26 year old female, no love history. I found out that I fell in love with my former colleague, but h

My monthly salary is 8000, and I study safety engineering. The monthly salary is not proportional to the level of study. Social adaptability.

Most of the jobs have little to do with university subjects, and now that I think about it, the university is just a catalog. The problem of relationship cannot be forced, if they really love each other, even if you are in good condition, it is difficult for him to change. In fact, when you first mention money, you feel that you attach great importance to status and wealth, and maybe you have to change it.

Life needs reality, but feelings also need to be sincere, from the heart, and everything else becomes secondary. I hope you can find a better one, the kind that will take the initiative to love you, for men, don't choose passive, that will not last long in the future. Good luck luck!!

Does it have anything to do with him or not?

Since you mentioned the monthly salary, I suggest that you leave Beijing with a monthly salary of 2500.

I suggest you don't destroy people's homes, otherwise it may be empty, and you may lose something.

Love is a two-way street, you are very happy with others, are they happy with you?

Also, don't compare yourself to others.

Faint, love, love, faint, so many reasons, if you hesitate, you will be gone, fool.

This is a tangled problem, and you can't stop it when feelings come. But he has a girlfriend, and you should observe how he and his girlfriend are doing. If it's okay, you tell yourself that he's not that good, you can find someone else, and that the world is beautiful and extensive, and you shouldn't be limited to it.

It mainly depends on whether the man will make money, whether it fits well with the woman's character, the academic qualifications are all floating clouds, now it is the key to the material society or whether it will make money, if it will make money, it doesn't matter if you can make a primary school or a bachelor's degree.

Academic qualifications do not completely determine a person's fate, it depends on a series of factors such as whether the man's family has a sense of professionalism. Self-made, uneducated bosses abound.

In fact, this probability has a lot to do with your family background, personality and values.

It is very likely that there will be differences in values between you and your different levels of education, but it is impossible to say how much difference there is.

As for the probability, if I had to say one, I think it is less than 50%.

If it helps, don't forget to adopt it.

Don't take a bachelor's degree very seriously, many doctoral and master's students should be unemployed, and they will be unemployed as usual Many big bosses are elementary school culture.

Look at what the man is doing.

It's still a door-to-door, right, low education for low education.

In life, try to avoid associating with people who have deep resentments

Surround yourself with clear people. They will take you to see new worlds.

dao, so that after saying goodbye to her, you feel that life is full of hope and full of strength. It makes your whole life suddenly feel lighter, and you yearn for the way you take your life seriously.

It makes sense to be the right person! I don't have a degree, I look down on you, but you look down on me too.

Is it useful to be a nerd with an education? Can you swipe your face whitely? Such men are sick! Don't weigh how successful you are, you don't need to be friends with such a person, just take care of the tiger! Why are you worried about being so beautiful!

How is it possible to look down on the confident point that won't mind.

Look up to yourself, don't belittle yourself because of other people's opinions

You put pressure on yourself and think too much, but your circle is different, they won't understand you, and they don't talk about you differently than we do.

You're good! Can I introduce a single undergraduate student to you? Earnest!

Don't you find fault with them in terms of academic qualifications? A high degree of education does not mean a high IQ, and a high IQ does not mean a high emotional intelligence.

Mainly look at the face, and everyone likes it if it looks good.

My son can afford it, he is a freshman at Peking University. Good looks, do you want it?

The general mature man's thinking must be a person with his own ideas, a more independent person, the outlook on life is the most important, what he considers things from the perspective of values are determined by his own inherent ideas and attitudes, dealing with some things that is better to use that, you can't blindly think that you are right, and everyone is an independent body, the living environment is not the same, there must be some differences in ideas, but this is not a problem, two people have a run-in period together, It's just to see if it's suitable or not to run in together, the simple thing is whether you can accept some of his shortcomings and ideas, and let it go if you can't accept it.

I don't think there is any gap between the university and the technical secondary school in terms of life wisdom, and his idea is not necessarily right. Maybe others are smarter and can convince you that the truth is not loud and it must be right!

Or choose to break up. Sooner or later, it won't last long together.

Now happy, in a few years he will not look down on you, and there is a high probability of separation.

Decide for yourself! Husbands and wives are persuaded to get together and not to leave, but sometimes they are still persuaded to leave and not to be persuaded to leave! It's all up to you!

Either you improve yourself, or forget it, look at yourself, the three views are inconsistent, how can you live a lifetime.

..If you have been together and cherished it, it is best to pull it without thinking too much. Walking may not be the best way to do it, but it's the best.

Because you're not a prophet, you can't be in the future.

There must be a common language, and two people together don't necessarily have to talk about learning, it can be their own ordinary life or other experiences.

True love is without academic qualifications Answer Supplement If you feel it, continue it, and give it up if you don't.

Love has nothing to do with academic qualifications, but it has to do with family background. Try to find common ground! If the family background is similar, communication is more barrier-free.

I don't think it's very suitable, but depending on whether you love each other enough, whether you are willing to sacrifice something for each other, and be a little more tolerant, it's okay.

Cadres and peasants can also get married, what is not, the personality is compatible, there is a tacit understanding, true love, and the same happiness.

Some. Love doesn't matter what you have. As long as there is no academic discussion between you. And now that the information spread on the Internet is so wide, there will be a common language.

Falling in love has little to do with academic qualifications. Undergraduates don't necessarily know more things than secondary school students, and a diploma doesn't mean everything... As long as you have the same preferences, it's perfectly fine to fall in love.

Girl, this depends on how the two of you look at this problem, academic qualifications are not a problem, the question is whether the mental level between you is at the same level, there must be a common language, as long as it doesn't involve a very professional topic, there shouldn't be any problems.

I have a friend who is a high school student, and I have a lively conversation with a graduate student, and I don't see them, and they are worried about this common language, so be confident.

It's not that the level of education is too different, and it shouldn't be a problem.

In the beginning, there will be some conflicts because of the level of education.

Yes, this is two people in love, not looking for a job, and academic qualifications are not so important.

As long as there is love, there will be topics.

Love has nothing to do with academic qualifications, and the difference in your education level is not very big, the key to marriage is to find a compatible one, if you find a doctor, the character is not good, then how to live. So for your happiness in the future, you should still work hard, come on, it is the two of you who will live in the future, and it is not your family who lives with her, you should seize this love if you think it is good.

This girl will definitely be quite stressful to live with you in the future, because everyone has prejudices against him.

Actually, there is some mud! My friend graduated from secondary school, and he married a Japanese doctor, so he is doing well.

Do you like the secondary school student or not, if you like it, it depends on whether you are a person who pursues material life very much, in fact, there is little difference between secondary school students and college students, and the future work depends on personal ability. You've been admitted to college, you're an adult, make your own decisions, don't be vulgar.

I'd rather find someone you like than find a mom who likes something you don't like, so you're equal to = puppet.

Loved it for 10 years? Let me tell you the story of my classmate, my classmate is an only child in the city, he talked about a boyfriend in college, he is from rural Jiangxi, and there are 5 children in the family, he is the eldest. My classmate's parents refused to agree, but in the end they agreed, and now my classmate is in graduate school, and his boyfriend has graduated and worked.

Women can be so strong, but can't men? Of course, parents are for the good of their children, but the post-80s generation pays more attention to spiritual things. Material things make people rich, but they don't make people happy.

I suggest that you can divide it up if you can, this girl is definitely not as pure as you think, maybe after a long time you will understand the good intentions of your parents, your lack of experience, although I don't know your business, but I still firmly advise you to separate. Go to more parties, get to know more women, you will find that you are more in love with knowledgeable women, her father is cheating, you say that the quality of girls will be so good that she will definitely not be the other half you are looking for. Trust my reasoning.

I couldn't even figure this out, so I came here to ask questions. Always make your own decisions.

I have no experience with this issue, and I can only say a little bit about my own opinion.

I think the only people who stop you now are your elders, colleagues or friends who just give you advice, and it doesn't matter if you listen or not.

Now that your elders are against it, I would like to ask them, to put it mildly, if one day, your elders are gone, who is responsible for your life?? Is it yourself, or someone else?

Also, another question, if you stick to your own ideas now, in fact, there is nothing wrong with that, but you have to think about why the concept of being the right person in China has not changed over the years.

Because there is no common language!

It is difficult to have a common language between two people who are not in the right household, and it is difficult to imagine that two people without a common language will live together for a lifetime.

Believing that there is a common language between you, I congratulate you and bless you

If, in the future, there is no common language between you, I would like to ask you to drop everything and find your common language.

Finally, bless you.

Follow your heart, you don't need to care about your academic qualifications when you're together, whether a person has the ability or not, and you can't see anything about your academic qualifications.

Brother, you have a good idea. It's good to marry a reasonable one. Marry someone who is unreasonable. It's an undergraduate girl who looks down on you even more. Just wait and cry. So the conclusion is. Don't look at his academic qualifications. See if she's good.

What's wrong with not going to college, "can't afford to play" you talk about friends just to play?

You say you're too honest? The ghost will believe that you don't have the capital to fall in love.

Unlikely, unless the girl likes you in the first place.

It's impossible, let's break it up early, and there is no communication language at all.

Why not? Is there a junior college or undergraduate in love?

Be confident!

This has nothing to do with academic qualifications.

I also have an undergraduate classmate.

Married to a secondary school.

There are quite a few examples of this around.

The premise is that you are good to her.

You're a good fit.

Nothing could be impossible.

Two days ago, I was a fellow countryman, graduated from high school, and his wife graduated from graduate school.

Now the children are so big.

To be honest, what is the difference between undergraduate and technical secondary school now, after a few years in the society, it is estimated that I will not even know the topic of primary school.

His education is really nothing. It's that you're not confident anymore.

Love is not just about academic qualifications, personal temperament, personality, internal, external, career, etc., the most important thing is that you will communicate with women, know their minds, everything is not a problem.

Yes, you don't need a reason to like someone.

Appearance beauty is just the surface of a person, as long as you are compatible, appearance is not very important.

It doesn't really matter, it's a big chance.

Just let them belittle.

You don't have to go against them.

If your superiors are really sensible people.

Will definitely find a way to see what you are actually capable of.

If they slander you, you will still keep the system and work hard.

No matter how much they slander, it is a waste of time.

Just mind yourself.

I am also a public institution.

High school student. Not against all men. Just do your part.

Regardless of so much, are you tired?

Defend against people, are you tired?

Because you're not in the same circle as them. They don't have as much education as you have, and they don't have as many good ideas. You have a high degree of education, and you have a higher level of insight than them, so you have touched their interests, who doesn't want to be promoted?

Your advantages are much greater than theirs, don't be afraid, we are smarter and more knowledgeable than them, try to show them!

It is recommended that you divert your attention, don't think too much, work and study hard, you will naturally let go, a good mood is heaven, anger is hell, think about happy things, forget unpleasant things, unpleasant things are in the past, don't think about it anymore, just like the calendar you turn over, don't turn it back.

Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, dance. Time will dilute everything.