What should I do if two people are together and my parents don t agree?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If the woman's parents disagree, I recommend finding out what your girlfriend thinks first, asking her what her parents are unhappy with you and how she thinks about it. If she respects her parents' opinions, then you need to face the pressure of the woman's parents alone and persevere, no matter what. Bring some gifts to the woman's house, and then be honest about the topic, and ask them to give you a little time to prove that you are still very good, and the point is that it is really good for their daughter.

    After a long time, the contradictions between each other will be eased a lot, and the better your chances. Don't jump to conclusions and give everyone a little time. Of course, it also depends on your girlfriend's attitude, because if you are alone under pressure, it is indeed very difficult.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If two people really love each other, they should continue to get along without hesitation. Make your own decisions about your own youth! As for the parents, they can gradually influence them in their future interactions.

    At the same time, you can take your parents' opinions as a wake-up call, seriously reflect on your own shortcomings, strive to overcome your shortcomings, learn lessons, and do more things that your parents like, which will definitely change their views after a long time. Because, all parents in the world are the same, there is no one who does not love their children.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your parents don't agree, it means that her parents don't know enough about you, so give them time to approve of you, do what they like, and do more things to make them look good. If the two really love each other, when the raw rice is cooked and cooked, it will be recognized, and it is the most objectionable time before getting married, don't care too much, because you are looking for a girl, not her parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Aside from external factors, two people who love each other are the main body of marriage, but feelings are inseparable from real life, and marriage is inseparable from the blessings of both parents, and there must be a reason for parents' opposition. If the parents are selfish and oppose it out of their own interests, young people can persuade each other to be family, and since young people love each other, I don't think there is anything to stop them, it depends on whether they are firm or not.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Parents don't agree with you being together, there must be their reasons and worries, first figure out what is going on and then analyze it, can the two of you eliminate their worries, explain the reason to them thoroughly, I think parents will bless you, after all, parents want their children to live well!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, you have to consider whether the other party is something you can't miss, and then you have to integrate the other party's personality characteristics and whether they have self-thoughts, so as to judge whether the other party can stick with you. Whether or not to persist depends largely on whether the other person can withstand the pressure from your family, or whether you have the ability to convince the other person that you will persevere with you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why exactly do both parents disagree? What is the problem to solve, is it because of the bride price or because the door is not the right one? Or is there another reason?

    Find the root cause of the problem to find a way to do, there is a way is always more than difficult, how can it be so difficult to solve, in fact, love is the more opposed the more thriving, once the parents of both sides do not object, maybe there is no challenge, but the relationship is not as good as before. Love also has a shelf life, and you will know it when you are really married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm still single and have been in love twice. Both of those relationships were free love, and my parents didn't particularly like it, but I broke up purely for my own reasons.

    My parents have introduced me to a few blind dates, including the son of a colleague and friend, and even an older brother who is leading the family. Out of politeness and respect for my parents, I tried to chat, but I found that there were too many differences in three views and personalities, so I didn't get to it.

    For this reason, my mother also quarreled with me, saying that I was too ambitious, so I was always single.

    I really can't understand why being single must be because of high vision? Why do I have to fall in love or marry my parents if they think they are suitable for marriage?

    If I don't feel like someone my parents like, then I will definitely not accept it;

    If the person I like is someone my parents can't accept, then I will definitely stick to it.

    Falling in love and getting married should be my own business, and the person who lives with each other for a lifetime is just me, and I don't want even a lifetime of things to be arranged.

    I find that there are very few truly enlightened parents nowadays because they always like to say a word:

    I'm all for your good.

    It is because of such a phrase "for your own good" that they will impose their hopes on their children.

    For example, when they were free to love and get married, their later lives were poor and hard, and they hoped that their children could find a rich man.

    But in the process, they don't pay much attention to the emotional factor, and try to persuade us with the phrase "feelings can be cultivated".

    But "freedom to fall in love and freedom to marry" should be the pursuit of every young person.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Marriages that are not blessed by their parents are generally not too happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Both parents disagree, if you are in love, then convince them, and if you don't stick to it and don't love each other so much, then talk about what to do.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the parents do not agree to the marriage, there must be their reasons, so listen to the opinions of the parents and why they do not agree.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The fortune teller is not necessarily accurate, you see if he dares to be 100% sure.

    The fortune teller used to say the same about my sister, but isn't it still a good life?

    Actually, you can not care about your parents, as long as two people really love each other, nothing can stop you.

    My parents didn't agree with me either, but I never worried about getting married when I was old enough to get married.

    In fact, parents are very soft-hearted, you just need to tell them well. You have to show them how much you love each other and you can't do without it

    After a long time, parents naturally agreed, because no parent will force their children to death.

    Besides, you will be the one who will be the one you choose, and they can't be sure that even if you leave the current one, you will be able to find a better one in the future, so you have to tell them not to hate them again after you live your life in the future.

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