My husband is too strong, what should I do, how to get along with my husband if he is too strong

You graduated from junior high school in a poor mountainous area, and your original capital was young and beautiful, but with the passage of time, your youth is gone, and your beauty is gone.

Naturally, there is no capital, and the color is declining and the love is relaxed, which has been like this since ancient times, and only more and more indifferent in the future. If you have other capital, education, career and your own spiritual pursuit, then you will not depreciate over time, but will only appreciate more and more. If you want to leave because you have fallen out of favor, you will not be more favored elsewhere, or you will continue to fall out of favor after a short period of favor.

Because you don't have the capital to be favored. There is no capital to develop their own spirit and career to spoil others. Clothes to reach out and eat to open their mouths is the life of pets, can pets be guaranteed to be favored for a lifetime?

Unless you stay the same age and look you were when you got married for the rest of your life. But it is impossible to maintain a young age, and falling out of favor is inevitable.

Change yourself.

It can be seen from this text that your husband is quite good, ambitious, and loves his family. As for you. I think men are like that.

I like the new a little bit and hate the old. There are too few who are too single-minded. Change yourself a little.

Let your husband also see that you are different from usual. See the end. I think you don't love your husband a little bit, huh.

I don't know what you think your married life is not dull. I'm not married, and I don't know. But after all, now I have children.

If not to the point where you can't get by. There is no need to go for a divorce. If it's just for the sake of pursuing an uneventful married life.

That's a failure (or maybe you're a restless person who won't rest on your laurels.) Although I don't feel anything on the surface, I have the vitality of a young person in my heart. I like to go on a rampage).

If your husband is really bad to you. Then get a divorce. Women should also be able to care for themselves.

After all, living is for yourself.

The problem is on you, find the problem yourself. Look at your words, are you particularly sorry? I thought about it a long time ago, and got married so early.

I didn't have any emotional foundation and had a baby right away. Now I have to regret it again. Can you not be so willful Your husband regrets it now.

Married and had children with such a visionary girl, he is now wondering if he is impulsive.

To put it bluntly, don't ask for so much, if you divorce now, it will be an irresponsible impulse. Is it wrong again and again?

You are telling the poor to live a life of wealth and prosperity. In fact, life is like this. Don't overthink it.

You shouldn't rely too much on him, woman, or be independent, or don't complain that men don't care about you.

Everyone said very well, happiness is your own, and you have to grasp everything by yourself. Wishing you happiness!

Pig! Getting married and falling in love are two different things! If you just want to be in love, don't get married! Married, married, married!

You graduated from junior high school and are still in high school! I don't know what capital you have after the divorce? There is one more divorce certificate, not a graduation certificate!

If he treats you badly and fails you you divorce us a hundred support! If you live a good life and you just want to go out and find the feeling of falling in love, then you go out, and we can't stop you!

I'm too lazy to talk nonsense, what do you love!

You won't regret leaving.

You guys don't fit at all...

When he fell in love with you and married you, he just saw how beautiful you looked, and he was older, so he found a good-looking marriage, and now he has children, and you don't have any intersection in your ordinary life... This kind of married life is very boring.

And you say that your man is so good, then there will definitely be a woman outside him who will take the initiative to come to the door... So, let's go...

It is sad to be born in the midst of blessings and not know blessings.

Is there a mistake? It's up to you.

The way to face her husband's too strong is to overcome rigidity with softness. So how do you overcome rigidity with softness? It is to prevent a head-on conflict with her husband, to avoid his edge, and when he loses his temper, ignore him, and when she is not so angry, go to him to talk to him and explain the principle with him step by step.

In the face of a strong husband, do you have to understand that you are in a weak stage? Have you been psychologically affected by your husband's strength? If your husband's strength is due to the fact that your husband thinks he has a sense of superiority, and then he thinks that he is doing the right thing, then you have to gradually rise to the top at this moment.

Gradually make yourself an exceptionally good person, so that you can suppress his arrogance. Brew yourself into a man who is more imposing than him.

How does a strong husband treat him.

No, the husband is also divided into several kinds, there is a kind of person who is unusually rich, and the natural sense of superiority is more important, so that he is easy to go and becomes stronger, then at this moment you have to learn to overcome the rigidity with softness, let yourself be a little birdie, and then do what he likes, so that his temperament can not come out on you, like a punch on cotton. As long as you can do Tai Chi and gradually meet the cycle so that you don't lose money, it's fine. Then there is another kind of person who has no money, but because of family factors, he has raised himself into a machismo, then this kind of boy is to be outside, give him enough decency, and the same kind of machismo boys are usually decent in comparison.

Just satisfy her vanity.

Glad for your question!

In the face of a strong boyfriend, what a girl should do should be to make herself independent and strong. In the face of such an excellent girlfriend who can take charge of himself, there is nothing more for a boyfriend to be strong.

If you feel that your boyfriend is too strong, ask yourself what strengths you like about your boyfriend, and then ask yourself if you can tolerate your boyfriend's shortcomings. Turnip and cabbage, each with its own love.

Sometimes the boyfriend's strong personality is due to the influence of his original family, since the relationship has been determined, you should know more about your boyfriend's family, if his family members are strong, then the situation is worse.

Girls should establish various principles for their boyfriends from the first day of dating. No matter how strong he is, he can't interfere with his freedom. Make your own decisions, and your boyfriend can only make suggestions.

If your boyfriend is too strong, your girlfriend should not just complain, but should learn to guide your boyfriend to slowly become calm-minded, broad-minded, and change her strong thinking.

The boyfriend is too strong, maybe the personality itself is a bit extreme, it belongs to the lack of sexual personality, if the boyfriend still has violent tendencies, then the girl still has to carefully judge whether the two are suitable, and decisively take the next step.

Hope mine can help you!

Nowadays, most of the husband and wife in society are stronger and the other is weaker, will such two people live happily together after marriage?

If they are both strong, what will be the result in the end if the two people can't bear each other?

Many couples will be troubled by this matter, do not know how to deal with and solve, if the wife is strong, then the man must be suppressed, no temper, and some inferiority, and slowly there is no longer affection between the two people, no longer have affection.

Behind the stable and harmonious development of all things in the world, there must be a stable development, which needs to complement each other to find a balance point, and once we break this balance point, it will be out of control.

The same is true in marriage, no matter which party is too strong, it will destroy a certain balance between husband and wife, often one party in the marriage is strong, which party is suppressed to feel no status at home, and after a long time, they will not be willing to go home, and often the woman's strength is actually a superficial phenomenon.

What they want is to get their husband's care and love, and if they get it, they will be obedient.

If they don't, they will slowly find that they become irritable, sensitive, and suspicious.

What both men and women need to do in marriage is to express their love and guide their other half slowly and correctly.

There must be a reason why one party in the family is strong, it is not one person's business, it is that both people are at fault, so in the face of love, we overcome the rigid with softness, and no matter how hard the person is, it will be melted, and the mode of getting along between husband and wife should develop into a lifelong one"Friends"Respect each other like friends, and from the day two people start a family, they have already decided that they will never leave each other for the rest of their lives, so they must manage it well.

1.Adopt appropriate evasive methods to calm the other person.

The calmness here is not cold violence, if there is a quarrel, we can avoid it for a short time, let the other party calm down and then talk, otherwise a person is angry There is no way to communicate, and continuing to talk is equivalent to adding fuel to the fire.

After avoidance, the other party calms down and thinks rationally, so that the two people can solve it calmly, and there will be a good result at this time, otherwise it will be a big deal.

2.Cryogenic treatment.

At this time, strong people generally know very well that you must be the one who takes the initiative to coax him every time you get angry, so you will make such an inch.

Most of these people have a strong sense of vanity and self-esteem, which often has a lot to do with a person's personality and family education.

Everyone is an independent individual, of course, the personality is different, generally this kind of person will go straight, temper comes and goes fast.

If we can't coax well, we can try to deal with it coldly, and after a while, the other party will definitely take the initiative to admit the mistake, in fact, no matter what the relationship between people, we have to save face for each other, so as not to make each other unhappy.

Summary. My dear, in the face of a strong husband, it may be that when he encounters something, the husband does not consider his wife's opinion. You have to think about your husband before doing anything in life.

My husband is too strong and I'm depressed.

My dear, in the face of a strong husband, it may be that when he encounters something, the husband does not consider his wife's opinion. You have to think about your husband before doing anything in life.

Pro-11. My husband is too strong, you don't have to worry about things and the right thing to do is to leave and don't care about anything; The big and small things in the family are decided by the men themselves, and you end up being idle; 2.Second, get your husband's heart, first collect his stomach You have done it more times, the man will feel that he has a very important position in your heart, and at the same time he will return to you, a different world.

3.Be a good woman, you will be very happy, the stronger the woman, the more in the heart of the man, the more he will fight with the woman to the end; Especially for strong men, women must always know how to overcome rigidity with softness.

You're right. Angry people, everything I do, every word I say, I'm wrong.

My dear, this kind of husband has a strong self-esteem and does not accept other people's refutations.

How do you deal with getting along and getting angry?

The lf doesn't talk anyway, the cold war.

How do you reconcile in the end?

The teacher wants to ask a question, when I first got married, was my husband so strong?

Yes. Sometimes strength is formed slowly.1 For example, a person earns a lot of money and controls most of the family**2One side has a gentle personality and the other party has a big temper, so the gentle side takes the initiative to back down.

1.Start small and try to express your needs and ideas with a firm self, such as stating it from my point of view when you say no. This does not mean compromise, but when you are firm in yourself, you are also respecting him2

Taking the initiative to improve oneself, the imbalance of power, also means that the difference in ownership resources is caused by 3Avoid excessive compromise and dedication in relationships.

1. First of all, I realize that my husband or myself is in the mood, and then, stop, don't continue to interact and entangle, because going on like this will not help solve the problem, only hurt.

2. Next, deal with your emotions, but don't hurt the people around you. If you are angry, go out and exercise, like Andy in Ode to Joy, and practice boxing, choosing the most harmless ways to vent for others and yourself. If it's worrying, cry or listen to some ** etc. where no one is.

In short, let yourself deal with it well every time you have emotions, and when you can look at the problem rationally, you can communicate with your husband.

3. Again, reinterpret your husband's emotions. Fortunately, Mr. Song Li once said that a person's behavior pattern is learned from his or her original family, especially the main caregiver. Your husband's personality is no exception, he is who he is today because there was someone who treated him like he is to you now.

4. Finally, make a record of your husband's anger. Look at what he gets angry about every time, and feel whether some of his words have opened up his core complex.

In this case, you have to communicate more with your husband and tell him, don't control you everything, you are husband and wife, you can discuss any problems together, not that you don't know if you don't say it, sometimes you have to give your husband a step, don't worry about everything, your husband cares about you for the good of your family, if your husband doesn't care about you, your marriage will have problems sooner or later. You can go out shopping together, go for a walk, and do something that is good for your relationship.