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How old are you? If you are not old, you still have to consider recruiting an elderly son-in-law, if you are old, then find an elderly son-in-law, someone will take care of you when you are old, it is good, depending on your body, how old is your age. If you don't find an elderly son-in-law, just a daughter, and the future things and property will be theirs, I personally think that there is no need to recruit an elderly son-in-law, if you recruit, you have to admit it in the future.

If you don't recruit, you will be good to you in the future, and the property will be given to them, if it is not good for you, everything will be given to them, who cares about you, who you give!

Well, having a son-in-law is also half a son, of course, provided that your daughter likes it. The elderly still have to have their own old age, so that they can balance themselves, and maybe have a wife in the future.

Yes, if there is the right person, just find another one. There must always be a companion.

Your husband has been dead for two months, and now someone is telling you to retire. And your son-in-law will provide for you in old age. This is very good, as the saying goes, a son-in-law is half a son.

I think that even if you want something like this, you have to be happy with the other party, after all, this is a matter for both parties, and if you can find one that satisfies you, then of course it's a good thing.

It's been two months since your husband died, and now someone is looking for an elderly son-in-law for you, I don't think it's good, after all, your husband died for too short, you can wait a little longer and find it, so it's better to say it.

The son-in-law is half a son, of course, it is a very happy thing that he is willing to help you support the elderly, which is naturally good, but we have to think more about him from the perspective of the son-in-law.

If it suits you, yes, Bi Jing will be lonely when he lives alone.

I don't think there's anything wrong with it if you want, that thing is just to find a spiritual sustenance for yourself, it's okay.

If your husband has been dead for two months, now someone is telling you about your son-in-law. I suggest that we come back to this issue in a year's time.

This feels bad, because your husband has only been dead for two months, and it hasn't been a hundred days before it feels like it's not suitable for a blind date, so you should put it back.

It depends mainly on your own feelings, if you think he is good, you can be trusted.

Hello friend, are you saying that after your husband dies, someone will be your son-in-law and provide for you in old age, right?

It's a bit early to say now because your husband has just passed away for only two months, which is a bit short and a new funeral, and it will take a hundred days recently or half a year later.

If your husband is gone, you try.

It's best to find another friend.

If you have a daughter, hire a son-in-law.

But I'm afraid it's not easy to get along with, and I'm afraid that there will be trouble in the future.

It's all hard to deal with.

It's best to find a wife by yourself.

My husband has been dead for two months, and now someone is telling me that it is okay to support my son-in-law? Good no good? This question is just what you think is good, you can do it, and if you don't feel comfortable with it, then you can consider it.

The time is a little too short, and it is difficult to say. If there are indeed difficulties, you can choose to handle family affairs for a period of time according to the actual situation.

It depends on what you think? After all, time is a bit short, if you haven't stepped out of that shadow yet, you can slow down a little longer, and if you feel that it doesn't matter and want to find one, then you can try to get along.

Hello, the time is still a little shorter, and it can be considered after half a year!

It's been two months since your husband died, and now someone is telling you that it's okay to support your son-in-law, I feel like they want to introduce you to a husband who is older than you, so it's okay.

Husband and wife come to the old companion less, and the husband should find another wife after the death.

Since it's been two months since he died, there's nothing wrong with someone mentioning it. Let's take a look first, and then talk about it, it may not necessarily work, right?

It's up to you, it's best not to do it for the time being, because it's only been two months, it's a bit too short, or take a while to calm down and make a decision.

Tomorrow there is superstition. Well. Less than 100 days after the partner's death. It is not possible to remarry or remarry.

I feel like it's a bit too early to find a partner, so let's find it in a few months, so that no one will talk about anything.

Your husband has only been dead for two months, and I don't think it's good for you to find your husband again now, at least wait a year later, otherwise it will give people the impression that you and your husband are too unemotional.

I think this is something that needs to be pursued for love, and this sacred thing can't be spended casually because of some other problems.

It's been two months since your husband died, and now someone is telling you that it's okay to support the elderly and son-in-law? Good no good? Under normal circumstances, it's perfectly fine, it doesn't matter.

It's been two months since my husband died, and now someone tells me how good is my old son-in-law? Good no good? This is very good, only you see that it is also very good for his old son-in-law, and he will support you for a lifetime.

Say a little, you may not agree, but this is a fact, your parents are very mean, you think about your parents, not to your husband, you just said that your husband and your parents have a bad relationship, it means that your purpose is to change your husband, why don't you change your parents, don't forget, it is your husband who has lived with you all your life, you are an independent small family, plus your parents are a big family, and the son-in-law is the most vulnerable to bullying, you must admit this fact! So you are their intermediary mediator, and their relationship is not good, and they have a direct relationship with you!

The door-to-door son-in-law is more sad than the door-to-door daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law can find a place to cry when she is wronged, but the son-in-law cannot. A daughter-in-law is a virtue to forbear, but a son-in-law can only be said to be weak. Therefore, if you can be separated from your parents, try to separate them as much as possible.

It depends on whether it is your parents' problem or your husband's problem, you talk about your heart on both sides, see what they think, learn more, and as the friend just said, how many good things are said at both ends, don't say how bad your parents are in front of your husband, how good your husband is in front of your parents!

Hide between them to do ideological work, talk about your husband behind your parents' back, talk about your parents behind your husband's back, and see what causes disharmony between them, correct which party is wrong, and be reasonable in everything

The key is for you to match with each other, talk to each other nicely, and slowly the relationship will become more and more harmonious.

You are the middleman, you love your husband more than your parents, your husband wants to educate, and your parents want to enlighten.

You're the middleman next to your husband. Tell us about your parents next to your parents ... You have to endure it.

Do more work for your husband and let the old man do some work.

The two sides said good things to ease their relationship.

You have to let the elderly, tolerate them, accompany them more, and then buy some nutritional products to pay respect, I hope it will help you, sister.

It's the same as being splinted by my husband at my in-laws' house, I can only say that he is not tactful enough, and it depends on you to adjust more.

There is no other way. You can only teach and teach him. Get along slowly.

A good daughter-in-law hides at both ends and says good things at both ends.

Men have a certain amount of self-esteem...In fact, it should be masculinity that is at work.

Hey, it's hard to move out and live on your own.

You work on both sides.

The next generation can't do that.

What causes you to get along poorly?

The difficulties in the relationship with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the same, depending on how you grasp it.

My family is also a son-in-law, I am from Fujian, he is Guizhou, he will only make excuses, there is no sense of responsibility at all, I don't have any living expenses with the children at home, and I will only say that I dislike him for not making money.

There are many good people in the world, give him a warning, and if you don't change your words, you can make up your mind to divorce.

Talking about family life and work is a harbor for two people, and one person is very tired, so discuss it.

How could he be chosen as a son-in-law in the first place? Let's get a divorce.

Tell him to get out, what else can I do besides this.

This is conceivable, because your husband died, and you saw two sons-in-law, seven nieces and sons-in-law and seven nieces crying for your husband, and you think they are quite filial.

You are very happy, your son-in-law is looking for such a good job. It shows that you are good people, treat them well, and they will be like this.

It's not appropriate to use "happy" here, at most use "gratifying" - it's a funeral after all!

This is a kind of filial piety, if you say that you don't understand this, you don't know how to be a person at all.

What kind of psychology do you have? Schadenfreude, still post it here.

Is it true? I kind of don't believe you.

As the saying goes: there is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hate for no reason, your grandfather must be a highly respected elder, he regards his son-in-law as his own, loves him a lot, and the old man's character will affect his life. Therefore, they will be grief-stricken when your grandfather dies, and your father and your husband are both grateful people, and this good family style will also affect your next generation. Thumbs up.

Why is your husband crying? I didn't realize why he was crying, he knew your grandfather since he was a child, or did your grandfather hurt him?

Years of emotional stagnation, why not cry? Why not catharsis?

In the face of the death of a loved one, it is inevitable to be grief-stricken, and crying out loud is a natural expression of true feelings.

Hahahaha!! Are you kidding、、。

Why would you care? Judging from your statement, this daughter may not be your own, right?

As a stepmother, it is filial piety for your daughter and son-in-law to come to visit you, and it is also your duty not to visit you.

As for what you said about your current husband not allowing your son-in-law to visit you, I think he has some considerations, one is: what is the relationship between you and your current husband's daughter? A good relationship is okay, but a bad relationship is likely to cause conflicts between them and their husbands.

The second is: as a son-in-law, it is beyond reproach to come to visit you, but as a husband, not letting your son-in-law come to visit may also be to avoid suspicion, and it may be better if it is a daughter and son-in-law who come together.

You are sick, and the current husband's son-in-law said to come to see you, but the current husband won't let you come to see you, it's not too serious, or the son-in-law is busy. What does that matter? If he looks at you, your illness will be cured, but if he doesn't look at you, will your illness be serious? Everything is bearish for the best.

If you don't let you see it, you have to understand, my husband thinks it's better not to trouble his daughter's family, after all, you will be combined, and he also hopes that everyone will get along, don't think of you as a burden.

Because I don't want his son-in-law to break the bank.

Although he is a son-in-law, he is also a relative, so he can tell me.

Don't tell them about it.

If you don't have any contact with them, you don't need to tell them, but if you live close to them and have regular contacts, you can tell them.

Although he is a door-to-door son-in-law, he is a relative after all, and he should say that family affection can never be erased.

According to common sense, it should be said, but it also depends on the customs and habits of each place, some places can not be notified, and it also depends on the relationship between the two families, which must be considered.

See if you usually walk around, and if you usually walk, you can be notified. If the relationship is average, then there is no need. It's your husband's brother and sister.

This kind of thing, there is no too good way, anyway, he will just listen to it as soon as he says it, don't take it too seriously, life is for yourself, not for others to see, and it is right to work hard to improve your current situation.

Don't care, the elderly like to praise other people's children in the countryside, just get used to it, this is the Chinese way, never recognize their own children, never affirm their own children, like to compare, just be yourself, don't fight with your parents, they are all old, work their own, let their husbands work hard and become strong.

Then you didn't ask her why everyone else gave birth to their daughter so beautiful, why did you give birth to such an ugly daughter.