How to interpret a successful life?

A successful life is that you embody your social value and personal value, no matter how rich you are, but if you don't do something for others, don't bend dedication, and contribute anything, then what is there to reflect your value. Someone once said to me that if you have someone to mourn you when you die, then you are successful, and I want a friend. This is the so-called two-hundred-and-five-year theory.

I think what we need to learn is not to actually make friends, but to understand what that means. First of all, if we want a lot of friends, we need to know how to love others, that is, to give; Secondly, how to make others love yourself, this is your value.

Everyone has their own value, but how to embody it is the most important thing.

Therefore, a successful life is a reflection of your personal value. How?

First of all, you have to be a successful person. Successful people don't have to be greats, you are successful when you reach your own goals.

You're going to do what you want to succeed. Successful things don't have to be big, they are interesting things in your life.

Give yourself love and strength. It's not love, it's fraternity.

Accepting the love of others for you is not necessarily love, you will love yourself will not love others, and you will love others to love yourself more.

Do this well, and your life will never be unsuccessful.

People are born to suffer, and they are constantly working hard to draw a perfect circle for themselves, and if you think about it from another angle, you are also enjoying life in the process of struggle, and you are enriching yourself, so that you will be very positive, because you will not always experience pessimistic things, and even if you die, you will just go to another world to suffer, and that kind of suffering may not be as good as it is now, and some people say that death is liberation, but no one knows if the person who dies is really liberated, maybe it is not as good as the life that is now, so don't do things that make you regret it Everything is treated with a normal heart, everything is open, as long as you work hard and struggle, I think this kind of life is okay, good luck There will be a rainbow after the storm

Absolute originality and prohibition of plagiarism will have retribution.

I've been through such a heart-rending phase, but I came out in the shortest possible time, and before I came out, I felt like you were going to destroy the world, and I didn't have a goal, let alone a dream, and everything had nothing to do with me, but I let it last only two weeks, just two weeks--- don't take too long, that's irresponsible to yourself--- irresponsible to your own bright future, and I hope you come out as soon as possible, and you will find that life is so colorful The sun is shining--- that's mine (at least my share) There are people around you who care about you Experience them with your heart You will feel comfortable and suddenly enlightened I am full of gratitude for life now--- it's good for people to live Feel her with your heart Don't be tired and --- worthless by a little setback.

People who do what they should do when they are young and what they like to do when they are old are successful people. It is a perfect life to be able to do what you should do and like to do all your life.

Many people have different views on success in life, some people will think that having money is success, some people will think that having a good family is success, and some people think that living a long life and being healthy is success.

But these are all summed up in one thing, then when you do things well and you think you are happy, that is success.

And a person can live a successful life is also to look at it comprehensively, if you only have the same thing, it is nothing, only if you can have a lot of kinds, let others envy things together, then you can really succeed.

Let's say I think of a man as he. If you want to be considered successful, then first of all, he must have a very happy family and a very filial child. In his old age, he was able to accept such family happiness, and he did a good job in his own life in his life, so he was able to do so.

It is a very happy and successful life.

Then the same woman is actually the same, if a woman wants to live this kind of successful life, she wants to find a partner who is very good to her and is willing to give her career for him, which can be according to her hobbies. You can do something according to your own heart, and not be dragged down by life, which is actually a kind of happiness, that is, a successful life.

Therefore, although the success of life does not lie in a certain point, but on the whole, when you are happy and satisfied in everything, you are naturally successful.

Different people have different understandings of success, and most people currently agree that success can be summarized in the following two aspects.

The first aspect is that society recognizes the value of the individual and rewards the individual accordingly. Such as money, power, housing, respect, and other material and honorary affirmations.

The second aspect is to recognize one's own worth, so that you can be confident in yourself, have a sense of fulfillment in your life, and have a sense of happiness in your personal life.

Most people tend to ignore the second meaning of success, thinking that only when it is recognized by society and respected by others, can it be regarded as a successful life, and only when it is surrounded by flowers and applause, it can be regarded as a success in life.

- Thinking that success alone is not only meaningless, but also arrogant, a successful person usually has a high self-esteem or self-expectation before he gets actual success.

People often say "what you expect, you will get", "if you expect mediocrity, you will get mediocrity, you expect greatness, you can be really great". It has been said that "life is a mirror, and if you smile at it, it will smile at you; You cry at it, and it cries at you". The power of this subconscious mind is great.

What is failure?

Failure, in fact, is a feeling of oneself, some are objective, and some are the master. It is a sense of disappointment in the process of moving towards the goal of life, due to the repeated resistance to one's actions, and it is a "paper tiger" that has been nourished in one's own thinking consciousness.

For this scary paper tiger with teeth and claws, if you don't hit it, it will not fall on your way, we may make mistakes, we may take detours, we may be farther away from the original goal.

However, all of this is a valuable experience and gain, and it is the same as one of the "200" discoveries that Dr. Salk calls that if we are willing to try and try further, then the original mistake is the ladder for us to move forward.

This lecture series focuses on the successes and failures of life, how to make you successful, how to avoid failure, and reduce your life detours. It's a pretty resilient philosophy of success in life, suitable for the needs of a variety of people. It clearly states which principles lead to success and which ones invite failure.

Eighty percent of people are losers for the same reason. Luck is not a success factor.

Because fate can be influenced by us and carry out operations that are beneficial to us.

Everyone will find something from it that will work for him.

When you have a clear consciousness of yourself, you start to bury your head in doing what you like.

Don't let too many fearless things waste too much of your time, and remember: wealth is the reward of patience.

Put away your restless mind and focus on what you feel about what you are feeling, and after a while, you look back and see that some of the seeds you have sown have begun to sprout, and if we have doubts about our own abilities or "destiny" after a setback, and we have a feeling of failure and want to give up our efforts, then we have failed.

A successful life must be comprehensive and lasting perfection. Meyer, the world's richest man, divides life into six areas - health, society, upbringing, family, spirituality and economy, and especially emphasizes that these six areas of life are indispensable for a successful life.

Achieving your health goals allows you to save and motivate you to achieve other goals. It is important to know that a healthy body is a source of confidence. In today's society, the aging of human beings is becoming more and more obvious, and a healthy body is more important than physical fitness.

This point, especially for young and middle-aged friends, should not be taken lightly.

Achieving social goals can give you the confidence that "I was born to be useful". He believes that "society will always need me" so that you can make more use of your personality and talents, and at the same time, you will gain new happiness and joy.

The achievement of educational goals can create a sense of fulfillment and joy in your knowledge and cultivation, and can guide you to constantly develop interest and strong intellectual curiosity in new things, thereby stimulating you to make further self-breakthroughs.

The achievement of family goals can provide you with a good environment, and when you are tired, it is your gas station; When you encounter setbacks, it is your warm bay; It's your safe haven when taking risks; When you are depressed, it is the valley of your sorrows; When you indulge in victory, it is your meter.

Achieving spiritual goals will enable you to gradually improve your values in life, freeing you from feelings of guilt, inferiority and pride. It can bring a sense of rebirth and maintain spiritual peace and tranquility forever.

The achievement of economic goals can enable you to solve financial problems, and wealth is an extension of personality. There is no difference between good and evil in money, and the difference is only in the way and purpose of money. However, the pursuit of money does not mean that you only need to accumulate wealth, but more importantly, you can learn how to use it, save technically, and know how to care about what is valuable.

The six elements of a successful life are: noble spirit, elegant upbringing, healthy body, harmonious family, perfect interpersonal relationships and the achievement of economic goals.

Express yourself as you wish, and what you want to express is success in life.

Career success. Have their own work or career, and have a leading position and outstanding achievements in the field they are engaged in. It has its own team, and the team has a strong centripetal force and execution.

Economic success. Legally obtain income, and property is completely free. Not only to address the material needs of all aspects, but also to invest in and protect against risks.

Family success. Parents are supported by the elderly, and the elderly have something to do; Husband and wife are affectionate and sweet. Children are virtuous and filial, and they are successful in learning. Siblings help each other. The family is harmonious and the family affection is strong.

Academic success. Systematically master academic or professional knowledge, with one's own expertise or unique insight. And a more comprehensive and systematic understanding of the basic knowledge in all fields of society.

Success in the workplace. Be competent for your own work, have the value that others cannot replace, and maintain a good relationship with leaders and colleagues. Able to easily handle the people and things that "level" the unit.

For yourself, it is to achieve your own goals and ideals, and others seem to have status, money, and fame

Success is actually a feeling, it can be said to be a positive feeling, it is a state of self-confidence and a feeling of satisfaction after everyone reaches their ideals! In short, each of us has a different definition of success! And there is only one way to achieve success, that is, you must first learn to give what ordinary people can't give!

Success is about achieving the goals you set.

If it's a small thing that you think is insignificant, and you want to do it only because you might need him, but it's not commendable at all, will you feel successful? You're going to be so excited that you shout that I succeeded? I don't think you will.

So it's something you really want to do. You have a strong desire to make it. When it's done, you'll have a strong sense of satisfaction and excitement.

Okay, combined with the above discussion, let's take a look at what success is? First of all, the subject of success is you, then there is what you really want to do, and then you do it, and then most importantly, you get a strong sense of satisfaction.

We can see that success is actually a feeling. Whose feelings are it? Be the subject of success and your feelings.

How do you feel? You are happy, excited, and satisfied, and you are willing to tell others what you have done so that others can feel your joy.

So I'm going to give a new definition of success: success is the satisfaction and excitement that people get when they do something they really want to do.

Therefore, we do things, no matter how big or small, as long as it is what you want to do, and through your efforts to do it, you are happy, then you have succeeded.

Don't look too far away from success, and don't look at success too easily, success requires your hard work.

Those who think that success does not exist, who are actually people who are constantly defining new goals, also derive joy from what they do, and they have succeeded.