How can such a 9 year old girl be psychologically counseled to help her grow?

Dizzy, the same thing I had some time ago!

My girlfriend is working for someone else's private shop, she is a salesperson, and their boss is also a woman, there is a girl of a few years, and the girl is pitiful and her parents don't care about her! Mom and Dad like to play mahjong, but her mother doesn't care about her daughter, and the little girl is also pitiful, because her parents don't care about her, and her grandfather also dotes on her, so her temper is very bad! When I am not happy, I beat, scold, and spit on him, and I am very disobedient.

My girlfriend is also tired, and she has to work as a nanny when she is a salesperson. This kid has a bad temper, my girlfriend also has a personality, I'm afraid she will be very unhappy, when I talked to her that day, I actually said that she didn't care, poor little girl, after listening to it, I was relieved Maybe it's motherhood.

Later, every time I went to pick up my girlfriend, I played with the little girl, and her boss was more happy and took 2 hours off in advance to let us play with her. The little girl was also very happy, we taught her not to hit people, scold people, or whatever, and slowly became well-behaved One day when I was playing, the little girl picked up a snail and picked it up to show my girlfriend and said, "Mom, look at it, it's a snail!"

I was a little sad and a little happy when I heard it!

Every day when we leave, the little girl is difficult, she doesn't let us go, cry! Even coaxing and playing to go missing can go home

I don't know how the landlord feels when he reads my little story, my summary lacks father's love and mother's love! If you can give her this kind of family warmth, I believe that your uncle's granddaughter will be better, but do you have that perseverance?

Give a slap to a sweet date.

1. Curiosity, I want to listen, see, and do everything, but I lack patience.

2. Willing to take the initiative to participate in group activities, cheerful and lively. This is a sign of a thirst for knowledge and rapid physical development. Strong intellectual curiosity, poor self-control, poor stability, the child's curiosity and desire for knowledge prompt her to ask questions, need you or find answers with her, need patience, do not perfunctory, refusal.

3. The need for self-esteem and autonomy is awakening rapidly, and it begins to show the psychological characteristics of tending to advantages and disadvantages. For example: don't let adults talk about her, don't let parents do things for her, don't let parents watch her do things.

4. Children begin to germinate interpersonal relationship needs, looking forward to interacting with peers and adults, but not good at dealing with interpersonal problems, because children in kindergarten and primary school, there is no concept of real friend relationships, and they need to solve her problems, but also need to relieve her embarrassment, and meet her needs.

5. Children begin to be sensitive to external reactions and worship powerful heroes. I began to care about other people's eyes and evaluations, classmates said that it was good, comparison, vanity is strong, and education and guidance are needed, rather than labeling and hat-buckling accusations.

As a parent, you need to review your own life and family relationships. We have the obligation to provide children with a safe, non-violent, trusting, supportive and helpful living environment, so that children can grow up physically and mentally healthy!

Everyone's psychology is different and varies from person to person. I guess you mean feelings!

Often introverted girls, not good at speaking, pondering. If she loves a boy, he won't say it, just pay attention to him, care about him, and occasionally make a small gesture to get the boy's attention. If you bump into it on the road, you will blush, your heart will beat faster, and you will be embarrassed.

If a boy chases a girl and the girl likes it, then she can't help but say that she is not good on the surface, but she likes it very much in her heart, and she wants to get his love, get his hug, and be with him. I didn't agree much at first, but after a long time, I agreed, and it seemed that she didn't lose a girl.

Even some extroverted girls will have this kind of reaction. The more extroverted one is to like it, and to be direct.

In terms of China's current national conditions, many nine- and ten-year-old children have been exposed to things such as love and sex, but the children do not understand it, and are generally just curious. This requires the right guidance of him or her and not letting him or her go astray. It is useless to rely on inhibition alone, and people are rebellious.

Only if he or she can accept it, try to teach him or her as much as possible. In this era of advanced network communication, try to let him or her have as little contact as possible with some knowledge about these aspects. When it comes to making friends, you also need to pay attention.

As a woman, you should understand that a woman's mind is opened, and suppression cannot be suppressed, even if she is just a child. Strictly control the child's work and rest time, and also need to pay attention to her behavior in terms of entertainment. When communicating with her, try to communicate with her in a relaxed and joking tone, explain the relationship with her, and communicate with her in a way that is half open and half close to the topic.

Nine-year-old girls are about the third grade, and the curriculum in the third grade is very simple, and the child's academic performance is not a measure of merit or inferiority. It is important to pay early attention to the child's problems in non-intellectual factors. The key is to demand more from them in terms of concentration, self-control, independence, and developing good habits.

For example, lack of concentration, procrastination in writing homework, lack of homework, carelessness; and personality problems: such as timidity, crying, eating hands, tantrums, etc., and these problems will be more prominent at the age of the year, such as a sudden decline in academic performance, emotional instability, etc. For example, whether you can sit still in class, how well you do in physical education class, whether you can skip rope, whether you seem clumsy in coordination, etc.

Summary. In fact, a ten-year-old child is already reasonable, you can also communicate with him calmly, do not use violent methods, use love to influence him, analyze the pros and cons of irritability with him, and give him examples.

A ten-year-old girl's personality has changed very strangely, how to guide it?

Dear, you can communicate more with your child and try to be friends with your child. Understand things from a child's point of view.

In fact, a ten-year-old child is already reasonable, you can also communicate with him calmly, don't use violent ways to decay, use love to influence him, and analyze the pros and cons of irritable stupidity with him, and give him examples.

Hello. Hello.

My daughter is 10 years old.

Just do what I said.

I'm menstruating, too, and there's no way around it.

Loud, quarrelsome.

What to do? Dear, don't worry! You tell your child that it's a sign of growing up!

First of all you don't lose your temper.

Be gentle with your children!

<>-year-old children are rebellious and accompany Liang Sui, and correct psychological counseling should be carried out.

Young children have begun to gradually form self-awareness, but they are still in the stage of ignorant scum, so they are prone to self-centeredness, with obvious emotions and one-sidedness. At this time, parents should have enough patience, neither can they deny their children in the whole text, nor can they let their children go freely, and should be correctly guided to gradually establish a correct outlook on life and values.