How to learn to treat everything and take everything seriously

Love mainly depends on how you treat it, plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of loving is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last long To love someone, you have to trust each other, to love someone, to understand each other, to love someone, to be tolerant of love, to love someone, to be broad-minded, to love someone, to respect each other's thoughts and opinions, to love someone, to support them a lot, not to block them, to love someone, to face them, when they can't accompany you, don't complain, to say to them with a smile, I'm very happy, to love someone, to hide their inner fragility and grievances, don't let them know Love someone, too much, too much love, maybe some people can't do it The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him, when you fall in love, you must make him happy, as long as he is happy and happy, it is the most important thing...

Love is free to give, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since the choice of love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is difficult, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. Loving someone wants him (her) to be happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

In fact, many truths are not that we don't understand, but that we don't use them at critical times, so we need to listen to other people's opinions, and many truths need to be repeated before they can be used, and we must learn to live happily, forgive others, forgive others' mistakes, and make your heart more open, and you will have more friends, and you will do things more smoothly.

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... you have everythingPlease love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless ...... wellNo one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

Recently, I have been touched the most by the sentence that is: it is not easy to do every simple thing well; To do every ordinary thing well is extraordinary. For example, class management, it is not easy to manage the class in an orderly manner, it requires the patience, carefulness and perseverance of the teacher, and the students must do everything they can to do in addition to themselves, and they must find ways to make each student meet the requirements in the end, and further develop habits, and then do the second thing.

Finally, everything in the class is done well, and the class management is in place. The most taboo thing is that there are still a few students who do not meet the requirements, and you start to rush to do the second thing and forget the first thing. After a long time, you may not be able to do a single thing.

To be honest, "doing the little things carefully" is the key to doing everything well. It's really hard to do this, and you need to take everything seriously, take every detail of things seriously, and strive to do everything well.

The teaching profession is destined to do "little things" for the rest of your life. In particular, we primary school teachers deal with primary school students every day, and we are in charge of the children's inconspicuous things every day. And "there is no trivial matter in school, everything is education".

In the process of doing these inconspicuous things every day, our children have formed their thoughts and habits, and have achieved social progress and development, and the future of the motherland.

Doing every little thing well is equivalent to doing a big thing, and if you can't do even a small thing well, you can't talk about doing a big thing. In daily work, everything must be treated with extra seriousness, no matter how big or small, so that it is possible to do it well. Being a man is also, not caring about gains and losses, but uniting colleagues and thinking more about the collective, so as to win the respect and trust of others.

There is also a famous saying in the West: "Rome was not built in a day", so can we say: "The Great Wall was not built in a day"?

Whether it is Wal-Mart, the world's top 500 company, or our education business, we have grown up in a down-to-earth and hard-working environment; Impetuousness is replaced by solidity, impulsiveness is impressed by reason, this is the last word of growing up.

In the last two days, I have read two books by Mr. Kagiyama, "Sweeping the Way" and "Everything Thoroughly".

Knowing Mr. Jianshan, I heard it from Xiao Qi, and saw that Xiao Qi mentioned Mr. Jianshan's influence on her many times in the article, so out of curiosity, I bought a book to read.

Everything is thorough" The process of purchasing this book is a bit tortuous, thank you Xiaomei for helping me apply for this book.

Parental influence. ”

The book mentions the influence of Mr. Kagiyama's parents on him several times. Even in a small house with various holes in the roof, my parents would clean it many times a day and round out the edges and corners of the cabinets.

That was Mr. Kagiyama's earliest feeling about cleaning.

When I read this part, I always wondered what kind of impact I could have on Rarity.

The things we do every day that we do over and over again without noticing, we unintentionally absorb and learn from Rarity.

I remember one time when Rarity lay down on her legs, and Dad saw it and said, "Who did you learn from at a young age?" ”

Rarity says, "I learned from Daddy Shenwan." ”

Dad was very aggrieved when he heard it, and said when he crossed his legs.

After a while, Dad inadvertently crossed Erlang's legs again, and I reminded him that he noticed.

Many of our unconscious behaviors that we don't notice ourselves are absorbed by our children.

Teaching by example is greater than words, and children will not listen to what you say, but to see how you do it. In the future, you should pay more attention to your words and deeds.

Take every little thing seriously, insist on doing it thoroughly, and don't have a "almost" mentality. It's something I need to hone in, learning with kids.

Touched and grateful".

For the first time, Kuan Feng saw the importance of "moving" in the book.

When life lacks emotion, that life is tasteless and numb.

I don't feel the joy of life, I just live it day after day.

Observe life more and live with awareness and a beautiful perspective.

We are grateful for the beauty and defeat that these small things have brought us.

Finally, share a sentence that I like very much:

Whether it's the way it was in the past or the way it is now, it's not what you are in the end, it's just the process. ”

So don't pay too much attention to the present, as long as you keep moving in a good direction.

When you encounter something, you should consider whether the result is good or bad after you finish it! Treat the problem with a full range of considerations! No matter what kind of problem you encounter, you must be thoughtful!

Don't look for reasons when you're doing something wrong! Find fault in yourself! Be brave enough to bear all the difficulties of your mistakes!

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

After the matter has passed, it will naturally dry slowly. Joys and sorrows are just a moment. After the tears flow, get back on the road early.

Think differently and don't just think from your own standpoint.

Seon lost his horse, but he didn't know if it was a blessing.

A normal mentality, an upward mentality, a positive mentality.

This thing is not something that you can use your normal heart all the time on your lips, it should be slowly cultivated by you unconsciously. Be bland and flat!

Tell yourself, that

It's not a matter of chance.

Positive attitude, cheerful personality, natural, don't be nervous when you encounter things, face them calmly. It's best to keep a clear head, you can do it naturally, and whether you can do your best or not depends on yourself.

This is very simple, as long as you do it with your heart, you must have patience and perseverance in everything you do, and don't be impetuous. Well, there is no good way to do this, only to slowly change yourself and slowly adapt to this society, because society will never adapt to you, so you have to change yourself slowly!

I think you're a perfectionist, it's good to pursue perfection, but no one is perfect, and once you have a flaw in doing things, you don't have to care too much.