Why is life miserable??????

It's a matter of your mentality, what you think it's like, it's what it is, it's the same life, it's good and bad, why is there two emotions in the same life, optimism and pessimism, so it's up to you how you look at it, be happy, life is actually beautiful, and you have to think about the people who are suffering from disasters and you will find that you are lucky.

Life is not a tragedy, it depends on what you think, the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold, if the plum blossoms have not experienced the cold winter, they are not plum blossoms. God is fair that whatever suffering you get, you also get back at the same time as **, just in relation to whether you find Him or not. Sima Qian would not have worked so hard to create "Historical Records" without experiencing palace punishment.

Steve Jobs was fired from Apple once, but without that fire, how could he have the success he achieved after returning to the company. If he hadn't been expelled, he wouldn't have worked harder. Everything is a gift from heaven.

Actually, ** is there.

Bitter first and then sweet optimistic life.

If you think it's bitter, it's bitter, and if you think it's sweet, it's sweet.

Suffering is right, comfort is reserved for the dead.

The real tragedy of life is that you are forever attached to the "me" in the past. Humans are extremely self-evaluative animals. When learning and coming into contact with any new thing, whenever there is any frustration or flaw, we will habitually bind the failure of the inadequacy with the personality of the self.

A small failure fermented in the heart, which was obviously a trivial learning mistake, but in the end it rose to personality criticism.

Just admit defeat and be forgiven. "Am I always such a bad person? Thus, the so-called soul torture appeared. And you, who are in the game, will not understand that this so-called large-scale soul torture is not worth mentioning at all.

Because all this does not exist at all, it is an extension of distracting thoughts, and it is also an illusion of thinking.

Ok, let's take a look at how the whole distraction was born, and use reason to analyze the whole process of psychological fluctuations:

The smallest starting point at the beginning is just that you can't memorize the words well, so what is the most important thing for you to do at this time?

Of course, it's to reflect on why I can't memorize words well!! Is there something wrong with the method? Is it not enough to concentrate? Is the energy being distracted by other trivial matters? Is it the right way to manage your time?

Do you need to think about this?

In fact, when you carefully examine this psychological process, you will find that there is no logical chain of causality between "I can't memorize words well" and "I'm just a scumbag".

Is the latter the cause of the former, and the former the effect of the latter?

Of course not. My poor memorization of words is either a problem of method or attitude, so why should it be linked to my personality?

But this is the state of stress that most people are in during the learning process.

I never bind "bad learning" with "method", and like to bind "poor learning" with personality defects.

The latter situation occurs because it is related to the state of stress at the time of learning.

As long as there is a mistake, I have to protect myself immediately, I admit that I have failed, and all mistakes seem forgivable.

Before you can defeat others, you must first overcome yourself. The biggest tragedy caused by excessive self-evaluation is that people can only stay and cling to the "me" in the past. "I could" is a tragedy that is ten million times sadter than "I can't".

After all, the previous external factors all exist as objects, and it is not difficult for us to get close to the truth that "they are kidnapping me and trapping me".

The real tragedy of life is that your strength is not worthy of your ambition, and you don't work hard and live by fantasies every day.

The real tragedy is to live without one's own goals, when a monk hits the clock for a day, doing nothing every day, not knowing what the true meaning of life is.

The real tragedy in life is that a person does not know why he is alive. A person who does not know why he is alive has no hope, and a person who has no hope is not a real person.

The real tragedy of life is that you have worked hard to earn money all your life, thinking that you can enjoy your old age in peace, but because you were young, you didn't care about your health to make money, and finally you were sick and spent all your savings.

The biggest tragedy in life is that in the end there is nothing, no children to accompany you, low living standards, and unhappy life, which is the tragedy of life.

The real tragedy is that halfway through life, you don't know what you want, and you live every day like the walking dead.

As the old Chinese saying goes, you lose your father when you are young, you lose your wife in middle age, and you lose your son in old age, and in three stages, the more important people are leaving you, which is a tragedy that a person cannot eliminate in his life.

I think the most tragic thing in life is to easily give up what you shouldn't give up, and stubbornly insist on what you shouldn't stick to.

The real tragedy is to live in self-deception all the time. For example, if you never plant a seed, but once you strayed into someone else's orchard, you thought that your harvest season was coming soon.

Happiness and sorrow are given by oneself.

In the past, when I was just graduating and looking for a job, I often felt that my life was always too sad, and I felt that everything was not going well in my work life. I've been like this since then, but I'm getting better in terms of mood.

There are always many people in this world, who are not as good as us, who are not as good as us, who have no money, no care, no work, and can live happily, and the happiness and sadness are given by themselves.

Throw away the unhappy, share the happy things, and you can live a very happy life.

Wishing you a happy and wonderful day every day.

Because life is not always easy.

There are unpredictable circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck.

Many things are unpredictable.

That's life.

Without sorrow, one cannot comprehend happiness.