My husband and wife problem is very urgent, please help me analyze 5

Is your husband really so beastly, since they have been together for so long, don't you know the reason, you actually ask us what his psychology is, can he help you by saying it? Don't you even have that bit of wisdom?

There are people, and the sex life is not coordinated.

If my husband tells me this, I will be more vigilant about my marriage, although it may be a momentary angry talk, but sometimes the angry words may not be what he usually says. This question, you can tentatively ask him when the two are reconciled and are particularly intimate, what kind of mentality is coming from which he said such things.

The seven-year itch. Try to be apart for a while.

I very much agree with love1987dyou, and I said the same thing. In fact, it is a temptation.

It's normal for you to be surprised, because you found out and then you were surprised, and there may be more unacceptable behaviors in him that you don't find, and if you find out, maybe we don't need to communicate with him because you've left him! That's often the way it is.

It's up to you to decide whether he breaks up with you or not!

His behavior that surprises you is also the behavior of a normal man, he either feels the existence of a family crisis, or the embodiment of "man's true colors".

Furthermore, his behavior is at least still taking care of the child and being afraid that you know, which is a good thing for you. If he wants to break up with you, what he fears most is that you don't know what he thinks and does, otherwise everything becomes natural! If one day he and you really break up, although it is "his reason", the result must be your own doing!

Maintaining a family is very simple, you must have the "three chapters of the law" for him, you must not inquire and understand about his principled behavior, even if others say it, you must deny it, as long as he does not tell you you you will always "do not know"! As long as you don't know, he never deceives you, it's a state of mind.

On weekdays, he should be gentle and considerate, know the cold and know the heat, create a good home atmosphere, and often praise him. Use your own behavior to influence him, educate him, and transform him. He's your other half, he's "yours"!

It's none of your business, it's your responsibility! This is not one's own cowardice, but a manifestation of greatness, responsibility for oneself, responsibility for one's husband, responsibility for one's children, and responsibility for one's family!

Really, it doesn't matter how he thinks or does it, what matters is how you think and how you do it!!

If a woman gives nothing to this man, this man must be someone else's.

You give him everything he needs most, then he must be yours!

I believe you must be a nine-cow person!

Maybe he has made you unhappy and a little numb!

You dare to marry him without savings, and dare to have children, you really dare to take risks. You don't have any requirements for him before marriage, so he will inevitably mess around after marriage!

How good it is to find a man who has a sense of responsibility and is willing to work hard for you, only boring men who don't learn and waste time will go online to recruit friends!

The analysis has been successful, landlord, please rest assured.

As a result of the analysis, your head is flooded.

Hello: Hello, if you sincerely admit your mistake, the woman is still like this, or if you don't hide anything from the problem, I think your wife has changed her mind, and she always uses you to beat her as a reason to divorce you, I think your wife is a little too much.

1. If your wife's heart has not changed, then I think the problem you described is incomplete. When people describe problems, they always ignore their mistakes and shortcomings intentionally or unintentionally, and I don't know if you are the same. So I'm still skeptical about the completeness of the description of the problem.

Maybe you can also calm down and find out if you are ** or not doing enough. For example, did you apologize to your wife after beating her, did you change your wrong behavior in your later life, and did you treat your wife better than before?

2, your wife has changed her mind, this is the worst outcome. Maybe your other party has changed her mind, and you hit her just for an unconvincing reason, if that's the case, I don't think there's any need to redeem it. A change of heart is the scariest thing.

3. In my judgment, I think your wife should not be in the case of 2, it should be that you are not considerate and good enough. Otherwise, your wife can't go out and talk to other men for a drink. So it is recommended that you still be yourself in front of your wife, be better to her, find your own shortcomings and make him sad, and work hard to correct it, this matter cannot be rushed, you have to persevere, and slowly she will understand.

I hope you can live happily ever after, this is a little bit of advice, I hope you can take it.

Hope it helps!

It should be said that there are many such families, who do not have housing and whose jobs are not ideal. The inappropriate marriage of children always arises from various contradictions due to economic problems.

First of all, I think such families should face up to their own and each other's family conditions. Because although the society is more realistic now, there are still many loving couples.

If there is really a conflict because of economic reasons, two people should sit down calmly to tide over the difficulties, as the saying goes: 30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi, no one can say what will happen in the future, and this requires the two to reach a unified value and outlook on life. Work hard, work hard to run your own small home, and try not to make trouble for the big family.

This will avoid the intensification of many contradictions.

In addition, two people are required to work together to create a good small family environment, don't look at the mountain because of the lack of money, or find a rich one and find another job, so that you will soon lose yourself in this real society.

If individuals do not have the ability, they should work hard to learn some professional knowledge, and strive to make a big change in the next two or three years, especially for men, and establish the spirit of dedication to the family. Don't worry about everything, be a real man, and never be a villain or a hypocrite.

Difficulties are only temporary, and if you don't have the courage and ability to overcome them, then find your own way.

If so, why did you get married in the first place? How did you convince this colleague when he married someone else? There are no boundaries or barriers to love.

Can't parents get married if they don't have money? Can't there be love? If this problem affects the relationship between husband and wife, then this person doesn't want it, and the ability to earn it by himself is called ability.

Then leave, the man thinks that the conditions are good, so he will bring his property in general.

This is not a matter of principle after all, it depends on your own wishes, if you have money, you will help, and if you don't have money, forget it, after all, your old man and her mother-in-law also have parents, and she also has her spring outing to consider.

It's really unclear what happened in the later period, it's basically easy to say that the brothers had a good relationship before, and it can be said clearly, but the question is whether you can figure it out between your wife and your brother Qingwu's wife. If your family has land, you can discuss it with your wife, you can build your own house independently, and many brothers in the countryside claim that they have built their own, and they will take it over when the time comes.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read... This is the truth, depending on your actual situation. Don't be too hard. Let's get a little bit. All take a step back.

1.Painful things are wrong;

2.After reading your above, I have a feeling of wanting to cry without tears, both sad and helpless, you are a kind person, but it is true that some aspects are too confused. You grow up in unhappiness, it is an unfortunate past, let it pass in the past, let it go from the heart, hard work + wisdom can also create your own beautiful future;

3.What worries me the most is that your current new home is even more miserable than your previous hometown, and your previous family just didn't take you seriously; And your current husband not only looks down on you, but also bullies you, your current husband is still a --- who loves to take advantage of you, has a rough personality, and the most important thing is that your husband has a bad heart, that is, a black-hearted and conscienceless person. 4.

Some of your thoughts are right, for example, your mother's things are not your own, and you can't just go back to get things after you go out, besides, you have hands, why do you keep worrying about other things?

5.Your husband "often punches me up and loses his temper with me," saying that he is good to you, and he really takes you for a fool.

6.If you marry such a husband, it means that you have no future, and you will live in endless pain and suffering, with no end.

7.Such a husband, if I were a woman, I wouldn't want to be killed, even if a person is more bitter and difficult than living with such a husband;

8.The reason why I tell you so much is because, although you are a little confused about some things, you are a good person in your heart, and when I see that good people are not doing well, or being bullied, I am very angry and uncomfortable, but I can't help you anything;

9.I hope that by dedicating your youth to the people who truly love you, you will not suffer in vain, and I hope that you will be happy in the future...

Your additive statement "Sometimes I think my husband is the same as me" confuses me and I don't know what you mean?

Since I love you, I won't beat you if I am upset, landlord, you don't want to be obedient to everything, you have to let him know that it's not a gas bag, it's not a fight if you want to fight, you want to scold it, and you have a little autonomy.

It's nonsense to say anything about moving to our mother's house, our parents worked hard to raise us so much, give us food and study, and treat us when we are sick, is this something that other people can do?

You said that your parents spoil your brothers and sisters, I believe, but I really don't believe that I don't like you, maybe you think too much, my four sisters, I used to think that my parents were unfair, and when I grew up, I realized that it was not easy for my parents, and if my parents really didn't like you, they wouldn't give birth to you and raise you. We must know how to be considerate of our parents, care for our parents, don't always doubt anything, and be worthy of our conscience.

I really don't understand why I want to take my mother's things, I never take my mother's things, I feel indebted to my parents, they worked so hard to raise me so big, and I got married before I could enjoy any of my returns, I will give my parents something, and my husband is also very much in favor. When my parents were busy, my husband took the initiative to help. You have to convince your husband not to make him think that your parents are really bad for you.

Maybe your husband is like that, because you often say that your parents are bad to you in front of him, right?

Parents all over the world.

I hope that the landlord will no longer be submissive, husband and wife are equal, no one abandons you, you are not responsible enough for yourself, I can only say so.

I wish you happiness.

I can only say that you are a wonderful flower... Your husband didn't tear any of your scars! He's just telling the truth.

I think you can talk to your kid first to see what he thinks about things, and then talk to your husband.

Does your husband love you, think about his good try, in fact, I think maybe the two of you don't communicate well, after all, there will always be some disharmony between the two of them, and there will be deviations in the thinking of people who are matched. My parents often quarrel and fight about loving my grandmother and grandparents, and they also fight, which is so annoying. Their relationship is the best, but when they quarrel, they will speak ill of each other and provoke each other's pain, so that they will be in a state of cold war for the next few days or even weeks.

You should also have a certain understanding of your parents, don't have hope if there is no hope, learn to protect yourself, don't let yourself get hurt, you should care for them, but it's better to keep a certain distance (this may be more negative), you should fight for what you should fight for, if your sister-in-law treats you badly and she keeps a state of not fighting, you can help.

Move something, moderately.

Your husband is the most calculating.

Don't look at the world with a twisted heart.

Parents are indeed biased towards their children, but this does not affect the most selfless love of parents for all their children. If you think that your parents are not good to you, then there is no one in the world who is good to you. When a person blindly handles things with a narrow heart, then there will definitely be problems, such as choosing a selfish and taking advantage of a husband.

Let go of your heart, self-love to love others, self-improvement!

It's really rare to have a stupid woman like you in this world, I appreciate your opinions, and I think it's very cute! Hehe! But people in the real world are really unscrupulous in order to pursue profits!

My wife's situation with you is really a bit similar, but like you, I really don't care what her mother's family gives, although we have a hard time, but as you said you have to rely on yourself, so I kind of despise your man, do it to you and lose your temper, and find such an excuse really makes me feel very unmanly, if there is only such a responsibility between husband and wife, how tired, I don't say I know it! I don't think he's good for you, it's good for himself.

But on the other hand, I also talk about you, this world is indeed very realistic, realistic to your lack of strength and reason is not suitable for such a result, you have to learn to protect yourself, and you must also fight for what you should belong to, including love! You don't get what you want, and you're not persistent enough!