A 29 year old unmarried woman can t lift her spirits in love!

I used to be an older leftover woman. I've felt your feelings too. Although you are a little repulsed by blind dates and marriage on the surface, you are very eager to have a home in your heart.

When loneliness becomes a habit, it is easy to viciously circulate. First of all, you have to look at blind dates correctly, and don't meet for the sake of getting married. In this way, I feel a lot of pressure, and I will be especially concerned when I see some bad details of the other party.

Try to correct your attitude first, treat yourself as a friend, and feel less pressure. Secondly, your own life must be arranged to be full and happy. Cultivate your own interests and hobbies, and have less time to think about marriage.

It is also necessary to ask the blind date to go out to play once in a while, and when men see your confidence and happiness, they can also let go of the obstacles in their hearts and get along with you easily. In fact, men have such confusion, so not everything can be seen clearly at the dating dinner table. Find someone who loves and loves you, but first he must love you deeply.

This is a principle that will benefit you for life. After a long time, you will know, especially when the marriage fades to the gorgeous color, it is important that he still loves you very much.

It's great when you meet the right lover for you!

What age is it now, why are you in a hurry to get married? Marriage is a lifelong thing!

As the old saying goes: Men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man!

That's fate. Love will be dull, marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is not easy to run love through a long married career. The boyfriend you find yourself should feel more than the one you are introduced.

You haven't met the person you like the most.

It means a girl who is financially independent, has an independent personality, does not need to rely on others, and has a strong heart.

It means that you have to lower the standard and make do with one. It's not that I'm worldly, it's reality!

This means that your chances of finding true love are less than five percent.

29 years old is actually nothing, don't marry the wrong person because of age, regret for life, it's really important to choose a person to live a lifetime, it's a little difficult to find the right one at this age, but don't be disappointed, believe in yourself, happiness is not far from yourself, if it helps you, just adopt it!

It shows that this woman is very hurt in love and no longer believes in love.

There are fewer and fewer choices, and you have to work hard to find your other half.

Now it's a lot of it, it's nothing.

Americans love beauty, but sometimes they are ugly.

I can't say it, I'm afraid you'll scorn me.

It's normal, I'm not over thirty.

I'm like this, I'm more impatient, I'm too worried about the person I'm talking to, I feel like I like peace in my heart, I don't want to bear the feeling of suffering from gains and losses, and I'm a little afraid of the person I'm talking to.

I don't know, but I feel like he's right:

Because you haven't met the woman you like now, you don't answer when you meet an ugly person, you are beautiful and you don't feel very realistic (low self-esteem), you don't like the process of pursuing a woman, it feels long and humble (your temper should not be very good).

A person has been single for a long time and is used to living alone, sometimes he is lonely and wants to find someone to accompany him, but he is numb after being alone for a long time.

I hope some girls see this answer:

Got it, men aren't things!In the future, when you meet a man who is not your true love, don't get used to his faults!Don't give him face!Otherwise, it's easy to be deceived!At least I was deceived emotionally!

And what he said:

Because you didn't meet the right person. It's as simple as that. People have emotional exchanges, and wanting to fall in love is just an idea, but it's up to you to do it. Kindness... It's not that you're not interested in girls, it's that you haven't found the right person.

Actually, you can't meet the right person for you!

Unless you are a male god, you can choose all the women in the world!Find the end, you will find that what you are waiting for is no longer love, you have no love!

So, fortunately, the question you asked is just what you think, and you don't really deceive a woman's feelings like that!It is never easy for a man to love a woman!It takes to pay, it needs to act, and it is greater than Lei Feng, so treat women well, is, a man loves a woman!

I know.

Because you don't meet the woman you like now, don't meet the ugly one, be beautiful and feel unrealistic (low self-esteem), don't like the process of pursuing a woman, feel long, humble (your temper should not be very good).

A person has been single for a long time and is used to living alone, sometimes he is lonely and wants to find someone to accompany him, but he is numb after being alone for a long time.

I can't forget the old her.

Are you interested in men?

Isn't it a bit gay-leaning??

See how you treat her, and what do you use to measure her good or bad?

You shouldn't be in a hurry to get married, but you should have a scheming plan to find a suitable long-term meal ticket and cultivate it first. I'm older than you, and it's hard to find the right one if you're unmarried! Women who are not in a hurry also have strong women, and it is good to follow fate.

Divorce and children are not afraid, you really don't need to worry about anything. You have to find someone who is worthy of you. It's never too late to get married around the age of 35. After getting married, there are a lot of trivial things waiting for you to deal with, and you will be very selfless.

Dizzy, I want not to get married for the rest of my life, but unfortunately I got married when I was much younger than you, woo, how good it is to be free and easy to be alone, more wives and more children, and how much care? How much more pressure is there, working alone, you can work one, take a month off, work for two months, play for three months, and you can't get married! Why can't I be a leftover man? Woooooooo

Late marriage is not a bad thing, I am a year older than you, I only found a suitable boyfriend on May Day this year, I have failed in love before, my parents are more anxious than us, I want to open a little bit, fate is early and late.

Good things are not afraid of being late, the most important thing is to find the right one, good luck!

I've heard women say that no matter what woman is, she will always think that she is a princess, unless she is the kind of girl who is extremely beautiful or ugly.

It can be seen that women have no self-knowledge, either they are as beautiful as a fairy, or they are extremely ugly, so they have a little self-knowledge.

Women think they are princesses and want to meet their own Prince Charming. It's a pity that he won't meet it in his life. When you are young, you have to hang high and be arrogant.

When you meet a boy who really likes you, you feel good about yourself. It's not the same thing, when the opportunity has passed, it is inevitable to taste the bitter fruit of leftover women.

also delays their age, women are actually only 10 years old, 18 to 28 years old, ** youth is only 5 years, 18 to 23 years old. After the age of 28, no matter what kind of conditions you have, men actually dislike it in their hearts, because your youth is gone, and you have not walked with him when you are the most youthful. For example, marrying a 28-year-old woman, the woman at this time is actually just over her youth, and a man marrying such a woman is just looking at the opportunity for this woman to have children in two or three years.

When a woman marries at this age, there is no kindness to a man at all, let alone a hundred days of grace for a husband and wife overnight. At this time, the marriage was just taking the last train, and the two lived together. Just like buying vegetables in the vegetable market, the fresh food in the morning is all leftover in the afternoon, and the poor can't afford to save money to buy vegetables, but the price of the vegetables in the afternoon is cheap, although it is not very fresh, but it can be eaten immediately.

The leftover girl is actually so pitiful, but who is to blame for this?

What's even more pitiful is that at the age of leftover women, if they didn't clean themselves before, if they were still second-hand, they would be multi-handed. Black fungus. Don't expect to meet any love.

After getting married, men are disgusted, and sometimes men are still depressed when they think about it. Sharing the same bed in the middle of the night and seeing that the wife next to him used to be such a woman, the man was still disgusted in his heart. This has been expressed by many men on the Internet, and it is also true.

Needless to say.

As a bystander, I can only sigh that fate makes people, everyone has their own destiny, and they do it themselves.

You're a ** person, have you found it now?

Generally speaking, your situation is a symptom of qi and blood deficiency, and you can use the Spleen Gui Pill to nourish qi and blood**.

This kind of thing is not a big problem in the mind of not knowing what you want. There are many ways to fix it.

Stabilize the work first and then talk about the rest.

I don't want to share your share, but I think that first of all, find one or two interests, and then there is a job that stabilizes first, and with income there is everything else. Then think about your career goals and work hard.

Girls don't need to have much ideals, and have the right one to marry themselves. Arranged by the husband.

If you have someone you like, be clear about your goals. If there are too many ideas, line up what can be realized, and if there is a man who sleeps with you and doesn't say marry you, then quickly separate and never contact.

Find a job you love, work hard to do well, and take care of yourself. If the flowers are in full bloom, the butterflies will come.

Don't feel that you are too big, work first, and be happy is the most important thing.

First find a stable job, start a little bit, and then find a man you like to marry, you will feel that life is meaningful when you have a family, as for the ideal or whatever, it doesn't matter, most of us are ordinary people living an ordinary life, and we don't necessarily have to be great in life.

There is no point in working hard and living worried.

Everything goes naturally, nothing is in a hurry, everything will be fine, believe in yourself.

Get your work done first, find a boyfriend if you have time, and relax by the way.

Optimistic and positive. Day to keep a good mood. Good job.

If your career is successful, everything will be fine.

Set a direction for yourself and go ahead!

Even the job of supporting yourself is unstable, how to stabilize the others?

If the circle is small or too homely, you may take the initiative yourself, maybe your fate is relatively late. But don't be compromised, otherwise it's your own drip that suffers.

What about family conditions? If you are looking for a general, you will also find a general. If you are rich, you can pick and choose everything. If you're very poor, don't think about finding a partner. Let's fight first. You've made it and a lot of girls are chasing you.

What about family conditions? If you have money, you have women, and if you don't have money, how can you fall in love.

Do you have money? Do you have a good temper? Self-motivated?

At least you have to have one, otherwise, nothing needs to be discussed.

Don't worry, fate comes naturally.

Make more friends, both men and women.

That's your marriage hasn't arrived yet, don't worry

I didn't meet the right person

You can deal with women more.

Do you think you're unhealthy, and do you think it's unhealthy to be 29 years old and unmarried.

The more society develops, the more complex the problems become, and everyone has their own way of life.

I don't know what a normal state of mind is, I just want to be a good person, honor my parents, find someone who treats me sincerely, and live a happy life, for me, the most rare thing is not the process of struggle, but the so-called retribution, fate, past and present lives, and so on, all of which cannot be proven and cannot be denied in the middle ground. Because I can't prove that many things really exist, and I can't deny them entirely. I'm a simple person, either left or right.

When I am working, something like this may happen, two people compete, there are good and bad, so will the good person get retribution for stealing the job of the bad person?

A very despicable person hurts someone, so the person who was hurt just scolded him a few words, isn't it"Speak ill of yourself"Will there be retribution? Could it be the fault of one person, but let the family also suffer retribution? Yes, to be a human being is to have a clear conscience, but if there is really a god in the sky, how can you tell the difference between the despicable person and the hurt person, who is good and who is bad?

No one knows what a really good person is, what a bad person is, a rich person, has always been rich, yes, they have worked hard, but it is inevitable that they are not scheming, and a good person who has been a good person all his life is very difficult. Are sickness and pain punishment or natural phenomena? If the gods make people happy and make people punished, then why not wait for the gods to save you when you are sick?

A person who believes in God and does not work respects God enough, isn't he still dependent on relatives and friends to support him? A person who doesn't do bad things can be called a good person, to do good things, to honor his family, and may not be happy, a bad person doesn't want anything but is successful and happy, he doesn't want to be afraid of offending the gods, just think about himself, if there are really gods, shouldn't we tell us this kind of people who don't do bad things, how to live, to tell us what is right and what is wrong, believe in him and be afraid of offending him, why do many people want to be good people, it's not that they are afraid of retribution, Why do people's initial good thoughts become passive, and why do the better people are, the more tired they are? I have to worry a lot, and I am afraid of offending anyone, I have to think of everything, I want to be a good person, and I am afraid that what I do is not a good thing, the more I know, the more I think, the more I doubt, but I can't put time on life, waste my youth, but I am afraid that I will do something wrong, what to do if I am retributed, I dare not do bad things now, and even be bullied, I dare not scold, I am afraid of retribution, I am not afraid of retribution, I am not afraid of retribution, I am afraid of affecting the people I love, so what is the mentality of healthy life?

My current life is cautious, for fear that if something is wrong, the gods will be unhappy and punished, why, if I really have a past life, is it that I was very bad in my previous life, and I have to suffer psychological torture in this life, or I can't fight for my youthful vitality, it's hard to be a human being, really, especially a good person.