I still want to hear more opinions Two people, how do I choose?

Updated on society 2024-04-20
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You are faced with a choice, so to speak, one is the ex, and the other is the person who just broke up.

    1: I think first of all, you need to analyze the reasons why you left them, and I believe that it was also because of many reasons that you chose to break up.

    2: For the lover who has just broken up, you may think about it more, because after all, the relationship does not dissipate so quickly, and if he keeps insisting, you may not be able to bear to part with him.

    3: Look at the reaction of the two of them, the ex, has been separated for a long time, even if there is a new feeling now, but you have to understand one thing, a person's habits are difficult to change, after you get along again for a while, his former shortcomings are re-revealed, unless you are willing to accept and be tolerant, otherwise you are still facing a breakup. They may be nice to you now and make you nostalgic, but you also need to think about moving on with your life in the future.

    4: The key point in the focus, compare two people, whose shortcomings are easier for you to accept, no matter how strong the love is, you can't fight the mistakes of the other party.

    I wish you happiness. Another point, the cracks between people who have been separated, take a long time to repair, and it is not so easy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Look at your question as if you are asking, if you choose one, how to deal with the aftermath of the other ......In fact, you can physiologically satisfy two at the same time, and in view of the country's national conditions that there are 10% more marriageable men than women, it can also be regarded as contributing to the country. But due to prejudices and pressure from all sides, we had to choose to compromise.

    So since girls have the patience to choose to compromise, boys shouldn't be too bad, a radish and a pit, to be able to find a good female companion for the loser, even if it is benevolent and righteous, if it is all hearted, it is not successful, then it will become benevolent.

    Which one to choose, I think you must have a good idea in your own mind.

    It's just that as the saying goes, "A good horse doesn't eat back grass!" It should be noted that the horse that turns back is not the original horse, and the grass is not the original grass. To start all over again is to abandon preconceptions and manage carefully.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If that's the case, it's really hard to choose. But since they are so affectionate, you should have made a decision earlier. You can't believe my words and the words of others, happiness is something you can grasp and feel by yourself.

    Whether the shoe fits or not, the foot knows. I wish you a good home soon!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't choose either right now!! They should only be your friends, because they are not your favorites yet! Go find your favorite!! Good luck finding your favorites soon!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Choose the first one, get to know each other earlier, and understand it better.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love each other, why don't you continue? Why break up? I don't quite understand

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Test them with the same question and choose the best

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Women have to choose someone who loves them in order to be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Choose B, A is too flowery, although he may have always loved you, but in the future, you will gradually find that he will be irresponsible, such a person is not worthy of your love. B has always liked you, which means that you are very important in his heart, and B should treat you well. But in the end, it's up to you, and feelings can't be forced.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course it's B, a person who only looks at himself and a person who looks at himself but wants to see the scenery outside, who do you think can be reliable?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I feel that B is very fake, so choose your favorite.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Listen to me. You don't have to choose. Time is of the essence. Just keep the two of them at your side. Someday. They will definitely have a wolf heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    We don't know much about these things.

    You also need to think calmly on your own.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Choose your boyfriend, don't wait until you lose it to regret it! It's very simple, the authorities are fans, and I don't want to talk so much nonsense, if I had such a boyfriend, I wouldn't like anyone else at all, everyone else's is good, this sentence is really good! I won't say more, it's already clear!

    You will lose your boyfriend because of that man, then you really don't deserve to be happy, because some of us poor people who don't get happiness don't have a choice, to put it mildly, you don't give it to me, I'm still single! Do you understand?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hey, do you think your boyfriend will wait for you to be a candidate?

    Maybe now he accommodates you, but he has been hurt, and the most important trust in love has been destroyed by you. When another girl shows up, he'll leave you without a smile.

    Don't ask who to choose now, you don't have a choice, be with the boy you know now, no one knows what the result will be.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Pick your boyfriend. Or you'll regret it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If I were you and I chose my boyfriend, it seems that you were confused by the appearance of this boy now. He likes you now, but it doesn't mean that he will like you in the future, you only have been together for so much time and said that one likes the other, does he know you? Do you know him?

    Just say you like it, it's not necessarily too early! I hope you don't take this risk, or choose your original boyfriend! Only he is really good to you, more than two years of affection is enough to prove, choose him!

    That's right. I've experienced it myself, and I hope you don't do anything you regret, and I used to be like you, giving up a boyfriend who was very good to me. I chose a handsome boy, and I found out later that it was my original boyfriend who was sincere to me, but it was too late, so I regretted not choosing him and giving up on him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Shoes don't fit until they are worn on your feet, and only you can feel whether they fit or not, or whether they fit you.

    Think bigger.

    I believe that you have a long time in your heart.,I just feel sorry for the one who is far away.。。

    In fact, there are many times in people's lives who have made the wrong choice, and they can't say that they are wrong, they can only say that they have missed a better opportunity. But you have to choose, believe in your own feelings, others can't help you, and other people's feelings are not necessarily right... Believe in yourself ...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Same as above, choose your boyfriend, you are still a student, your thinking is relatively simple, after all, that boy is in society, ideologically, it is different from you, it didn't take long to say that I like you, you have to think about it. With such a good boyfriend, why don't you cherish it. Why do you have to do this?

    Since you told your boyfriend that you would play with that boy for a month and come back, he promised you all to prove that he loves you too much. It's really hard for a boy to make such a decision, I'm so afraid of losing you.

    But you don't know how to cherish it, may I ask a girl and a boy who really loves himself. When you lose it, you know how to cherish it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Lady.

    My girlfriend did the same.

    When I was chasing her.

    She also has a boyfriend.

    I only said one word to her.

    Who are you happy with. Whoever you choose.

    You have to think about it, too.

    Whether this man can be entrusted for life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It can't wish you, but if I were your boyfriend, I wouldn't let you choose. And I'll let you go to the man right away. Feelings are the space of two people, and the feelings of a third person are not the essence of feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not for anything else, for everyone's happiness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I'll pick J.

    Because there is a famous saying: I love the one who doesn't love me, I love the one who loves me, I don't love or you should try a showdown with w and see what he says to you, but I think the one who loves himself is always better than the one who doesn't!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's easy! A husband with a sense of security, and everything else is a lover.

    It is said that the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Choose the one that reassures you, you don't like him very much, but he will reassure you!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Well, it's hard for outsiders to comment on love. Love or not, happy or not, only you know, and it is quite normal to have a good impression of two people at the same time, don't feel like you have nothing to taste. If you really want to choose one, follow your heart, and think carefully about who you will live happily with in the future, and life needs not only love, but also material, cultural, family and other factors.

    Calm down and weigh which is more important, after all, stepping on two boats is not a way I wish you to find your true love and happiness!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If it's me, I'll choose the second one. Girls always hope that their boyfriends can take care of themselves by their side, if they are far away and do not understand your life circle, slowly your common topics will become less, what problems you encounter he wants to comfort you and can't start, and people are always slowly changing, strangeness arises from this, you love him before, thinking that it was good before, but maybe those good are not what you need most now, you must know it yourself, so you will be with your colleagues. It is possible that you and your current colleagues will get married, and if you don't change jobs, you may be able to buy a house in the local area, and you will have a foundation for long-term development.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    1. Adjust your mentality. First of all, there is nothing wrong with you liking two people at the same time. Because people have a certain tendency to polygamy, people have a lot of desires, and it is almost impossible to find a person who can meet all their needs and desires, so it is normal for me to like two boys at the same time.

    2. Determine the reasons why you like these two boys, as well as the value comparison between the two people, and finally make a decision. If you like your boyfriend for the same reason as you like another person, such as: both are handsome, or both are very sweet, etc.

    Their overall value is also relatively close, such as similar appearance, and the degree of goodness to you is also similar.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Like a person, choose a person is to see who you love the most in your heart, not to look at superficial things.

    Who do you think you love the most? If the answer is that you love both, then it can only be up to which of them is the best for you. You'll read this, and now, I suggest that you don't choose either of them yet, and then choose when you think about it and understand who you really need in your heart.

    Otherwise, if you choose it so quickly, it will be as painful as it is now.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Alas, no one can make a decision for you, because we can't see these two people, and we don't know much about their character, so you can only weigh it slowly yourself, who you love is very important, and it's really difficult to find someone you love and love yourself. Therefore, we must not ruin our lifelong happiness because of the present, because there are many people who still regret it. Take the choice yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, it can only be said that people go to high places, but people can't always be like this in this life; There are a few times when I'm quite in favor of it, because it means that life is getting better and better, after all, sometimes marriage is based on economic conditions.

    Of course, the most important thing is to look at who can live better, that is, don't just look at the present, sometimes you should think about the future, see who is more productive and who can be better for you in the future.

    Don't think I'm ruthless, but that's how the world is, and I'm still very sincere when I say that. I'm a man!

    I wish you the right choice and think carefully!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In my opinion, if you like your ex-boyfriend enough, you won't like your current boyfriend, since your ex-boyfriend has become an ex, it means that you don't like him as much as you think, maybe you can't forget him, you can't forget the memories between you, and your ex-boyfriend is now far away from home, nothing can be accomplished, if you choose him, even if you reconcile You will quarrel over all kinds of trivial things in the future, and you will even feel that he is not motivated, so I think it is better to grasp the person in front of you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you have the intention of marrying one of them, whether you are poor or rich, whether you are healthy or trapped by illness, you will make a decision, otherwise it is very painful to have no love.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Which do you think will give you joy. can give you happiness. Choose him! Turn back early, or by the time you make a decision, he may have faded to you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If a colleague likes two people, go for the second one, because if the first one is really good to you, you won't like the second one.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I choose this. One is the same company, and the career is successful. The current boyfriend at home.

    It's better to find someone you love than to find someone who loves you, and you will be happier.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Think about whether you can not see your ex-boyfriend for 100 days, or you can not see your current boyfriend for 100 days.

    Do you suddenly think of your ex when you're with your current incumbent?

    I think it's normal, after all, after getting along for so long, there must be a lot of feelings, and I can't forget it all at once.

    Sensei worries, first put me in the happiness of the present

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's okay to like two people, sometimes love is like this, the main thing is who can make you happy and happy, and who can give you happiness, with whom.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Do you love your ex or do you like your current now? Since you like both, find the one who loves you more and alienate the other at the same time, I think time will make you forget....

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Is your current boyfriend good to you? Is the character good? If it's qualified, it's him.

    Sometimes poor couples mourn everything!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    A lover and a husband.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You're out of taste

    It is advisable to get rid of it as soon as possible.

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