What kind of people do you give up your seat to when you take the bus?

On the bus, it is generally said that the elderly, the weak, the pregnant, the sick and the disabled mainly rely on observing the details.

1.Look at the age, the age is not necessarily old, some people look old, generally look at their actions and panting movements when they get on the car and walk, and they are not allowed to walk very steadily. Those who hold on to the railing of their seats while walking, their feet are obviously empty, their center of gravity is shifted downward, their waist is slightly bent, and they fall down when they push, which is easy to see, and they sigh when they get on the bus or when the car moves.

2.Holding a child.

3.Pregnant women, pay attention, someone is fat must wear maternity clothes, don't look away, people will stare at you.

4.Walking with a limp, general disability or sprain.

5.Those who are seriously weak know that they are seriously ill at a glance.

6.Aunt-level, mentioning a lot of things.

If you are far away, you can also not let it, observe it first, if you are in trouble, simply don't sit, and then I am in the car to let you sit is to look at you, don't be lifting, little girls don't hesitate too much to do things, they want to sit on the sitting, don't sit down. I let everyone see it when I sat down, and I was at ease, as long as you don't treat fat women as pregnant women, no one else will blame you.

Generally, I will give way to the elderly (judging by the old man's card, gray hair, unsteady walking, poor spirits, etc.), pregnant women (easy to see), and people with small children.

But I also have a principle, such a person, I won't let me kill it! The principle is: before I give way, he cheekily said: Young man, give me a seat!

Giving up your seat is a virtue, and letting someone else give up your seat is like robbery, resolutely resist!

Hah: Because people nowadays need face. You give them a seat because they think they're old, but they don't throw in the towel. Therefore, I generally won't accept your affection, and I'd rather not sit than be thought that I can't walk.

If you want to give up your seat, you can just stand up and don't have to say anything to him. He loves to sit down, or you can say to him or her, I'm almost there. You sit in this position, so that he doesn't feel anything.

Yesterday I went shopping with my husband to take the subway, as soon as I went up, there was a seat, I sat on it, and the second station came up with a middle-aged and elderly person about fifty years old, who came up and grabbed the handrail and closed his eyes and squinted, looking very tired, so I gave him the seat, I think I am a good person, praise myself.

After getting off the subway, my husband sat and began to say that I don't need you to give up your seat on the subway in the future, first you have to see if you need this seat, and then consider whether he really needs this seat, what a fool, you have to learn to manage yourself, of course I know that he is for my good, but I still quarreled with him, saying I want you to be able to manage it, after shopping home, I began to think seriously about this problem, under what circumstances? We all know that the old, the young, the sick, the disabled, and the pregnant soldiers must give up their seats, but the problem is how to distinguish the old, the young, the sick, the disabled, and the pregnant soldiers, if we can determine the old, weak, sick, disabled, and young pregnant soldiers, it must be to give up our seats, now we will analyze what circumstances we need to give up our seats.

1.The old man, the reason why they want to give up their seats to the old people, is because of their bodies, inconvenient mobility, but there are also old people, gray hair, but the movements are very agile and very pretentious, at this time you have no need to give up your seat, after all, the work is also very hard after a day.

2.Children, children must also be let go, because the child's body is not fully developed, once the danger occurs on the bus, they are very vulnerable, how to distinguish it, it is very simple, 1.3 meters below are children.

3.Patients, if we can see that a person is a patient, then he must have obvious signs, such as a plaster cast on his body, or a hanging bottle or something, this kind of must need help.

4.Disabled, disabled people are the least to consider, you just need to see that he is disabled, give up your seat, let the world love a little more, 5Pregnant women, first of all, I think pregnant women should protect themselves, in the case of pregnancy, if you can not take the bus, do not take the bus, if you meet a pregnant woman on the subway or bus, the same if you can distinguish that she is pregnant, just give up your seat, because it is two people.

6.Soldiers, who let whom is not certain, but they are definitely worthy of our seat.

I believe that many young people will choose not to sit on the bus, they don't have to think about whether they should give up their seats, we will need help one day, I hope that everyone will help others more if they can, so when we also need help, others will also come to help us.

If you are physically able, try to give a seat to someone who needs assistance.

The individual's position on this issue may vary from person to person, but in general, it is a virtue and responsibility to give appropriate help and care to the elderly or those in need, which can demonstrate the individual's sense of humanistic care and social responsibility.

While office workers may feel fatigued at work, if there are elderly people or those in need who need a seat, especially in public, we can consider giving up seats at the main dinner and swimming to show respect and care. If in some cases, such as office workers who are unwell or have too few seats, they can take the initiative to explain the situation and apologize and concern to the elderly or those in need to avoid unnecessary conflicts or misunderstandings.

If we are angry because we did not give up our seats, we can patiently listen to the other person's opinions and express our own opinions and understandings to resolve the conflict and avoid hurting each other. In any case, we should maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, contribute to others as much as possible, and maintain good manners and conduct in our interpersonal interactions.

First of all, I would like to make a statement, I have always acted randomly and differently in the act of giving up my seat, and I don't necessarily give up my position every time. The main factors that determine whether or not I give up my seat are:

1. The attributes of the other party: old and weak? Or is it sick, disabled, pregnant?

I will give up my seat unconditionally when I am sick and pregnant, and the elderly will depend on the situation. Although the bus radio ranks the elderly and the weak in front of the sick and disabled, I personally will give up my seat first, and regardless of how he or she makes me, because I feel that they are the vulnerable passengers who really deserve help; But if it's an elderly person, it depends.

2. The attitude of the other party: This article is for those middle-aged and elderly people rather than sick and disabled pregnant women. If the other party gives me the feeling that I am a middle-aged or elderly person who is very dependent on the old and self-righteous, and I feel that I should give up my seat to him and will not thank me for giving up my seat, I will resolutely not give up my seat.

Some netizens may think that I can't rely on my own feelings alone, which may be unfair to some elderly people who really need help, but I think that giving up my seat itself is a very personal behavior, I can have my own selection criteria, and there is no other standard that convinces me more than my own feelings during the short time on the bus).

The above two points are my own experience in giving up my seat, and I invite comrades to criticize and correct the shortcomings.

Secondly, let's take a clear look at the front and back, left, left and right of the act of giving up seats.

The first thing to do is to get a seat, which is a prerequisite whether you give up your seat or not. How we got the seat.

What about bits? Typically, there are no more than three modes:

1. Walk a little ahead and get on the train at a station (or starting station) with fewer people; Sacrifice a little time, this train is overcrowded and wait for the next train. (I often use this model).

2. Try to get up early, or postpone your trip, and avoid getting on the bus during peak hours.

3. Try your luck (just get on the bus and have a seat, or someone else gets off the car to vacate the seat), rely on strength (squeeze into the car to grab a seat).

4. People give us seats (the possibility of this mode occurring is relatively small, so it is ignored).

Through the above three models, it can be seen that for us young people, it is not easy to have a seat, and it is all based on hard work, not falling from the sky.

The quality of the Chinese is poor, and the elderly rely on the old to sell the old. I don't know what it is, and I take it for granted that someone else will give up my seat. Maybe the young man who gave up his seat was weaker than him, and that's what happened to me.

It's up to you whether you want to give up your seat, just like you can't save a dying person, if you save it, it means that you have good character and are brave in righteousness; If you don't save it, can you say that you are bad? No, if you don't save, you're not wrong at all. Not giving up your seat does not prove that you are a person with bad morals, it can only mean that your moral character is not very noble.

In China, a country where the overall humanistic quality is not very high, don't give up your seat, or even squeeze around when you get on the bus. Moreover, for various reasons, some people actually want to give up their seats, for example, when a person sees a person who needs a seat, he wants to give him his seat, but if he gives up, some people will think that he is hypocritical and pretend to be a good person, because in their eyes, how can anyone give their comfortable seat to others? If even if he gave up his seat, he would only get a finger and poke remarks, so he didn't dare to give up his seat, hey......The overall quality of the Chinese really needs to be improved.

It's just a gesture.

Give up the seat to the person who needs it.