What is it that makes you fight for?

Satisfying one's own desires is the reason and purpose of all actions and struggles. Desire includes the most basic desire as an animal, as well as a series of things such as gaining recognition, even if it is a noble act of helping others, it is like this: helping others is the means, being happy is the goal, if I help others every time I am very unhappy and very uncomfortable, no one praises me and is looked down upon, why should I help others?

Of course, there may be such a person, then he may be enjoying pain, or enjoying a sense of loneliness or a sense of nobility or nobility. People do things that are contrary to their own interests, not because they are noble, but because they are stupid or because the thing itself is not contrary to their own interests as a whole. So the purpose of struggle is to satisfy your own desires, and of course you have to be clear about what your desires are.

For example, if you don't need a house of 120 square meters, 80 is enough, but your girlfriend wants it, then your desire is not to ask for a 100-square-meter house, but to let your girlfriend satisfy her desire to need 120 square meters. You don't get real satisfaction from a 120 square meter house, you get satisfaction from the approval of others. Of course, your girlfriend may not really need a 120-square-meter house, she may be doing it to get the capital to show off with her friends, or to satisfy her parents' desire for their children to live in a big house.

So the problem is that the two of you are fighting for something that is not materially important but spiritually important, even though it is material.

The purpose of hard work is to experience, to experience the countless possibilities of life. If we are pigs in the pig farm, then the route of pig birth has been planned, which is nothing more than two possibilities: being slaughtered and giving birth. If we are bees, then we are doing similar things in our short lives.

Human beings are different, we can live the life we want, as long as you work hard enough and try to be in the right direction. But you can't get everything you want, so you can only create, exchange for equal value, squeeze your own potential, release your nature, and get closer to your ideals. These efforts have turned into excellent fruits for you and your descendants to pick, to put it more grandly, technology changes the fate of mankind.

Sometimes don't look down on these so-called positive energy, only when everyone is positive, the rules will become more and more fair, and sweat will be transformed into crystallization faster and faster. If everyone doesn't work hard, doesn't produce, has nothing to do at home, and steals and robs, what will you eat tomorrow? This society is actually quite fair.

In order to go to a higher place, see a farther scenery, and live a better life, there has always been no shortage of "rich second generation" and "rich generation" around me, but in my eyes, they rarely talk about impetuousness and uninhibition in the news, and their sobriety and self-control impress me even more. At a gathering of friends, a group of us talked about holiday travel. During the banquet, a rich second generation looked envious.

said: "I fly around every day, and I have time to have a meal with my family during the New Year, and I don't have a chance to enjoy life!" I said

Don't lose your money, you should enjoy life. He said to me: "This social resource is so limited, don't I just wait to go down if I don't desperately grab it?"

Keeping a business has never been easier than starting a business, and the pressure of the second generation can be imagined after their parents fought hard and sweated. The more they are in a high place, the more they know that there are too many people who are stronger than themselves and who are desperate than themselves, not to mention that their competitors are only strong and not weak, and there is no other way than to work harder.

The driving force of struggle, like the driving force for the progress of human civilization, comes from dreams. Because you have a dream as the driving force, you will work hard, and it doesn't matter if you suffer in the process, in order to realize your dream, all the sacrifices you made before are worth it in your eyes, and it is also the price that must be paid. When you are painful and frustrated and want to give up, as long as you think of the vision of realizing your dreams, you will grit your teeth and hold on.

When you reach a certain age, you actually understand that few people force you to do anything again, you have countless reasons and excuses to give up, but the reason why you keep insisting on not giving up is just your own desire and unwillingness, and you want to give yourself a chance to try, try how high you can stand, how far you can see the world, because when standing at a high enough height, even if the cold wind is steep, your heart can be in the clear, get the clarity of this moment, and then a pot of thin wine drunk dreams, dream of this life.

In love, when I struggle and fulfill my responsibilities because of love, I don't feel any compulsion, let alone think that I have made any sacrifices, but often feel guilty for making mistakes or not doing well. But this is not a great and noble thing, just an ordinary life of an ordinary person. If there is any difference with the lives of some kinder ordinary people, it may just be more conscious, more "pure", and a little more "tragic".

Sometimes it's tough, but it's also very happy.

When I was in elementary school, I studied hard because I was afraid of teachers, and in middle school, I was because of a sense of superiority of an honor student. When I lost a lot, I realized that people are really not as strong as I imagined, so the struggle is not for anyone, not for anyone to see. It's just that in a limited one-time life, I can give myself the ability to do what I want to do, go to the places I want to go, and there are a lot of fun and beautiful things in the world, I think I'm fighting for this.

If it weren't for love, life would have been completely indifferent to me, anyone and anything in the world would have mattered to me, maybe I would have lived by inertia, or simply for some kind of pleasure, but it didn't matter. There is nothing right or wrong for me, nothing is valuable to me, I don't take anything seriously, I don't struggle, I don't worry, I don't get anxious, it doesn't matter.

In order to fulfill my parents' dream of traveling to the United States. I hope I can make 100,000 in the fastest time, the sooner the better, there are too many unknowns in the future, I'm afraid they can't afford to wait.

Struggle is to make money! Only with it can you get what you want. Some people pursue careers, so they work hard to make money and decide to start a business.

Some people pursue love, so they earn money to satisfy their needs for bread. Some people need to socialize, so they earn money to eat, drink and be merry with friends.

Of course, the purpose of each person's struggle varies from person to person, and this goal is constantly revised and improved with a person's growth process, which is a gradual process and is not immutable. In the process of formulating, we must combine it with reality, second, we must tailor it, third, we must seek practical results, fourth, we must have a clear purpose, and fifth, we must have the courage to struggle, so that the goal of struggle can be realized. Otherwise, it may just be an empty word.

What does it take to struggle? My personal experience is that first of all, you need to stick to the set goals; secondly, it needs to be put into practical action; At the same time, it is necessary to carry forward the spirit of hard work.

1. Adhere to the "set goals".

1. Set a "long-term goal": clarify the direction of your own struggle for your life ideals.

2. Set a "medium-term goal": clarify your five-year plan for achieving your ideals.

3. Formulate "short-term goals": clarify your own starting arrangements for the implementation plan.

Second, put it into "practical action".

1. Do it down-to-earth. Remember that "a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step"!

2. Work hard and stand hard work. Remember, "Where there's a will, there's a way"!

3. Be persistent. Remember, "Success is always about persevering and working hard"!

3. Carry forward the "spirit of fighting".

1. "Work hard and never admit defeat";

2. To "defeat but not discouraged, victory but not arrogant";

3. Be "inspirational and unswerving".

Practice makes us deeply realize that only when we adhere to the set goals, put them into practical action, and carry forward the spirit of hard work, can we continue to motivate ourselves to continue to work hard and finally achieve success!

Luck, brains, eloquence and money If it doesn't work, please ask for it.

Your efforts will bring you hope, a bright future, and a bright future. No matter what you work hard you will hope to succeed, as long as you take it seriously, there will be hope for everything.

In fact, life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what they do, they always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:

Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.

Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be frequent, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts. Happiness and joy are gained in constant success.

Time is of the essence. Time will not go back, cherish the present and strive for the future.

I love to see the green hills after the rain. I value the joy of green as a treasure. I love reading classical books. I treasure the cleansing of my soul with eternal truth; I love the sweetness of success. I see the struggle to bring success to humanity as an asset.

The struggle is real, unlike dreams, it makes us feel unreal. Success should also be real. Through struggle, we are moving towards success step by step.

Xu Zhimo said: "Looking for a dream, supporting a long artemisia grass, strolling back to green." "I'm just rooting for wormwood that's so long. I keep moving forward, and the grass ahead will always be greener.

I could smell the grass. While propping up the Artemisia plant, I could feel the warm light slanting in from the sunlight in front of the gently blowing knob. Sweat oozed from my forehead, and a breeze wiped it away for me.

My hands and feet hurt and the sun was touching them for me. I think it's the joy of struggle.

When I reached the other side of success, I sat down, closed my eyes, savored the aroma of the grass, and relived the warmth of the sun. I'm happy because I've grown up a little bit. My body will get stronger, and every movement of my will get strong.

I said that struggle is an asset. The success I seek will be even more distant. Maybe I'm like Father Kua chasing the sun, trying my best to catch up with the sun.

Success is too tenacious, struggle is still real, and with struggle, it is like touching success.

I keep going, there will be storms and frozen rivers. Maybe I can't move forward because of that. I will taste the fragrance of the grass and the warmth of the sun.

The joy of struggle is always around me. I feel like life is real. As I said, the struggle for stress is an asset.

I firmly believe that struggle can bring me success, because Li Bai said: "One day, I will ride the wind and waves, sail away, and cross the deep sea." ”

Struggle may not give you everything, but it will guarantee your survival.

When you understand that the struggle of Bai in the eyes of the world is so pale, you have truly stepped into maturity. Thirty and standing, four dao ten is not confused, although it is crowned with the mark of age, but it is not necessary to judge with age as approval, this refers more to the maturity of the mind.

There has never been a unified goal in life, so no matter how philosophers and thinkers of ancient and modern times think and pursue, they cannot give an answer that satisfies everyone. But the charm of life lies in this, if the future is the answer that everyone knows, that kind of life is too pale, too shallow. In addition to the inevitability of life and death, the meaning of life lies in the wonderfulness of the process.

On the road of life, what you see, hear, think, think, and create ......, will cast a monument in your life. When each person is judged, it is precisely the difference in this process that shows the differences and highs of individuals. Why are some people admired by us, why are some people despised by us, why do some people seem to never exist, why do some people make us unforgettable......?

If you think about it, you can get your own answers, but you can also boil down to the evaluation of the public.

When you question it, it proves that you will choose your own way of walking, and from this moment you speak in your direction. There will still be storms and waves ahead, but you can still adjust the sails along your goals and pursue your goals in the storm.

Struggle is our means to improve the quality of life, and rest is our way to repair our body and mind. In the many inevitabilities that we can't keep and can't change the results, our efforts and dedication are enough. When our parents grow old, we will be relieved because of our filial piety; When failure befalls us again and again, we are relieved that we have done our best.

The uniqueness of human beings and the power of human nature require us to use our talents to create, to seek and prove with down-to-earth efforts, so whether it is for the sake of display or ideals, do not easily stop our own progress.

The world is originally mud and sand, but the big waves wash the sand, and what is left is real gold. If there is only thinking, it is only the fire, and there is action, so that the flame can be burned and the greatness and excellence of human nature can be shown. Your thoughts and your actions are the meaning of your life, and your actions are the only and best proof of you.

I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain. When you reach the top, overlooking the mountains, the confusion in your heart will also be perfectly answered.

Keep your integrity, play your meaning, create your value, and may you do better!