If the man divorces you, and others see you and say, why don t you find where you are?

What's so embarrassing about getting out of marriage, there are so many divorces these years. At least you haven't gotten married yet, so it saves a lot of trouble. My friend has this, the marriage date is set, and in the end they quarrel again, and they quarrel again, but there is no way, now they don't quarrel and wait until they find out that it is not suitable to divorce after marriage?

So don't care what others think, just be happy, and let others say go on your own donkey.

The mouth grows on others, and whoever wants to say it can say whatever he wants. Only you know if the shoes fit or not, and since they are separated, it is definitely not appropriate.

You just said: Retire and retire Anyway, I can play for a few more years, it may not be without him, I can't live.

Actually, I suggest that you don't do anything, just hehe, just two times, explain once, explain ten times, and people like to keep asking questions.

Divorced from the marriage, proving that the two people are not suitable. There's nothing to worry about, just say whatever others like.

It doesn't matter what they say, live their own lives, talk about what they like to say to others, let them go, change to city life, leave the land of right and wrong, and then quietly Nunu, quietly succeed, and then return to their hometowns when the time comes.

We are others who don't know the situation, what is he going to say is their business, what are you going to do and how is it yours?

Marriage problems are completely personal emotional matters, you can do what you want, don't listen to other people's gossip, go your own way, as long as you live a happy life, it doesn't matter what others say.

Since the boy said that he wanted to withdraw from the marriage, did he explain what caused it?

Is it because after living with each other for a period of time, you feel that you don't agree with each other, or is it because of other reasons, such as money, etc.?

If this boy drags on for a long time and doesn't solve this matter, it will be a great harm to you and it will be detrimental to you.

If you are a man who has not solved the problem for a long time, an irresponsible man, I personally think that even if you come together in the future, he must be such a character, if you don't solve the problem, only let you do it in a hurry, it will also be a very unfavorable factor for your future life, and there will be constant quarrels and contradictions.

Since he proposed to withdraw from the marriage, my personal suggestion is to agree, and get out of contact with him as soon as possible, and find a new person who truly loves you, loves you, and cares about you, and a man who can really take care of you!

You can't find an indecisive person to accompany you in life, this is an extremely troublesome thing in life.

Maybe the boy feels that he has already said about the divorce at this time, so he doesn't want to say it a second time, but just wants to wait for the development of the situation, maybe he thinks that the girl should know what to do next, and he doesn't mention this matter too much.

It is also possible that the boy has regretted what he said, and he is very remorseful, so he doesn't want to mention this matter again, mainly because he cares about his face, but he also wants to express his inner feelings, so he doesn't mention it.

Default can't solve everything, silence may command the task will become heavier and heavier, at that time the boy had better come out to clarify, or talk to the woman about what to do next, and decide together.

The boy first proposed to withdraw from the marriage and did not contact him, indicating that he was hesitant and uncertain in his heart. But the boy is obviously hesitant about marriage, and there may be more things in his future life that make him regret getting married, so the subject can talk to him directly to prevent future troubles.

The boy wanted to get out of the marriage, but he didn't say anything about it. He's forcing you to say that he wants the bride price back. If the boy says to withdraw from the marriage, you can't give him the bride price first.

If you want to withdraw from the marriage, of course, you have to contact and say that you will leave, and if you don't solve it, you won't return, and you won't contact him, and he won't talk about it, so you must take the initiative to say it, if one of the two is unwilling, of course it will be ruined, or get married and divorced, it will be very troublesome, and of course after the divorce is not as good as before the divorce.

In this case, then you go and tell him to withdraw from the marriage, maybe he is afraid that he will make you bad if he says that the divorce will make you bad, so you go to him and retreat, because neither of you has the heart to be together, that is, there is no need to drag it out, it is not good for anyone, so that you can get together and let go, maybe you can be good friends in the future.

Since the boy has the intention of withdrawing from the marriage, then why should he be entangled, you can't say that he wants to retreat, and if he doesn't want to retreat, he won't retreat, so the boy is not worth cherishing you, leave him, there are many good men, there will be people who understand you.

It is estimated that there is no way to do it, he may feel that he will not reply to him by contacting you, so he thinks of this idea, if you really want to withdraw from the marriage, then take the initiative to contact him, otherwise it will always be unclear and boring. Remember.

He thinks that what you can't afford to lose is the cost of time, since he is already going to withdraw from the marriage first, he will do as he says, he will not contact you and ignore you, and it will be delayed until you are completely dead.

If you say it but don't take action, it may be just talking, you don't really want to get out of the marriage, otherwise you won't act immediately.

If you don't want to get out of the marriage, you can still fight for it, and if you don't want to continue, it's good to settle the matter quickly.

Since a man wants to withdraw from the marriage, why contact him stubbornly, if he doesn't solve it, it means that he doesn't care about anything, remember that as a woman, you have to calm down and stay calm, if you are lonely, go to someone to chat or something, don't pretend to be entangled in your marriage that doesn't belong to you, and be a woman who can afford to let go of high emotional intelligence is the smartest woman ......

Is it also involved in economic issues, that is, your family used to accept some bride price and other property, and now the two want to break up, and the man is afraid that after the breakup is brought up first, it is not good to ask your family to return the property.

Maybe he is just talking, or maybe he is afraid that you will not return the bride price or money he gave you, so wait for you to bring it up first.

Generally, this is the case that he really wants to withdraw from the marriage, but he is worried that you will ask for compensation or not return the bride price, so he wants you to submit it first.

I think he is holding you back in good faith, and if you decide not to love him, you can take the initiative to contact him and explain the reason and break up.

I think it's best for a man like this to propose to withdraw from the marriage earlier, saying that because he didn't have a first meeting at all, and that there was no manly behavior, no responsibility, so it was best for him to propose it yourself.

Personally, if you think so, you have to figure it out now, and you don't want to withdraw from the marriage, if you still want to withdraw from the marriage, you just need to make it clear what you should say.

Since he wants to withdraw from the marriage, then you will withdraw from the marriage and promise him, and you will let him give you a reason or not to divorce the marriage? This kind of boy is not something you can control, and breaking up is the best ending.

Since this is the case, then retreat, don't waste your youth on him, he is an irresponsible person, and he will be an irresponsible person in the future, leave him early.

It seems that this boy is more selfish, and he doesn't say it directly if he wants to withdraw from the marriage, it seems that he wants to wait for the woman to say that he will withdraw from the marriage, and then he wants to return the bride price.

Since this is already the case, then you just withdraw from the marriage, don't delay yourself, it will not be good for you.

Two people are engaged, and the boy wants to get out of the marriage, so you have to figure out what's going on? Is it the two of you, or is it something else? You have to make it clear that you agree to withdraw from the marriage again, so that you can understand it in your heart.

Isn't this just a delay or a hurry to solve this matter.

You can get straight to the point and ask him what he means! It's not that you can't get married, so if you can't, pull it down!