What does it feel like to be betrayed? The taste of being betrayed is not comfortable, how to let go

There are many ways to hurt someone, but nothing hurts deeper and more painful than the hurt of emotional betrayal. Now I understand that no matter how smart a man is, he still can't escape being hurt by the woman he loves. It turns out that women hurt men more secretly and ruthlessly than men.

I said to myself, I lost, I lost in the word "love", I was both amorous and ruthless, so in the end I was still hurt by love. I finally tasted what it was like to be miserable, what it was like to be betrayed and betrayed. I finally understood that love can bring happiness to people at the same time, but it can also bring pain to people.

I finally understood what kind of tears those girls I had hurt were. Now in the game life, I have finally become a clown who is being played by others. Perhaps, this is my retribution.

Now, I am suffering and tasting this glass of bitter wine that I have poured with my own hands. I feel like I'm living like a little deflated three. My heart bleeds all over the ground.

Friend, have you ever been betrayed?

The taste of betrayal, like a glass of liquor held up in your hand, is not only bitter, but also scorching. Tears can't help but flow down the eyes, like rain. This heart is like a knife!

Your sincerity turns out to be nothing in the eyes of others! You hold out a true heart, thinking that you can exchange it for a true heart! But they treat you like a fool!

Don't use it in vain, use it in vain! When I use you, I have to make you grateful to Dade! You have to make you feel like you're being looked at!

Between people, it can be easy to deceive which grade! But it's so hard to build trust again! Those who betrayed me, you will regret it!

The taste of betrayal is too bitter and too strong! Taste it, remember it for a lifetime! It's easy for you to betray me, you're stupidly getting convenience from me, there is no door!

Betray, you will be rewarded by God!

If it is the betrayal of relatives or friends, friends should also be the people you care about more, friends also betrayed you for their own interests, people only consider themselves when they reach the critical time, from the perspective of friends, in fact, there is nothing wrong, you are just a victim of it, and you have a bad impression of it, in fact, the betrayed friends will not be so good in the future Don't think so much, things have happened, more friends are better than one more enemy. So it's good to be an ordinary friend!

For the betrayal of lovers, I can't say too well, it varies from person to person, if you are lovers, it means that you are not married, and if you are not married, it proves that you still have the right to choose. Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, or she betrayed it unintentionally, proving that she is still not good enough, others don't love you so much, and murderers still have a chance to turn over, who can say that if you think she will definitely feel that you have betrayed first? Misunderstandings can also produce such results.

Forgiveness is called forgiveness. Two forgiveness is called generosity, three forgiveness is called weakness, friends, you should understand that people are a very different animal, there is no such rule that a person must not betray you, there is no suitable or inappropriate for the two to be together. There is only who does not cherish whom, so you will be relieved if you want to open it!

It's the same with husband and wife, choose what I love, love what I choose. You're only in charge of yourself. You can't control others, everyone is a separate individual, so why do you have to let go?

Haven't you made a mistake, you are wrong, you also want others to forgive you, remember that you are wrong, just change it, life is not long,.

The cycle of cause and effect, retribution is unpleasant. Whoever betrayed whom, who owes whom, will eventually pass. In the face of life and death, things in life are not a big deal.

Only by keeping one's heart and living up to oneself can we not regret it for the rest of our lives. The so-called law of peace and security in the world is not as good as it is. After all, it won't be both, what you owe someone will have to be repaid after all, and what people owe you may be made up for by another person.

Therefore, experiencing betrayal is also an experience of life. Indifferent, diluted, let it blow like the wind and rain down, life, I have been to ......

Learn a lesson, strive not to be betrayed in the next relationship, and have a long heart.

Tell yourself that although you have been betrayed, this kind of person is not worth remembering, and there will be better people waiting for you. So don't spend too much time dwelling on that.

If you are betrayed in a relationship, it can be very difficult to let go, and every subsequent relationship may have sequelae, so just slowly forget about the relationship over time.

I think that if you are betrayed by the other party in the relationship, then you should give up the relationship in time, and you should immediately divert your attention, so that you can let go of your feelings faster in this relationship.

You must think about it, let this matter not affect you, forget about it, you should eat, you should drink, and you should not wronged yourself.

In the final analysis, betrayal is the direct denial of the most important choice in your life, along with your belief in marriage.

An important step in recovering from psychological trauma after a betrayal is to let go.

The process of letting go is like you have to cut off this rotten piece of flesh on your body yourself, how painful it is, we can imagine. The pain of objectively present love and disgust intertwined. Indeed, I will never forget the despair at three o'clock in the morning that day, and finally understand that I was so sad that I really couldn't cry, and I really wanted to die at that moment.

The moment he discovers the truth, whether it is his recent abnormality or the sweet bits and pieces in the past, it is like an invisible knife, poking straight at you, poking at you again and again.

At first, there was a huge sense of astonishment, and for a moment I felt that I had never seen this person clearly. It turns out that he, who is shining in my heart, can do the most disdainful and disgusting things.

Then there was the excruciating pain of washing his face with tears and weeping silently every night. will think of the previous two people's plans and visions for the future, which turned out to be fake. will feel aggrieved for himself, and the sincerity and love he has given have been fed to the dog.

In all fairness, I didn't do anything bad, how could I encounter such a thing?

The next step is to start hating, and I really want to make this dog man and woman pay the price! Yes, I went to scold, but I still hated it, and the dissatisfaction was unwilling to fill my soul, and all the dark thoughts that I had gathered at this time. But later on, you will find that the damage caused to you by uselessness will not be reduced no matter how much you retaliate.

Then begin to regain your composure, to begin to think, and when you dig deeper into the truth, you will find that the darkness has already begun, and all the doubts that made you in the past are not your delusions, everything has been explained. You also see this person more clearly, after all, splitting betrayal really shows this person's morality and character. No matter how it is remedied afterwards, the person's nature is so that it will not change.

You begin to recall the unpleasant memories that happened with him in the past, and you will find that in fact, many details can be seen that this person is selfish and indifferent, and even I remember the chat record between him and his school sister in the past, what a person who has no sense of boundaries, I was really blind at that time! will gradually discover the weaknesses in his character, the discord with himself, realize that this relationship is really not conducive to my growth, and see a lot, but this is not a relief, I know that the grievances and dissatisfaction in my heart still exist, and they appear again and again.

In the process I mentioned above, there will be countless times of self-denial and self-doubt, and there will be a loss of expectation for future feelings. It takes time to get rid of this negative energy, and I'm slowly getting rid of it.

Those who have betrayed you can no longer be forgiven.