My girlfriend always complains, blames life, and attacks my family, what should I do?

Then maybe your girlfriend has a tense relationship with his family, and his family may have all kinds of problems, and he is not very good to him, you should ask him what he has experienced, and then slowly comfort him, because he may indeed suffer a lot of unexpected things for others, you can persuade him, at this time he complains to you, in fact, he just wants you to enlighten him.

Personally, I think there are two perspectives.

If she complains and accuses others, reflecting her despicable personality, then it is natural to break up.

If she complains about your family because she has conflicts with your family, and other times she gets along well with you and her friends, then there is nothing wrong with her. Then there are two views on this situation:

One is that if you get married in the future, you will have to be tied to your family, so how can you make such a conflict!

The second is to think that in the future, you will get married and live by yourself, and you don't get along with your family much, so her conflict with your family will not affect the life of the two of you too much, then this situation is acceptable.

Your girlfriend always complains and accuses life of attacking her family, you have to teach him a good lesson, and the family must get rid of each other in order to have a harmonious family and be happy. Stop complaining, attack again. That's not good.

Then you sometimes have to communicate with him, you say, no matter how bad your family is? That's also your family, maybe sometimes you can't let your girlfriend always attack your family, I think because you haven't reached the level where the couple has lived together for many years, so saying something like this will cause you to feel very uncomfortable, like your girlfriend, if you complain and complain every day, life must be bad.

Your girlfriend has no confidence in herself and lacks the love of others, you have to love her more, communicate more with your family, you have to play a good intermediate role, and slowly change her attitude towards her family.

This is a bad character, a more perverse behavior, and the cultivation of people has something to do, carry out cold treatment, do not have conflicts and contradictions, and slowly there will be an improvement effect.

Then you tell her that although the love between the two of you is a matter for the two of you, the final marriage is related to the two families, and if she can't accept your family, then form a harmonious family for the two of you in the future.

I feel that based on your description of the situation, your girlfriend is not a kind person? Good people don't do that. I wish you happiness. I wish you good health and happiness every day.

Her thinking limitations, stereotypes, are hard to change unless you are a professional psychologist. She's a kind of negativity, and she doesn't want to take responsibility for herself, so the way to protect herself is to blame others...

I think your girlfriend's behavior is very wrong, this is a matter between the two of you, why attack? I think your girlfriend's behavior is very wrong, it's a matter between the two of you, why attack your family?

Deserve! What is there to associate with such a person? Don't be polite to him!

No one can guarantee a smooth life, if you have the ability to try to help it, maybe your colleague is really to the point of exhaustion, and you happen to be his only or one of the few people who can rely on him, you should sit down with him and talk in depth, you will also talk frankly about your difficulties, generally speaking, he will not come to you, but if he has a day of prosperity, he will not think of you, but if you try your best to help him, then he will definitely remember you when he gets rich, It depends on what you think.

Anyway, don't give money, don't open the door in the future.

In addition, it is okay to call the police.

Or call the family.

It's better to break off this kind of relationship earlier.

You tell him directly, if you borrow money, you can't borrow money, and you haven't paid it back. If you go on like this endlessly, you can only treat it as if you don't know each other, and you don't have to do it.

After sending it out, he didn't pick it up, and someone knocked on the door to see the door, but he didn't open it. If he waits outside the door and doesn't leave, then you can call the community security as much as you can.

This kind of colleague, you just drive it away, make it clear that you don't borrow. If not, I advise you to call the police.

Give him some money and let him go next time he doesn't open the door to let him in, and don't pay attention to him in the future.

This kind of person owes a blow, find someone who can say it to him, and he will be honest under the severe blow, and he will be ashamed.

He's used to it, he's going to eat you, and you have to learn to say no.

Then find a way to change, the more you are afraid of this kind of thing, the more problems will be, and at the same time pay attention to the communication with your wife, although the economic income has been out of balance, but some problems still have to occupy the initiative, since it has been thought that it is at a low point in life, at this time the balance of the heart and re-establish self-confidence is the most important. Come on!

It is a woman who understands the righteousness to be able to get support and understand the explanation, and if she doesn't get the explanation, she is an ordinary person, and it is normal to be complained and scolded, this is the thinking of a normal person, and if you want to change the status quo, you will work hard to get out of the trough and prove your ability.

As long as you don't die, you will eventually come out, so work hard.

Why do some people feel happy in life, and some people feel tragic in life, the way of seeing it is different, the result is different, you can't have the same opinion as your grandma.

Read books, watch TV. Block the old man's words.

Comparatively and Linkedly.

Compare your life with that of others, and you will find that many people are more pessimistic about their lives and life than you are.

Think of the life of the good faith world and discover the highlights of your life.

If a person complains about this and that every day, then your three views have lost the correct goal and direction. Besides, if you don't go to work and do nothing at home every day, it can be said that you are a wasted person. People living in the world must have the right pursuit and goals, and treat life with a positive attitude, only in this way can people live a meaningful and motivated life.

I hope you can come out of the trough of life, establish your own outlook on life, integrate into the social family, don't be in the downturn, and be a positive and sunny young man.

When a person has the idea of complaining, it is difficult to get the news for a while, and only by correctly understanding the crux of the problem and correcting it in time can it be eliminated. It's better to complain all day long than to live happily and easily all day long, it's all one day, and the quality of life is different. I believe that after adjusting the mentality, find the root of complaining.

Get out of the circle of complaining in time, and you will feel that it is very stupid to complain. Will live better. Therefore, complaining all day long is not life.

It is caused by people's temper and bad environment.

Think twice about what you do. Don't complain about others all day long. You say you didn't go to work and were at home all day. Do anything, it could be that something is holding you up. If you can't go to work, don't rush and take your time.

It's useless to complain, and complaining means that you haven't worked hard and started to complain, which is very bad!! Only work your own, don't complain, hurry up and do what you have to do! And thank you to that friend of yours, because he told the truth, please teach him what to do, bystander.

Hello: Look at the grass and trees around them, they have never been taken seriously, but they are still growing, growing silently, although they are small but they also have to grow, they may not know when they will be cut down or trampled to death, that is not what they can choose, but they are brave to live, you see all kinds of animals are the same, when the cold winter comes, the birds on the edge of the sky or on the branches are still busy for their cubs or food, they can't choose to change the things around them, Nor can they change their fate (they can only choose to survive). Don't you have more choices and a happy life than they do? Thank you.

Be in moderation. It's human nature to complain.

Don't listen to poisonous chicken soup. Adults are all, there's nothing wrong with complaining. But in moderation. Too much complaining can affect your life. Fewer complaints will make you feel unreal.

So take responsibility for yourself.

Hello complaining all day. Have a positive attitude to face life. It's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be unhappy.

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, why not live every day happily, everything has two sides, and think about the good.

Hello. It's not good to complain all day long, and you have to have a positive attitude to face life. Even if you are unhappy, you can't show it all the time, and you can't think about it all the time, otherwise it will reduce the efficiency of doing anything. Do something meaningful.

Why do you complain all day long, is it because you feel like you don't go to work, and then you're so bored?

As you said above, you do everything, so what do you do?

Based on what you said above, can I understand that you don't go to work, but you do everything at home. If that's the case, it does feel busy, but it doesn't generate value. Isn't that what it means?

I suggest you go out and find a job to do and earn a little cash for it. In this way, you will reflect the value of your labor.

If you come out to work, then there may be fewer complaints, and maybe your thoughts and horizons will change.

Complaining is not the solution. It's not a matter of staying at home, going out to do something, life will only favor the doer, and will not pity the dreamer.

One person has one way to live, the key is that you can't wake up the person who pretends to be asleep. If he doesn't want to understand it himself and is not motivated, it will be difficult for you to be influenced.