After three years of falling in love, their family has not been in a hurry to buy a house, what does

Don't think materialistically, no matter how big the house is, you can't exchange feelings, don't just look at the present, if he is the kind of person with a strong sense of dedication, this age is the age to fight for the career, maybe now he can't afford to buy a house, maybe when he is 30 years old, his career is successful and buying a house is naturally not a problem.

You won't know if his parents are ready to buy him a house, will they tell you about it, what is the situation of his family, is his parents asking him to pay for the house by himself, then his pressure will be even greater, marriage is a matter for the two of you, you have to understand each other!

I believe you know him very well, if he or his family has the capital to buy a house, you should be able to perceive it, if this is the case, you will talk to him, what do you think, and you will understand it, I wish you happiness.

You didn't tell them what was going on; As you said, there must be a reason for not buying a house; If you love him, then don't think about the house; If you want a house, then break up early and have money early, otherwise you will both lose time.

One family and one situation cannot be compared with others in everything. Learn more about the situation, such as whether to buy a house or not? When to get married, see if you can accept it? Then we will discuss it. If you are in a hurry, try harder, don't wait.

They have problems with their family, financial problems!

If you really want a house, change your boyfriend!

Think more about your boyfriend, it might be a financial problem.

It's not that it's not in a hurry, it's probably an economic problem

Sit down and talk about both ideas.

I might want to live with two generations.

I can't understand why you would be eager to take advice from someone you don't know at all and bet on a big decision in your life.

I always feel that what you want is not an answer, what you need is a little courage to take on your own choices and a little more self-conscious temperament.

Many people will have many obstacles in their relationship, age, material, status and appearance, etc., which need to be overcome by the parties themselves to eliminate interference. It is difficult to try to achieve your happiness without any cost, and it is difficult to do it, maybe the lucky ones can, everything is sent on a silver platter, and there is no need to overcome a little difficulty.

Too often, the choice becomes difficult because we can only be loyal to one or a few parties in a multilateral relationship, and we cannot do it all. But before the final result appears, whether it is a relationship or a marriage, no one can be sure that their choice is 100% worthy of scrutiny, that is, it is foolproof, the risk will always exist, the difference is only a matter of chance. In the face of the various choices that life gives, at a critical moment in life, everyone needs to be brave once, and being timid and afraid of weighing all the pros and cons does not improve the probability of safety in life.

How brave you can be, and what risks you are willing to take for your choices and feelings, depends not only on how deeply you love the other person, but also on how much control you have over your life and destiny.

I don't know what you mean! But as far as I can see, what about hurting hard-won feelings for the sake of something outside the body? You should have a good talk with your boyfriend and negotiate! Wishing you happiness!

You're thinking about a very real problem, but two people being together is far less important for the material than the spiritual. In fact, whether you buy a house or rent a house, as long as two people really love each other, no matter where they are. Two people together is a home.

Men are not afraid of no money, what they are afraid of is that they have no sense of responsibility, give up, you can't afford to put it off, but it is recommended that you listen to the opinions of your friends around you, and you can also use some strategies, such as temporarily separating from him and seeing each other's attitudes before deciding.

You think clearly for yourself and make a decision!

I think you should ask him for a positive answer, if a man loves you must have a long-term plan for your future, if his attitude is still so changeable and vague, then you should give up, happiness is not compromised.

I don't know how much your boyfriend earns now, how his work situation is, if a man really wants to live a good life with you, he will definitely find a way, your boyfriend has some shirk, I think it should be no money, or no ability to buy a house,

Me and your boyfriend are in the same situation, so I have a deep understanding.

For men who are vague about buying a house, there are probably two reasons.

First, over the years, parents have made a lot of comebacks in order to cultivate this son, even if the family has some savings, they are unwilling to ask the family for it, which is in guilt and reluctance to the parents.

Second, the family or themselves simply do not have the strength to buy a house, and they are in vanity, so they can only procrastinate again and again, and make vague statements.

I think this is all within the normal category of personality and practice, mainly depends on you, this girlfriend, how to communicate with him.

You take the house as the premise of marriage, which is very realistic and cannot be said wrong at the moment, and it is also a guarantee for yourself.

If you love him very much, mainly because he is a young man with more qualities and sincerity towards you, you should talk to him, first explain that you are not for material things, and then ask him to explain that what you have in mind is to implement the topic of specific money figures.

A normal man will confess, you have to let him understand that the amount of money is not his fault, let alone his family's fault, but when he encounters actual problems, he can only deal with them with his own knowledge.

I hope you can handle this problem with you and your boyfriend well, and I wish you happiness!

Tell him about your idea.

Look what he has to say.

If you really worry about the house.

Let's think about whether you can afford to buy a house and provide for a house.

If it doesn't work, divide it, and cut through the mess quickly.

I really don't understand why women are like this now???

Do you know why men spend their hearts when they have money, because women know money in their hearts, and they don't know if you are married, married, or married?

I suggest that you forget about the big money, it doesn't matter how old you are, you can satisfy yourself with a house, a car and money, sad in this society, and even more sad in this society!!

I don't think you have to buy a house, most people estimate that most people will have his situation as you said, you feel that he has been delaying time intentionally or unintentionally, right? He may do this with or without a down payment, but he doesn't think he wants to buy a house, of course, his real motive is probably only known to him, I hope you are happy.

If you really love him, then go and get to know him

Actually, it's not easy. Let's understand each other.