What to do when love and family are in conflict

Updated on educate 2024-04-28
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on how the conflict is. If it is a small contradiction, then you play a key role, you can not care about it, and resolve it secretly, otherwise small things will become big things. For example, when your mother says that your boyfriend (or girlfriend) friend is not good, and your boyfriend (or girlfriend) friend also feels a little unhappy, then don't explain it to him (her) in front of your mother, and don't explain it to your mother in front of him (her), they are opposites.

    That's when you might say a word about love"No matter what you do, I still love you so much", or say a word to your mom"I am very happy with him (her) now, and we are also in contact with each other, but I don't want to have any misunderstanding, misunderstanding will make people regret, and at the moment I think I will be very sad without him (her), but anyway, my mother is the most important person in the world, so now I am even more sad if you are unhappy, I really hope you don't care. "...Of course, what I'm saying now is ideal, but you can try it this way, and that's what it means depending on your character.

    Don't want to choose one and give up one at every turn, in fact, what kind of life you live with what kind of person, and other personal versions are different, and you can't avoid small contradictions with anyone. If it is a matter of principle, then it is necessary to discuss the matter, love cannot be ambiguous, and family affection cannot be ignored! Wishing you happiness and happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should work hard to reconcile, and believe that your parents will make their children happy!! But the love you choose must be very reliable!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Family affection is important, and there will be a next time if love is lost.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Known as "loyalty, filial piety and good fighting", family and love also experience a dilemma, and no one can solve it perfectly, so they can only abandon one to complete the other. And my choice is that I have to choose kinship. I'd rather lose my girlfriend than live in the pain and self-blame of my wife, and protect my parents well.

    The others are not for the five words "Hundred Virtues and Filial Piety First".

    What do you do when love and love conflict and make you embarrassed? Family ties are stronger. Because parents in the world do not confide in their children.

    Feelings vary from person to person and are closer to gambling, gambling is their own life, and it fluctuates a lot. Feelings and emotional conflicts, can only try to find a balance. Parents love you, so you can compromise unconditionally.

    When love meets love, we don't choose which one to give up, but to concentrate on resolving the contradictions between the two feelings and finding ways to achieve a win-win result. Holding and choosing which one is an immature act. Because love and love can coexist.

    As long as you find out the contradictions and communicate well from the aspects, family affection can tolerate love, and love can fit family affection well.

    When love and love are in a dilemma, I will just talk about things and don't choose blindly. If my lover does not value filial piety and his eyes are not respected, I will choose family affection. My lover is fine, but if the family makes irresponsible remarks and pointing fingers at my lover for no reason.

    I will choose to love her, be with her, and protect her. Love is a matter for both of you. The final choice is yours.

    There's really no need to ignore other people's eyes and thoughts.

    I think family affection is the most important thing. Choose affection! Because the best people in the world must be relatives!

    If you get married in the future, it is because of the marriage of love with your husband or wife, but if you are a family, love is also sublimated into family affection, and you and the person you love have also become relatives! If I give up love because of my family, I am willing. Because family is always looking out for you.

    If you really love each other, choose to love, but in the case of good health of your parents, no matter what kind of gap it is, as long as you give enough time, you will slowly get better. But there may only be one person you love. It's better not to decide which one to choose.

    Or I want to help you clear the conflict. Family affection is what we have quit, and we can't throw away love if we throw it away.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If my relatives have always been very good to me, I choose affection, and if my lover treats me sincerely, I choose affection. If both sides treat me badly, I will choose whichever side is justified.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will choose to persuade and counsel both parties in different ways, and then buy some gifts to comfort both parties, so that they will stop arguing and realize their mistakes.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I am a person who puts family affection first, and if there is a dispute between feelings and family affection, I will not choose family affection without hesitation, because only family will not abandon you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When there is a dispute between feelings and family affection, I will first try to balance feelings and family affection, and I will try to resolve the contradiction between the two.

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