How to meet new classmates, how to take the initiative to meet new classmates, and make new friends

Finally, we will talk about how to get along with classmates and friends in daily life. I think the following should be done: (1) This is what I emphasize the most, and that is sincerity.

Any relationship is sincere, and if the relationship loses sincerity, it is not an emotion. Treat your classmates sincerely, then your classmates will treat you sincerely. Then the friendship can continue.

2) Learn to help each other. Actively help students to establish a high prestige in the student community. When students are in difficulty, we should extend a hand of friendship and take the initiative to help students solve difficulties, even if we can't help solve them, as long as we are willing to listen to our classmates' complaints about their difficulties or pain, this is also help.

Because the difficulties in the outside world are temporary, but the pain in the heart is long-lasting, some people say that if a person tells others about his pain, then his pain will only be half of the original. Those who only know how to bury their heads in their studies all day long, refuse the help of their classmates under various excuses, and regard the help of their classmates as a pure burden and a waste of their time, they will slowly be snubbed among their classmates, and they refuse to help their classmates, and as a result, they will not get help from everyone. There was once a classmate who was often just perfunctory in the face of his classmates' inquiries, and as a result, his prestige became lower and lower.

In a composition class, the teacher asked the students to volunteer to form groups and communicate with each other, but no one in the class was willing to form a group with him, which made him embarrassed. In the end, the teacher put him in a group so that he would not be unable to get off the stage. Therefore, we should have the idea of helping others and actively helping our classmates to make progress together.

3) Beware of pride in front of your classmates. For example, if your academic performance is better than that of one of your classmates, you look down on him. This will create an artificial barrier between you and your classmates, and the proud person will not tolerate others, and others will not want to be with the proud person again.

Then, your friendship may break down because of this. So, beware of arrogant thoughts. (4) Learn to tolerate and avoid contradictions, as the saying goes

Be forgiving and forgiving". Of course, forbearance is not cowardice, and sometimes it is necessary to learn to protect yourself appropriately. Adopt it.

As the saying goes: things gather by like, and people are grouped. You don't have a common hobby or topic that makes you good friends, as you might like

Student A likes to drink Coke, and you like to drink Coke, so when you are together, you can discuss the ** of Coke and why you like Coke, (I'm just giving you an example of sending more topics from the chat.)

You must have a skill (handsome and good at learning) to attract the attention of others, when you overshadow others, the people around you will unconsciously move closer to you, learn well others will depend on your learning often ask you questions, over time will naturally become a good friend who depends on you, so having a skill is a person's way of making friends.

Good words and deeds and morality, communicate with people to be informal, try to help in everything, don't talk too much, simple and clear, humorous and witty, for example: you borrow money from others, try to repay it before the agreed time, so that others have a sense of trust in you. Don't make fun of other people's shortcomings, try to be gregarious.

What you promise to others must be done, or don't just say yes.

Or take an alternative style, so that others think that you are a very different person, in order to attract the attention of others is that the other party has a sense of mystery about you, wants to understand you and become friends with you. However, this method is a bit extreme, and most people will not use this method to become friends with others.

In addition, your family is very rich, "money can make ghosts grind", who doesn't want to know rich people, the teacher will sell you three points of thin noodles, occasionally invite people to eat together, invite people to drink and finger fiercely. I believe that everyone will unconsciously become good friends with such a person.

The most popular pair of pants is that you are always trendy, whether it is the clothes you wear or the games you play, they are always the latest and most popular, and you will slowly influence the people around you to imitate you. When you reach this point, it proves that you already have a common topic and have gradually become friends.

Try to observe what she (he) likes, if it is at the same table, it will be better, you can pretend that you don't know the question to ask him in class, if he is, whether it is right or wrong, you have to clap your hands and say that it is great, try to be humorous, don't show off your own things, it will be very offensive, the first classmate to help when it is difficult, or the classmate behind drops the pen, you pick it up and smile and say to him: Your pen is off. Although this is very old-fashioned, but it works very well, there is another point, others are piled up there to watch, try not to join in the fun, in case you say the wrong thing, it will attract the disgust of many classmates, try to be quiet, take a walk after class, breathe fresh air, and chat with classmates, it is much better than those students who play in the corridor all day long, in case of trouble, accidentally hit each other's somewhere, bleeding, it will make the relationship between classmates worse and worse.

Also, when other students are in class, try not to make noise, listen quietly, if you are a woman, you should be quiet, if you are a man, you should be generous, when you have a question in class, the voice is loud, and it is okay if you are wrong, because your classmates will feel that you are shy and will not be very proud, and I hope you can get along with your new classmates