How to see through the people around you

1. Empathy, people do not understand each other, and one of the main reasons is that they are unwilling to empathize. If you only think from your own point of view, it is difficult to reach a consensus or understand the other party. So you can try to consider the other person's position and attitude when doing a lot of things, which will help you with things on the one hand, and understand others on the other hand.

2. Respect others, many times, even if others can't convince you, or you don't understand each other, you must respect other people's opinions, and the simplest manifestation of respect is to listen well, and do not comment on other people's suggestions and suggestions. In fact, only by respecting others will others respect you and tell you the truth. Even if you are a parent, you must first know how to respect before you can win their respect and deepen your understanding of them.

3. Keen insight and analytical ability, this is much more difficult than the first two, and it involves a wide range of fields. To put it simply, insight requires you to learn to observe others when you are usually dealing with people, that is, to observe words and colors. This is a direct help for you to analyze other people's thoughts.

For example, some body language hides other people's inner insecurity or irritability, which can be understood through your insight. Analysis, from a philosophical point of view, is to see the essence through the phenomenon. By seeing, analyze the psychological changes of the other party.

This requires a lot of knowledge, including social behavior, psychology, and so on.

In fact, there are so many things to say, the main thing is that you have to communicate with others with your heart, and the more you want to understand others, the more you have to pay, and you need to use your brain. Many times, people are very simple, as long as you pay attention, you can know what others think, and only empathy can understand and appreciate other people's intentions.

Sometimes we spend more time together.

You know what kind of person he is.

Maybe it's because of one thing, maybe it's perhaps.

See people clearly. Understand people.

It's all empirical.

For example, people nowadays are very realistic.

Really have to remember that sentence.

Do not have the intention of harming others.

The heart of defense is indispensable.

Put yourself in his (her's) shoes and set up how you would do things if you were him/her, so that you can be more considerate of others and understand the good intentions of others. Believe in yourself and you will do it quickly

Why do you want to see through others.

It's not a god.

It's so tiring.

See through "what you need."

Know what you want.

Know what you should do.

Know what joy and happiness are.

Go for a psychology course, and when you learn something, you can see through the person you want to see.

Just take care of yourself.

It's okay to be a good person yourself.

As long as you're growing, time will tell!

Learning ability- -

In fact, there is no need to see through what other people think, it is very tiring

No matter what, you won't see through a person.