think that they will be hurt in their feelings, and they can't get out of this blow.

This society is basically dominated by men, and the main income of a family depends on men, even if a woman knows that her husband betrayed, she will not easily choose to divorce.

Because of the child, I feel that I can't find a better person after the divorce, I want to make the other party regret it for the sake of money, and I am afraid that my family will be disappointed in me, which is basically these reasons.