In the face of the hotly discussed case of Lai XX, what do you think about marriage?

Ms. Hangzhou's case is just an example, it is impossible for all couples to be like them, freezing three feet, not a day's cold, marriage requires the experience of two people, and if there is a problem, you should sit down and communicate together as soon as possible. My friends often say that as long as money can solve the problem, it is not a problem, the family and everything is prosperous, and the husband and wife must not have a mustard because of money, and the daughter will come back when it is gone.

Ms. Lai's disappearance case has caused us to reflect on marriage, and there are problems to be solved in time From the case of Ms. Lai's disappearance, we can see that she and her husband are first lovers, and the two were forced to separate because of their parents' opposition, and many years later, they broke through many obstacles and came together, but they didn't know how to cherish it. From our outsider's point of view, this case is because there is a problem between their husband and wife, which has not been resolved in time, so it has caused **. Is it just a matter of a house?

According to insiders, they had a divorce two years ago, which shows that there is a contradiction between the two, and this contradiction was not dealt with and resolved in a timely manner. This missing case gives all of us couples a reflection, and we must solve problems in time, as long as husband and wife are of the same heart, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. Isn't it money?

If you can't give a house, can't you compensate your children? This young man pays a down payment and takes out a loan for the rest, can't he also get married? If things could be thought of like this, I don't think the two of them would have such a big problem.

As long as money can solve the problem between husband and wife, it is not a matter of husband and wife, and husband and wife are most afraid to talk about you and me, if two people want to live a good life, don't divide you and me. It's not easy for people in this life, I don't know what will happen, two people meet this is a fate, they all say that the itch of ten years, two people have lived together for ten years, and have gone through ups and downs, why can't they sit down and solve things? Is it really a problem of poor money?

There is no money for two people to earn, your family is short of money, I will give it to you, my family is short of money, you give it to me, people's hearts are a scale, you speak with your conscience, and the other party will give you back. Husbands and wives must not have a mustard in money, the case of Ms. Hangzhou is an avoidable tragedy, and we bystanders should reflect on our marriage from others.

Although poor couples mourn everything, but everyone understands the principle that husbands and wives are united in their profits and money, as long as two people are of one heart and one mind, then no one can defeat you. So let's work together, our marriage is in our own hands, if you want it to be good, you can definitely be good, unless you don't want to work hard, that's it.

My view of marriage is that neither of them should give too much, they should leave a way back for themselves, and they can't give all their hearts to each other.

I think the words about marriage tell me that I must fully understand before marrying someone, and don't marry for the sake of getting married, otherwise marriage will become a terrible thing.

This incident made me feel that it is really a very prudent thing to confirm the marriage partner, after all, no one would think about what your partner would do to you in your sleep in the future.

I think if you want to get married, you must find someone who really loves you, loves you, knows how to care for you, takes care of you, and doesn't get angry with you.

I think it's very important to find someone with good character, who will be good to you, and he won't do anything to hurt you.

I think you must understand the other party's temperament before you get married, otherwise you may not marry a husband, but a murderer.

I think you must choose the right person for marriage, and don't just because you are old, you have to find someone to marry.

My opinion is that if two people really have no emotional foundation, then there is no need to forcibly tie them together.

I think there is a fundamental difference between marriage and love, when in love, two people, in addition to emotional needs, for the life planning of both parties, are staying in each other's lives, it can be said that love is a matter of two people, and has nothing to do with the family.

But marriage involves family building.

Regardless of the need for children to intervene after marriage, even if two people live together, in any aspect, it is inseparable from the link of family construction, for women, marriage is not only to find a partner for themselves to respect, but also for the future life can be guaranteed, so that there is a person who can always be with you on the road to the future, if on the road to marriage, there is no good choice of the right person, then it means that this marriage is a failure for her.

In the same way, marriage is only a choice for men, a sense of responsibility and a sense of mission, shouldering the responsibility of maintaining the original family relationship, passing the family to the hands of the next generation, marriage for men, more of a role in family inheritance, but this also means that "marriage" is not as simple as imagined.

The final direction of a marriage depends on the results of the joint operation of both parties, so whether it is for men or women, it is a two-way choice process, in this process, there are many factors that need to be considered, such as character, family conditions, family environment, assets of both parties, occupation and other issues, are the results that people value.

But there are also some people, marriage as a child's play, the view of marriage is still at the personal level, so that many people have suffered a lot of losses after marriage, no matter what reason come together, if you want to manage a good relationship in marriage, in marriage, two people to learn to be humble and understand each other, if there are problems to communicate in a timely manner, if you really get along, or can not be integrated, then timely stop loss may as well be a good choice!

From the perspective of social relations, our parents and elders are basically married people, and the older generation basically chooses to get married because of survival or the times or values, and they hope that we can get married, because marriage is two people working together, and it is more important than a person fighting alone. For example, two people can struggle together for life, someone brings water and medicine when they are sick, and someone soothes their souls when they are in pain. For them, they have chosen marriage, and most of them have chosen marriage, feeling that marriage is a secure mode of survival, so they hope that we will also choose marriage.

Based on the fact that most of the friends around you choose marriage, marriage has also become a choice for most adults.

Xiao Wang's statement is incorrect. The pre-marital property of one of the spouses does not become joint property as a result of the marriage. Article 17 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that the following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:

1) Wages and bonuses; (2) Income from production and operation; (3) the proceeds of intellectual property rights; (4) Property obtained by inheritance or donation, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of article 18 of this Law; (5) Other property that shall be jointly owned. Husbands and wives have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property.

Article 18 stipulates that in any of the following circumstances, it shall be the property of one of the husband and wife: (1) the premarital property of one party; (2) Medical expenses, living allowances for persons with disabilities, and other expenses received by one side as a result of bodily injury; (3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong only to the husband or wife; (4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side; (5) Other property that shall belong to one party.

Article 19 stipulates that husband and wife may agree that the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage shall be separately owned, jointly owned, or partly separately owned and partly jointly owned. The agreement shall be in writing. Where there is no agreement or the agreement is unclear, the provisions of articles 17 and 18 of this Law apply.

The agreement between the husband and wife on the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage is binding on both parties.

If the husband and wife agree that the property acquired during the existence of the marital relationship shall belong to each other, and the debts owed by the husband or wife to the outside world are known to the third party, the debts shall be paid off with the property owned by the husband or the wife.

1. Xiao Wang's statement is incorrect. Because, China's marriage law stipulates that if there is one of the following circumstances, it is the property of one of the husband and wife:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties; (2) Medical expenses, living allowances for persons with disabilities, and other expenses received by one side as a result of bodily injury; (3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife; (4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side; (5) Other property that shall belong to one party. That is, it is clarified that the property of one party before the marriage wheel is the property of one of the husband and wife and does not need to be notarized. 1. China's Marriage Law stipulates:

1) The following property acquired by the husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife: wages and bonuses; income from production and operation; proceeds from intellectual property rights; Property acquired by inheritance or gift, except for property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife; Other property that should be jointly owned. Husbands and wives have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property.

2) At the same time, the law stipulates that in any of the following circumstances, it shall be the property of one of the spouses: the pre-marital property of one party; Medical expenses, living allowances for the disabled, and other expenses received by one party due to bodily injury; Property that is determined in a will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife; daily necessities for one party; Other property that should belong to one party.

3) The Marriage Law also stipulates that the wife may agree that the property acquired during the marriage and the property before the marriage shall be owned separately or jointly, or partly separately and partly jointly.