Can lovers with inconsistent views make it to the end?

I think it is difficult for people with inconsistent views to go to the end. Because they don't have the same opinions on many things, two people will have endless quarrels. Two people will keep arguing with each other, constantly trying to prove that they are right and the other party is wrong, this kind of behavior itself is very emotional, and I think quarreling is a very emotional thing, and we will feel very disappointed in each other, or very disappointed in this relationship.

I have a very good couple around me, that's it, although they love each other very much, but their three views don't seem to match, and in the end they still can't get together, although I think it's a pity, but this can be the fate of the end of the doomed results. That girl is a very strong girl, she is very independent in her career, very strong. She especially hopes to break out of the world through her own efforts and live a good life.

But that boy is a person who wants a very stable life, she doesn't want a very rich life, he just wants to live a plain and simple life, but that girl not only asks for a plain life to be too easy to live, an enviable superior life. So the girl worked very hard and often worked overtime. After a long time, the boy began to feel that the time spent together by the two of them was really too little.

began to learn to complain, the girl became less gentle than she used to be, began to feel that her salary was higher than her boyfriend, and her boyfriend complained that she didn't have time to spend with her, and she began to feel that her boyfriend was very cowardly. So they broke up after a short time together, but the girl told me that she actually liked this boy very much, but the way he wanted to live was too different, and it was impossible for them to be together.

Sometimes I think it's also people with different views, it's hard to find common ground, and it's hard to communicate well with each other. Two people who can't be together are not good people, let each other keep going, keep understanding, after a long time, it will be very tired, and the relationship between two people will inevitably crack, so I think if two people's three views are compatible, this relationship will go longer.

The three views are inconsistent, I feel that it is really difficult to be together, because the three views of this kind of thing is not only that couples must get along with each other, but also that they must be consistent when they are friends, you can think about the three views are inconsistent, how will these two people get along in the future, the lovers you said are in the end that they can get married and then stay together until the end of their lives, so what I want to say is that even if the lovers with inconsistent three views barely go to the end, the final outcome is probably to break up. Let me break it down:

The three views of the two lovers are already inconsistent, so I think there will be disagreements in all aspects, because when one party is in love, one party can change a lot for the other, but only the three views of this kind of thing, from birth to adulthood, has been stereotyped, and I am afraid that I can't do anything if I want to change it later. So let me give you an example, for example, for the child born after marriage, the child's education will produce a lot of contradictions, the mother may think that the child must not lose at the starting line, and then think that the child should of course apply for more cram schools, cultivate some specialties, report some interest classes to cultivate some hobbies, to do both learning and specialties, so that no matter what kind of industry in the future, there is a foundation, and the requirements for children are also very strict, and what time to do things, And he is very concerned about his child's academic performance, and he is required to be excellent in all his homework in the class, and he ranks very high. But the father thinks that the child must have a happy childhood, such a childhood often needs freedom and happiness, he is willing to accompany the child to play in the mud and sand, because he likes to see the child's happy smile, but the requirements for the child are not strict also leads to learning is not so good.

So from this point of view, we can all find that it is really difficult to get to the end when the three views are inconsistent.

I have a friend Xiao A who recently broke up because of the disagreement.

It's suffocating to be with him! I like to watch some vulgar **, never read books, and when I have time, I look at my mobile phone and play games, it's really strange how did I fall in love with him in the first place? "I can only comfort her that the next time I look for a boyfriend, I must first examine the three views before deciding whether to talk about it or not.

Another friend, Xiao B, also broke up because of the disagreement: "It's ridiculous, I bought a bag with my own money, and he actually said that I spent money indiscriminately and asked me to save a little." Can this man still have it? Divide it, divide it! "I said let's have a good share, let's have a beer and a barbecue.

I also have a friend C, and the reason for the breakup is still the disagreement, she said——

Forget it, such stories are all the same, I don't bother to list them. As a 10,000-year-old tree cave, in addition to the reasons for breaking up that I have heard of being split, my parents disagree, and finding that my character is problematic, the rest are almost all inconsistent views.

Because the way of spending money is different, breaking up is a disagreement between the three views, because the distribution of housework is different, breaking up is a disagreement between the three views, because one wants to be motivated and the other wants to be comfortable, and it is not compatible with the three views because of the different taste of entertainment and leisure.

I think if your three views are not the same, then I think it is difficult to go to the end, because if your three views are not the same, then there is no good common topic to talk about.

Everyone has a different attitude towards loveIf two people's three views do not coincide, then it is not suitable to be together, because two people with different views are easy to have contradictions, and when two people do not agree with each other's views, it is easy to magnify each other's shortcomings.

It is easy for two people with different views to have contradictionsIf two people do not agree on the three views, then even if they are together, they are prone to contradictions in order to have views on some small things, which will lead to them often have disputes, and may even be angry with each other. On the other hand, two people who have three views that are very compatible, because they look at things from similar angles and think about problems in similar ways, their attitudes towards things are almost the same. In such a situation, people who have the same three views will not actually have conflicts on some trivial matters, so they will not let trivial matters affect the relationship between them.

Therefore,In my opinion, two people with different views are not suitable for being together, because even if they are together, the disagreement will only make their lives full of contradictions.

The disagreement between the two and three views is easy to magnify the shortcomings of the other partyAs the saying goes, no one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings, so when two people fall in love together, in the process of running-in, it is to see if they can accept each other's shortcomings. But if two people don't have the same views, they will let themselves subconsciously magnify each other's shortcomings and feel that the other party is useless. Similarly, in the eyes of the other party, their own shortcomings will be infinitely magnified.

In such a case,Even if two people are together, they will be bored because of each other's shortcomings, so that they will feel that the other party is not as good as they imagined, and even regret being together because of this, so that the two people fall into a relationship crisis。It can be said that if two people do not have the same views, then it is difficult for their relationship to go further, so I think two people who do not agree are not suitable to be together.

In general, I don't think two people with different views are suitable for being together.

Yes, I think the three views must not pursue deliberate harmony, I think it is okay to be compatible, to reach agreement in some things, that is, we can be together, and it does not have to be two people with the same three views, isn't that looking for another self?

Personally, I think that people who do not agree with the three views can also be together, because the concept of love can also be slowly run in through time, so the problem of the disagreement of the three views is not very serious.

Each of us has a different view of love, and when we are looking for a partner, we try to find a person who is suitable for our three views, because people who do not agree with our three views cannot be together.

If two people love each other very much and are very tolerant, then they can be together, otherwise, it is not suitable to be together, because if they are together, there will be many conflicts in the future.

Everyone's view of love is different, and it is possible for people who do not agree with each other to be together, if two people like each other, even if the three views of both parties are not particularly similar, but they can also tolerate and understand each other. It's okay to be together at this time.

Everyone's growth environment is different, which leads to everyone's three views are different, for people who do not agree with the three views are usually not able to have good results, if two people can tolerate each other, then two people can still have results.

Everyone's view of love is different, and it is best not to be together for people who do not agree with each other, even if they are together, they will continue to have different ideas about the contradictions, so that two people will part ways in the future.

Hello, some are able to be together, because the other party is willing to run in with you, after a long run-in, so that he will understand your thoughts and understand your point of view.

How can people with different views fall in love together? Isn't there such a saying? Don't speculate for more than half a sentence, two people who are in love should live together for the rest of their lives in the future, if the three views do not agree, some things in the future, how many contradictions will have to live such a day, isn't it a kind of torment?

So I think people who don't agree with each other can't fall in love together.

No. It is very painful for people with different views to be together, and the view of money, values, and morality makes us go further and further.

Everyone's view of love is different, but people who do not agree with each other will have a lot of contradictions together, if they really love each other, these contradictions are nothing, after all, love needs to be run-in, and only love that has experienced run-in can last for a long time.

If the three views of the two people are different, there may be a lot of different opinions when they are in love, so in life, there will be a lot of contradictions in contact, although it is not intense at the beginning, but when it comes to making judgments on more important matters, the two people may be-for-tat.

People who do not have the same views may come together by chance, but if they do not speculate with each other, it is difficult for them to grow old.

People who don't agree with each other can't go to the end at all, and the thoughts of two people are not on the same channel at all. Their worlds are very different, and so are the starting points for considering asking. Even if you are together, after the fresh period of the relationship, once you live a goosebumpy life, there will be all kinds of irreconcilable contradictions.

And they won't compromise with each other, and slowly the relationship will fade.

No, even if they are together, there will be many contradictions, so you can only endure it. If it is unacceptable, sooner or later, it will still be separated.

It is possible to come together, and anything is possible. However, if you still can't change after being together and continue to let it develop, it is estimated that even if you come together, it will not be too long. Because sometimes there are things that can be endured for a while, but there is always a time limit.

There is a possibility that two people can influence each other, and so are the three views, after being together for a long time, one person is likely to be assimilated by another person, so don't worry.

Hello, according to your description. People who don't agree with each other. Normal can't come together.

Unless there are special circumstances, one of them either has a sense of understanding for each other, can change himself for love, or will choose a suitable way to get along. There is also a situation where you encounter a change in your life and then realize it.

When looking at things and problems, we must not only look at the surface, but must see the essence through the facts. Because the question of three views is not fixed. As long as you are willing to correct or change, you can still change.

Of course, those who are stubborn and always insist that they are right will certainly not change.

Changing a person's outlook on life is really a big project, and he himself is unwilling to change, and it may be futile for others to change. So you have to see what kind of person the other party is, and some people have bad character in nature. It is very difficult to change his outlook on life, and some people who are not bad may be changed.

If you don't have the ability to change others, then don't get along with people who are not suitable for you and have different views, which will bring you a lot of trouble in your life and unexpected things. When you really meet someone who is related to you, you feel what life really is. Why do you want to find someone with the same three views?

Relationship and marriage are actually the cooperation between two people, if two people have different views. If you meet each other for one thing, then you can work together very well. If the three views are the same, then the cooperation will be more enjoyable, and life will be very happy.

What kind of life you want, what kind of people you need to work with. If you want to live a happy life, it is recommended that you try to get along with people who have the same three views. If you want to live a mixed life, you want to experience everything.

Then you can try to get along with people who don't have the same three views. Personal opinion, thank you!