About the troubles with classmates, and unpleasant things with classmates

University student? It's been more than a year since I started living in college!

One thing I found was that I was becoming more and more "selfish"! There are no big opinions among roommates, it's just that many times, small problems keep coming! In fact, the relationship between roommates is very delicate, and you can't put your heart into it, and you can't ignore it!

It is hypocritical to be too good, and it is indifferent to ignore people!

I just want to do my own thing now, I used to clean consciously, but when they take my work for granted, I am "selfish"! I just clean up my desk, and I don't take the initiative to sweep and mop the floor and take out the garbage. Finally, everyone agrees to work in groups of two for a week!

The mind is heavy, but you look too hard! Do your own things well, be kind to yourself, don't pay too much attention to other people's opinions, you will be hurt because you care, just look light!

You need to be a little generous and pay a little bit of a small profit, that is, take a little bit of money to make it popular.

It's okay to talk to someone more and eliminate the strangeness.

When you talk to others, you also say, put forward your point of view, in fact, you are a psychological problem, if you ask them privately, you will know that you think like that you have wronged others, and I am like this, you are too relieved. I'm in a similar situation to you now, I'm introverted again, I'm inferior to death, and I'm thinking about it now. Don't think too much about it.

I remember one time a very unpleasant thing happened to me at my tablemate.

It happened to be noon that day, both of us didn't finish our homework, and we were very restless, so we were busy writing homework, and we both had a rule that no one could exceed the tangent line we draw, but he overcame it, and touched my hand, I frowned and wanted to say something but couldn't say it, so I had to lower my head and continue to write my homework After a few minutes, his hand came over again, and I said to him impatiently, look at how many times you have overtaken, he sighed and said to me, you, then you put your hand so much, How do I write my homework? Will you help me write it? As a result, we really quarreled, and the whole class heard the class leader come to persuade us, but no matter how much he persuaded us, we still quarreled with me and kicked the table to the other side, squatted down and cried.

The squad leader told the whole class to stand up, and I also stood up, and the squad leader told me to sit down, and I didn't hear it, and he told me to sit down, and I ignored him for several days, but then we reconciled.

I haven't forgotten it.

Whenever I open the pencil case and see the black pen, I can't help but think of an incident that happened a few days ago.

It was Thursday night in the nursery class, and I was writing my homework, when Mr. Zhu walked in and gave me a proposal for the Young People's Congress, asking me to fill it out before class and give it to Mr. Wang, and asked me to fill it out with a black pen. When I heard it clearly, I picked up a black pen and began to write. As I wrote, the handwriting on the paper faded, and when I looked, there was no ink in the pen.

What can I do? I'm about to pay it, ask my classmates to borrow it? Everyone has to do their homework, and it's impossible to lend it to me.

I'm as anxious as an ant on a hot pan, and I don't know what to do. Suddenly, Xiao Yi, who was writing her homework, saw it, and asked with concern, "What's wrong, Xiaoting, do you need my help?"

I said, "Even if you are a god, you can't help me!" "What the hell is going on?"

Hurry up! "I can't write it with a pen, but the proposal is about to be handed in, and I'm in a hurry!" "I thought there was all the fuss!

Xiaoyi said, "I'll borrow you." Xiao Qi, who was sitting in front, heard it, turned around and said, "The teacher doesn't require that this homework can only be written with a black pen, and you only have one, which you lend to Xiao Ting, what should you do?"

Aren't you afraid that you will be left behind because you can't finish your homework? Didn't we say okay, let's go to Xiao Gui's house after school today? Xiao Yi smiled and said

Since she has an urgent use, of course I will lend it to Xiaoting first, is the overall situation important! With that, he handed me the pen, and I looked at her with gratitude and began to write quickly. After a while, the proposal was written, and I returned the pen to Xiaoyi, who successfully completed her homework before the class bell rang.

Although this incident is small, it has left a deep impression on me, and a pen embodies the sincere friendship between me and Xiaoyi.

It's normal for friends to fight and fight with each other, and there is no deep hatred and hatred as you think. It would be nice to lower it a little bit and coax.

Emotions are always short-lived, and things between classmates don't need to be too much to worry about.

Apologizing is only a small damage to unwarranted dignity, and it will reap more cherished friendships.

The time between classmates is short, and they cherish the time of a few years, humble and help each other, and leave good memories of their classmates.

Students should help each other learn from each other, take care of each other, care for each other, enhance excellence, unite and love, and make progress together to achieve common goals.

The friendship between classmates is not a word of broken friendship, and some of the girls I know speak very ruthlessly and do things very friendly! It should have been angry at the time, you have to continue to get along with her, the affection of your classmates is very sincere! Bless you all!

Yes, classmate love and comradeship are the most genuine affection between friends, and those who enter the society are not so simple, use each other, and intrigue each other! It's okay to get by on the surface.

It's a little hairy among classmates, and that's not a thing. The feelings of classmates are cherished and sincere, and friendship is lifelong. Will everything be fine if you tolerate each other?

It is common for classmates to fight with each other, so be considerate of each other. If that's the case, you can coax her. It's good to have fun!

It's nice to get along with classmates, I don't know if you're in junior high school, high school, or college. When you join the work and go to society, you will know how beautiful the relationship between classmates is, class reunions, comrades-in-arms reunions. It's not the same as getting together with friends. You'll feel it when you've experienced it.

There is no way to do it, and the classmates don't choose it themselves, so they can only endure it.

There are a lot of bad things between classmates, as long as you know how to be considerate and have a big heart.

Your classmate is not interested in learning and doesn't like to study, so that's why he is like this, and he is excited when he plays with his mobile phone, and he doesn't sleep. If you want to help your classmates, you must make him interested in learning and let him know the importance of learning.

A few years ago, I was struggling with something like this, but now I look back and feel like I'm stupid.

Students should be tolerant and considerate of each other, as long as they sincerely pay, they will definitely gain.

Slowly fade between classmates! Each has its own things and its own life circle.

You shouldn't apologize, she doesn't fully understand you, and you don't need to be overly tolerant of her.

The friendship between classmates is the purest and most innocent, so that people miss it for a lifetime.

It's all children, don't take your unhappiness too seriously, it's really not worth it when you look back in the future.

As long as they are true friends, it won't last long, maybe they will be reconciled after a while.

The little things are gone. Tomorrow is a new beginning.

First of all, I would like to say that LZ's junior high school experience is similar to mine. However, since your grades are so good, you should be more confident, because they are jealous of you, and they will be useless in the future. If you mix with them in junior high school and your grades drop, your future will be hindered, and the future is even more important.

If you want to make friends, then you have to understand them, see who is suitable to be your friend, chat a few words with the person you want to be friends with, talk more, you will naturally become friends, you have to open your heart, bold, confident and sincere to make friends with others, because I believe that sincerity can move people. However, I think friends are not that important, one or two friends are enough, but don't be cautious about making friends.

LZ I would like to say that since you were assigned to the regular class because of your poor grades, you should find a way to fill in the gaps and improve your grades as before. Since your table mates are like bastards, then I think you should tell the teacher about this kind of thing, communicate with the teacher more, maybe you are afraid of losing face, but in any case, since you want to improve your grades, do well in the college entrance examination, and let the teacher like you, then the only way is to communicate with the teacher privately, if you don't dare, then talk to your parents. Otherwise, tell the teacher privately, write a letter to the teacher, or tell the teacher in person.

This is the only way to tell the teacher what you think, after all, he is your teacher.

I said this, I hope lz think about it, it's okay, come on, I believe you will be able to do it, bravely tell the teacher, tell the teacher what you want to say in your heart, and the teacher should understand you. Come on, come on, come on.

Hey, teenage troubles, I'm in college, and I also have some troubles that make me very distressed, and now listening to you talk about this, I also have a lot of feelings. Sometimes it is painful to be at peace with something that is always on my mind, so I try my best to help you untie the knot.

For some gangster students, it is actually very wise to stay away from them, neither to be in the same boat, but also not to directly conflict with them, so you don't feel what your character is, in fact, this is a very normal mentality, and it is also a very correct approach! If he affects you too much, I think you have to change positions and stay away from him! How to do it.

You can tell the teacher directly that you are introverted, you may be embarrassed, or you have a lot of other concerns, but as soon as you take this step, you start to gradually end the darkness and move away from the pain!

LZ, you can't go on like this anymore. You know.

I've felt this way before, but I think it's a way for some students to make friends, so there's no need to care too much, just study hard.

Two methods.

Become an extrovert, find more people to play with, make more friends, have a good relationship with your tablemates, don't make yourself very inferior, the more inferior you are, the more you are bullied.

Work hard to complete homework, communicate with teachers in class, improve teacher-student relations, change seats, or transfer classes.

For the relationship between classmates, there are both academic cooperation and competition, how do we grasp the friendship in this contradiction? My opinion is,"There is tolerance and is thick"!

1 Friendship is tolerant and belongs to the word "sincerity".

The hearts of students are open, the communication is frank, and the help is selfless. In terms of learning, you should motivate each other; In life, you should care about your classmates. When your classmates achieve results, you should silently bless and applaud them.

You say, "It turns out that she has been working her own, and I went to show all my hole cards without reservation." In the end, my name fell to Sun Shan, and she got her wish and entered the list of provincial outstanding three good students. True friendship should not contain this kind of jealousy, because jealousy not only hurts classmates, but also causes oneself to lose one's friendship.

Do you have to repay you every day when you study hard and diligently? Could it be that you can't be rated as a provincial outstanding three-good student, and your classmates shouldn't be rated either, so you should really be in trouble with you"? You should learn to appreciate the success of your classmates and not be afraid that your classmates will use them more than you.

2 Friendship is tolerant, and it is attributed to the word "lawsuit".

Bacon once said, "If you tell happiness to a classmate, you will get two happiness." And if you pour out your sorrow to a classmate, you will share half of it."

Pouring out your heart is a way to express friendship. Because of the interests of the provincial outstanding three good students, there will inevitably be some friction, some contradictions, and some misunderstandings between good students, you might as well treat your provincial outstanding three good students with a normal heart, take the initiative, tell your classmates your troubles to use, and seek help from classmates in work. I think that as long as both sides understand, tolerate and forgive each other, the little unpleasantness will disappear and the friendship between us will be deeper.

3 Friendship is tolerant, attributed to the word "weaving".

When it comes to friendship between classmates, we always look forward to an unforgettable and touching friendship, and we can't tolerate the dullness in the interaction and the little bit of learning in learning. In fact, treating friendship is like knitting a sweater, as long as we have a long yarn, a calm mood, and unremitting weaving, there will be a beauty waiting for you, maybe not every piece is so successful, so satisfying, but as long as you still have the mood of weaving, there will be beautiful works.

Of course, when you encounter failure, your classmates are not waiting by your side to pray for you and share your worries, but stay away and avoid. Don't try to save anything, and don't get caught up in the old friendship that no longer exists, and feel indignant about it, as if you have been greatly wronged. You should know that a person's character is a product of nature and environment, not something you can control, you can only accept their products as established facts, jump out of personal grievances, be a clear person, and understand life and society through your own experience, you will get a peaceful mood.