My sister always complains to me that my parents don t like her enough, how can I persuade her?

I am a younger sister and my parents are very fond of me. My sister complained directly for many years, but she also fulfilled her responsibilities to her family.

I think the reasons for the preference are manifold, and there may be some traditional factors. My sister is an elder, and in ancient times, it was that kind of independence. Everyone is different, every child is different. It is impossible to measure absolute fairness and equality with balance.

However, the subject also knows that there are quite a few difficult moments when living together. The greater the sense of self, the more painful it becomes. So I hurt myself, cut my fingers and arms, quit drinking liquor in junior high school, and stopped studying.

Fortunately, I studied well before and had a little foundation. I went to high school, and even in high school, I exiled myself and became the bottom of my grade for a while. In addition, because there is no money to eat, I often suffer from severe illness due to hunger and cold.

After I got sick and dropped out of school, I started working part-time to earn money. Even so, the elders in my family advised me not to take medicine to treat my illness, because it costs money to buy medicine, and I should leave the money to my family. My father once counted accounts with his fingers and suspected that I had spent more than 2,000 yuan a year (about a month's salary of an ordinary migrant worker for a month and a half).

For comparison, when my brother took the high school entrance examination in the past few years, my father was afraid that he would fail the exam, so he was going to spend 20,000 yuan to buy a school.

Speaking of these experiences, I want to tell the subject that it is useless to dig into the corners, pain, self-harm, and self-indulgence. No one will be ashamed of you and think you don't have any responsibility. Everything is your problem.

When I returned to school after my illness, I woke up a little and didn't dare to indulge. I started to want to study hard, but my foundation was really poor before, and I didn't do well in high school. After hard work, I barely got into college.

During the Chinese New Year, I would buy a lot of things and take them back to my mother's house. I would buy clothes for my dad to buy what he wanted, but I don't subsidize the money and it's harmonious.

My brother is used to being spoiled. Since he was a child, he has loved to buy all kinds of video games and play games. I went to a good high school, but I dropped out of high school.

It's still a few years, the work is not good, and I play games at home. Fortunately, my family is relatively poor, which is not too bad in comparison. Later, I got married, and I also knew that I loved my daughter-in-law and children, and I worked hard.

Now my dad cares about me, remembers my birthday, reminds me, refuses to ask for my pocket money, says he doesn't want to make up money for my brother, and lets me drive home to get it when I grow vegetables. The reason for the change is that I'm doing well now. If I don't live well, there's a good chance I'll get sucked and too skinny.

Of course, this is also speculation.

Finally, I hope that the main problem can turn grievances into motivation, study hard, live well, live a wonderful life, and be full of happiness. Those who are unhappy are naturally inadequate. On the day you laugh at life, you will find that humanity is good, and those who once did not love you will love you.

My sister thinks too much, every parent loves their children deeply, and they will try to balance the attitude towards each child, so that they can feel loved.

You just have to show her that it's just her misunderstanding, and that's enough. The facts will tell.

Then you should tell your sister some details about how her parents love her, so that she will understand.

However, I should explain to him at this time, why parents do this, they may be doing this for our good, but parents are also more hard, so my sister should be sensible and should not always complain about her parents.

You can tell him that you are related by blood, so no matter what happens, you will be by your side, because it will attract two people to go further, don't worry about those unrealistic things, don't care about other people's feelings, facts will speak, and you like him very much.

You should adjust your thinking, parents will not be partial, parents will love every child, you can usually try to communicate more with your sister, communicate more, and after enhancing your relationship with your sister, you won't think like this.

Parents are the same for their children, you have to communicate and communicate with your parents more, and tell your parents your thoughts, so that your parents will also understand that your sister is your closest person, and you should get along with your sister friendly.

I don't think you need to think so much at this time, you and your sister are both parents and children love you, it's just that you think too much about yourself.

I hate my sister and I feel like my parents love her more than I do, what should I do?

You used to have all the attention and love in your family, but you were deprived alive by the birth of your sister. I often cry out in my heart: This is not fair!

If you compare your parents' love to an apple, you have been enjoying this apple for the first few years of your birth, and when your sister arrives, this apple becomes half or even less. It's very cruel to you, and the feeling of being deprived of it is painful and very uncomfortable for anyone.

It's normal to feel emotionally, and sometimes family decisions can leave us feeling distressed or dissatisfied. However, as an older brother or sister, we can also try to understand and tolerate the younger sister and find a balance. Here are some suggestions to deal with this situation:

Good spike state. Communication: Try to have an honest conversation with your parents and sister about your feelings and thoughts. Communication may help them understand your feelings and find solutions to their problems.

Seek common interests: Find things that interest your sister and you in common and do fun activities together that may strengthen your bond. Respect each other: Try to respect your sister and her thoughts and feelings, just as you want her to respect you.

Self-Regulation: Sometimes, we need to learn to self-regulate our emotions. Try to calm down, calm down, and avoid acting inappropriately due to emotions. Ask for help: If you find the situation bothered, you can also seek help and support from other family members or friends.

Remember, relationships take time and effort to develop, especially family relationships. Try to handle the situation with a positive mindset and patience in the hope that your relationship will improve over time.

First of all, you can't force the boss to accept it, second. Parents should strive to make a bowl of water flat for the two babies! (I know it's hard, and sometimes I can't.)

Spend more time with your boss and tell him how you did when you were a kid like your sister. can't let the second child bully the boss, and when there is a conflict between the two babies, try to face the boss as much as possible. Give the eldest some time to accept the second child, accept the parents who are different from the past, and the boss will slowly accept it.

Summary. On the one hand, because your sister is young and needs to be taken care of, you can try to like your sister too, and then show your excellence and tolerance.

What if mom prefers her sister?

On the one hand, because your sister is young and needs to be taken care of, you can try to like your sister too, and then show your excellence and tolerance.

My sister always beats my mother and favors him.

I can't stand it. Your excellence and tolerance will win your mother's appreciation.

It's not the first time he's done.

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Because of spoiling, my sister will have to inch in.

It's useless, no matter what I do, he won't treat me fairly.

Right. What do you think is the reason for your mother's partiality? Isn't it just because my sister is young? Psychologically, mothers tend to favor the youngest child, with a probability of 80%.

But spoiling is not necessarily a good thing, and in the end it will develop a weird temper, and sometimes it is harmful to love pets!

If you feel that you have been unfair, you can try to say it, if you are strong enough, in fact, you need to have confidence in yourself, and you don't need to be spoiled too much.

This preference is even worse if you have a large age gap with your sister.

But with your excellence, there is really no need to care about these, if there is an age difference, shouldn't you also spoil your sister?

When your sister asks you for money and gifts, you will spoil her too.

Regarding the attitude of the mother, even if the mother was beaten by the younger sister, she tolerated the younger sister, which is not surprising!

I assume that now my sister wants to live with you, without parents to take care of her, shouldn't you also tolerate and spoil her? Come on, you should be the best, you can take care of yourself, and if you have the ability, you can take care of your sister! Believe in yourself as the best!