I feel like I m the main character in Avatar, I m emotionally down, I don t have friends, maybe I m

Do you know? Sometimes you're good, but you don't fit into your circle of friends.

You are very patriotic, if you are full of morality, do you think that in the current society, your friends will think that what you say is from the bottom of your heart, if you say every day for the party and for the name of the person, sometimes it is just a joke for others, in today's society, several people will agree that you are truly loved, there are two kinds of loneliness, one is that you will not take the initiative to integrate into the circle of others, the other is that you are excluded from this circle, when facing everything, you have to think about it, why, a person's excellence, Not necessarily because of how high his grades and thoughts are, if this is a person's excellence, then you will have a sense of distance, learn how to communicate, first of all, you have to know what others think, you can't always stand in your own perspective.

Introverted! Eccentric!! It's not your fault!!

I'm also more introverted!! But I try to make friends with the people around me ... Say what you think.

Open your heart and communicate with others. Anyone can hit a wall! But learn to accept, to accept others, to accept this society.

If you can't open your heart to accept others and accept this society, how can others accept you and accept you? If you're in a bad mood, talk to me... I'll add to you ...

In fact, friends are all around you, but you just don't notice it. Because of your withdrawal, your friends are less willing to approach you. Well, there is always one thing that is unwelcome, just like your loneliness, I don't think you want to be with people with a withdrawn personality.

I'm guessing you've had like-minded friends, but they've only discovered your loneliness when they're associating with you, so they're estranged from you. Don't be so withdrawn, cheerful, kind, and you don't have to believe in making friends.

In fact, it is normal to be introverted and withdrawn, and I am also very introverted and withdrawn, and I don't like to take the initiative to socialize, which is something that I am very troubled by. If you want to change this situation, most people will choose scholars to take the initiative to reach out to others and accept others, which is a very good way to break through their own limitations and not be afraid of hitting walls.

But I think there's another way that might work better for you. That is to constantly improve yourself, cultivate yourself, make yourself a benchmark for others, and at the same time calm down and treat other people's slander peacefully, because that is actually a good time to hone your endurance and willpower. After doing these points, you will find that some people are slowly approaching you, they want to associate with you who are cultivated, capable and unassuming, and your shortcomings have unconsciously become your charm.

They no longer look at you with disdain, but with expectation, appreciation, and enthusiasm, and then you will naturally be willing to accept them and be friends with them.

It should be noted that don't give yourself too bad psychological hints, don't always tell yourself that I'm withdrawn and no one likes it, just downplay it, feel that you are unique, and don't attach too much importance to other people's opinions.

I hope it helps you and I hope you can be happy.

The problem is that you fail to see the good in your friends, you focus too much on their savvy and unmotivated, and you actively alienate people and make people feel looked down upon. Now that others know that you need them to make peace, it will be difficult for you to reconcile before you hurt yourself. It is recommended to explore its advantages and praise it from the heart, and treat others with sincerity.

Sometimes it's like this, no one is perfect, and it is impossible for everyone to be like-minded and harmonious. It's out of sight and out of mind, but it's hard to do this kind of thing even though it's in the same dormitory. You can try to blend in with their conversation, give some advice, and one day they will accept your point of view.

Self-reflection, not doing well enough? It is also a step closer to improving communication skills. Key points reference:

1. Don't lower yourself too much, such an unbalanced relationship is not long-lasting. 2. Do your own thing well, and someone will take the initiative to approach you. You can also participate in student clubs, volunteer associations, student unions, and youth league committees.

I also came from that time, we also have such a person in the dormitory, at the beginning I was very good with her, but, the Tao is not the same, it is impossible to start anew, adapt, smile, remember, the gentleman's friendship is as light as water, maintain a stable state of mind, no matter what you encounter, smile, or it will not affect yourself.

Don't change dorms, don't run away. I'm also a freshman, and I have some unpleasantness with my roommates, but after all, we have to be together for four years. You don't have to be the best and closest friend with them.

As long as the conduct is not bad, everyone can still get along in harmony. It's okay for you to share your inner thoughts more together.

Avoiding doesn't solve the problem, try to concentrate on doing your own thing, maybe one day you do well, others will look at you.

Sometimes it may be that you are too sensitive, find something to do, and you will not feel lonely when you are fulfilled, and you will know what to say if you know more.

You are probably a more introverted and sensitive person, many things are nothing in the eyes of others, and it is different to see yourself, friends are established by each other, I believe that you will do to you as you treat him.

I guess you offended them unintentionally, but it's really nothing, at least let you see that the so-called good friends are just that, and they are not worth deep friendship.

Is such a friend still a friend? To meet new people, to make real friends, if I were you, they ignore me, and I will ignore them.

Are you the male version of me? My roommate and I are not in the same class. And those who have a good relationship with me are from other classes. I think our class is full of people who don't talk speculatively. Then as soon as I walked into the classroom, I felt depressed.

The only girl I think I can be friends with is also weird, she only has one friend. Nice people. But it feels like she's out and homely.

I don't think it's okay. It's impossible to always have friends around you to talk to. Think of this as an opportunity to exercise yourself.

Independent, thoughtful or something, this is a good opportunity at this time, otherwise I keep playing with my friends, and I am happy, but it is easy to become very superficial.

Wow, I think you're in a situation like mine.

When I was in college, there were two small single rooms in a large dormitory, a total of 8 people, and I was in 2 classes alone, and I went to class every day.

I don't want to contact people I don't like anymore, so I always feel like I have fewer and fewer friends.

Actually, it's fine. Usually you don't feel like you have a good relationship with them, but now that I've graduated, I sometimes miss these roommates, weird, haha.

Let it be natural, and everything will pass.

I am a lonely person, and everyone around me tells me that no one will not leave you, and that you are always with you, and you are the only one who will be with you, so that you will not be easily hurt at any time.

It's gold that always shines! If you really want people to pay attention to you, don't do anything against your conscience! Someone will always find out what is good about you! Answer.

Try to let go of yourself and get along with others more! Don't be struggling, some things come slowly! There will be people who will find you good and willing to be real friends with you!

Don't be so pessimistic! Slowly discover your own strengths, convey your advantages to others, and others will also fall in love with your advantages and agree with everything about you!

Young age, because full of vitality and happiness! That's how people like it! will approach you!

Hehe, speechless, you and I are very similar in some places, it's not that people like us don't get along with the group, but the society is changing, there are very few people like us who are honest with each other! The person who was there first was a KTV or something! Sometimes I feel lonely, a 2-month vacation alone, alas!

I wish the landlord can find a confidant!

The character is withdrawn is more.

Caused by the cause of copying:

Attack the first, I bai

Temperament factor. Innate adaptive energy du

The difference in force is mainly related to the inheritance factor.

Second, the lack of communicative skills and methods leads to frustration in interpersonal communication.

Third, it is the influence of the family environment.

Fourth, it is the lack of noble people to help in life.

Fix it for this:

First, correctly evaluate and understand oneself and others.

Second, learn communication skills and improve your personality.

Third, family education should be carried out correctly.

Fourth, wear some mascot jewelry to alleviate your withdrawn and unsociable personality.

Be proactive and connect with others yourself.

You can go to work during the summer and winter vacations, or learn something, such as learning to drive.

My personality is also very introverted, and now that I am working, I have suffered a lot of losses.

Hello! It's because you've grown up, and that's why you feel lonely. It's not because friends have changed, but because they have their own families and lives; Not because there is no connection, but because they are both too busy with each other.

Living in a fast-paced society, it is often easy to lose your way and feel lonely in life.

I have the most say in this question, because I have a good temper and is usually humorous, so the popularity is very good, you have to learn to communicate with others, find the fun of being with friends, anyway, I like to be with friends, come on!!

It is recommended that you read some humorous books, maybe you are humorous. Popularity will be better.

Be kind to others and be optimistic and keep smiling.

How to put it, this is something you need to socialize with yourself.

I'm like this, I feel like I don't have friends, in fact, there are a lot of friends around me, don't think too much, open your heart, be happy, make yourself lively, and integrate more into the circle of friends

Look at more communicative books.

Calm down for a while and think about it.

Closed off and not communicating with others. There is too much idleness, thinking too much.

Lonely and lonely and cold, how old are you.

Do you have a girlfriend?