I think about him as soon as I stop, how can I stop thinking about him?

Not long ago, her friend broke up with her boyfriend, but in the first few days of the breakup, she kept thinking about him, as long as she stopped, her mind was full of each other. She complained to me and asked me how I could stop thinking about him.

1. Keep yourself busy.

When work keeps us busy and we can't think about ourselves, being able to forget about each other is really paralyzing but very effective. We constantly think about each other not only will affect our daily work and life, but also make us immersed in pain, if we want to forget each other, we have to keep ourselves busy, when we have no leisure time to think about each other, we can temporarily put this emotion aside.

During the period of my breakup with my ex, I kept myself working and was so busy that I didn't have my own life, which was tiring but I found it very effective.

2. Socialize more and make new friends.

Some people say that the best way to forget about him is to meet new people, which is not to say find someone to replace him, but to hope that you can forget the past and face a new life. When we are immersed in the new life, we will get new happiness, people should not look back too much, always recall the past, it is inevitable to be shrouded in painful emotions, when you continue to socialize, you will find that the original better than him people abound, and will naturally choose to forget each other.

If you want to forget him, don't give yourself time to think about him.

3. Delete all traces about him.

The best thing to forget about a person is to remove all traces of him, like he never came to my life, and it is not cruel. I think it's cruel to think of him from time to time, and to delete the traces about him is actually to tell myself, don't leave any more thoughts, he's not suitable for me. In front of me, there are still a lot of scenery waiting for me, and I should face them with a smile instead of looking at the past.

Therefore, the deletion of traces is also a kind of firmness and oath in my heart.

Sometimes the best way to forget a person is not to control yourself, because every time you think about him, your heart hurts, and over time, your body will not think about him in order to protect itself.

It shows that you really love him, but love is the most taboo like this, you are an independent individual and should have your own life. The best way to stop thinking about him is to keep yourself busy, do something you love, and just divert your attention!

If you love the other person very much after falling out of love, let yourself talk to your friends more, or learn a new skill to distract yourself from this thought.

Try to accept another person, start a new relationship, and slowly you will squeeze him out of your memory.

"How to Stop Thinking About You" is a song written by Qiu Tian, composed by Yan Xiaonan, and sung by Jing Dier.

Jing Dier, born in Shenyang City, Liaoning Province, is a Chinese female singer, graduated from Shenyang ** College, and her representative work "Luo Li, Rushing Forward". On January 25, 2022, the chorus single "Beauty and Beauty" was released. On March 22, the variety show "Cross-Generation Answering King" was scheduled to be broadcast on Mango TV.

Don't be alone and don't do things, it's better not to let your head have time to think about him. Try to hang out with friends and family, and when I'm bored, I can watch TV, watch movies, and surf the Internet, but don't follow his news. Delete him from his head, don't think about it, and if he thinks of it, quickly control himself not to think about it, think of something else.

Song lyricsWhen the rain is quiet, when the sky is already transparent.

The city was suddenly quieter.

Pretending to be calm reminds me that it's okay.

But the teardrops are still inexhaustible.

In my eyes. All that remains is devastation.

I have no intention of looking for scenery anymore.

How much luck. to be able to be with you.

It's a pity that love is always unsatisfactory.

How to stop me thinking about you.

Do you want to stop my breathing wowo

I don't want to be abandoned by you.

I just want to be hugged by you.

I'll take my heart apart for you.

How to stop me thinking about you.

The whole world is your voice wowo

I don't think I need to say it again.

Everyone knows I love you.

It's just you pretending not to care.

In my eyes. All that remains is devastation.

I have no intention of looking for scenery anymore.

How much luck. to be able to be with you.

It's a pity that love is always unsatisfactory.

How to stop me thinking about you.

Do you want to stop my breathing wowo

I don't want to be abandoned by you.

I just want to be hugged by you.

I'll take my heart apart for you.

How to stop me thinking about you.

The whole world is your voice wowo

I don't think I need to say it again.

Everyone knows I love you.

It's just you pretending not to care.

Can't resist the urge to love you.

But in the end, it was a dream.

My heart you will never understand.

How to stop me thinking about you.

Do you want to stop my breathing wowo

I don't want to be abandoned by you.

I just want to be hugged by you.

I'll take my heart apart for you.

How to stop me thinking about you.

The whole world is your voice wowo

I don't think I need to say it again.

Everyone knows I love you.

It's just you pretending not to care.

Time can dilute everything, but the accompanying ants who can't be washed away are memories!

You love her so much! Actually, you'd love to be with her!

But you feel distressed? Right?

Once upon a time, I had a friend who loved her girlfriend too. But her girlfriend also proposed to break up, because of the distance, he was very sad!

I once asked him to keep this relationship as a memory and keep it away, because memories will be beautiful in the end!

But he told me: If there is a chance, don't let yourself live in a time that has passed! '

In fact, the more you deliberately try to forget, the more you will think!

You can try to comfort yourself every day, you have asked a woman to fill such a wound, you say Nabu Xing.

I said you don't have the courage to love!

You let yourself slowly accept a new relationship, a new life!

Learn to forget her slowly, but you must treat your new relationship as a shadow!

You have to learn to accept this slowly, and slowly adapt to the other her!

Gradually, time will wash away your love, even though it may not wash away your memories!

But by that time you're getting used to the new.

And you won't be sad!

Do you believe that the disadvantage of the times can dilute everything? I believe very much, I have the same experience as you, we have known each other for 4 years, but we broke up as early as the year we met, he is also a family man, I couldn't figure it out at the time, but the reality is that he can't divorce for me, so what can I do, I believe you still have a long way to go, this happiness is not yours, then there is a better waiting for you, bravely take a step forward, the sky is blue, believe me. You will come out of your thoughts, I hope that your true love will come soon, so that you will shift your mind, and you can also distinguish who is your happiness, love is an entity where pain and happiness coexist, and what you want to open is the season when spring is warm and the flowers bloom!

It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget a loved one.

What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

Don't deliberately forget, it will only be harder, time is the best medicine, let time help you forget. Maybe there are some things that you can't forget with time, so don't forget them, treasure them in the deepest part of your heart, seal them up, and call them memories that have passed.

Try to look at the past with a normal heart, how much time it really takes, and it is actually up to you to decide how much time you can face yourself anew. No one else can help you.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when Shiye Li slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!