How to gracefully refuse to be borrowed from you?

You can elegantly tell people that you don't have this habit, that you are not used to lending your stuff to others, to anyone. But you have to be honest and don't be too tough. <>

There's nothing elegant or inelegant, I can't borrow it, I can't borrow it, I have my own things, I don't use it for you, I have to bother to explain it to you? Why can't you use it with no points in your heart? That's probably the end of the mental activity, simple and crude.

At most, I'm sorry I have a cleanliness fetish. <>

I feel that except for the very personal towel, which cannot be borrowed, I should be able to accept everything else, and the attitude should not be too tough, otherwise it will affect the relationship between friends. <>

You can tell someone that your stuff has been borrowed, so that you can refuse someone very gracefully, and you can also tell someone that you have other uses for it, so that others won't borrow your stuff.

I would tell him that it was given to me by my best friend or my beloved mother, and they told me to keep it safe and not lend it to others, otherwise it would be disrespectful to them. Another way is to tell him that he has already lent it to someone else in advance, so he can refuse.

First of all, to be an elegant person, you can't refuse him directly, you must, euphemistically refuse others, for example, I am using it now, or I don't bring it, I just can't lend it to you.

If someone borrows something from me and I don't want to borrow it, I will tell them that they have run out of items or have been borrowed by someone else, and I am sorry that I am not with them and cannot lend them to him.

I would tell her, I'm sorry that I'm a little bit of a cleanliness person, and my personal belongings may have some infectious agents that will not be good for your health, so it's better not to use them publicly, sorry.

This is one that must be learned, and the thing is to learn to reject others. And you have to refuse very elegantly, and you can't let others think you're stingy. If it were me, I'd say. I'm used to living alone at home, and I use my own things.

When someone borrows personal belongings from me, I will say that this thing is almost out of use for others, and it may not be enough for you to use it because I am using it myself.

1. Deferred method.

When a friend borrows something from you, you can pretend to be in a hurry (it's better to pick up a ** or something), and then tactfully say to your friend: "I don't have time now, I'm in a hurry to do a very important thing, and I'll talk about it when I have time." After speaking, leave in a hurry, and be sure not to wait for your friends to say anything more before leaving, so that it will seem that you are really in a hurry.

2. Recommend others to the law.

When a friend borrows something from you, you can say, "This thing of mine is not very useful, I don't use it much myself, I remember so-and-so seems to have a good one, you can ask him". After you say this, your friend will probably understand that you don't want to lend him something, and they won't pester you with anything.

3. Pretend to be looking for the method.

When a friend asks you to borrow something, you can pretend that you can't find it and then rummage around and look for it in one place. When you look for it, you can also say to yourself, "I remember putting it in this place, why can't I find it?"

When your friends see that you have been looking for you, whether they believe it or not, they will say, "Don't look for it yet, I'll ask the others." In this way, he politely refused his friend's request to borrow something.

First of all, if someone asks you to borrow something, you first look at what others want to borrow from you, and if you really don't want to borrow from them, you also need to know what others are asking you to borrow. This is the most noisy basic courtesy.

Different people lend you something, you should have different ways to deal with it, and you can't generalize to everyone. Then it is easy for you to lose your friendship with others.

Refuse others to borrow your own things, first of all, please don't often refuse people who usually lend you things, otherwise when you are in a hurry, others may not lend you.

If you want to refuse someone to borrow something, you have to say different things to different people so that you don't lose people's hearts. If you don't want to communicate more with others, then you can just say that it's okay not to borrow it.

Hehe, I sometimes have your mentality.

You put it outside before and now move inside, maybe they also feel a little bit of it, if it's me, I'm embarrassed to borrow it from you every time I go to wash clothes, but everyone is so busy at work, I don't have time to wash clothes, I still have time to borrow, in fact, I feel uncomfortable when I borrow.

As for cherishing or not cherishing, something that isn't your own is always a bit like that, right?

Next time they come to borrow it, you can say: Eh, this washing machine is almost all three of us are using it, and it is very troublesome for you to borrow it, or the three of us will spread some money, and the washing machine will be found outside for everyone to use together, and it will be considered a common property.

Look at what they say, I'm sure they'll retreat too, right, hehe. And oh, in fact, don't be so careful, how rare it is to have friends outside, giving people roses has a lingering fragrance, maybe you will need help from others in the future, right? A washing machine is a small amount of money.

Simple ,,, doesn't affect the relationship.,The next time you need a washing machine (such as piling up clothes for several days),Borrow someone else or find an excuse.,Use it yourself.,Just don't borrow her.,She'll buy one herself.。。 If you think about it, they will understand that you don't want to borrow them, and they won't find a reason not to be nice to you!!

Hello, when a person asks you for something, a person has to be true to themselves and learn to say no to what you don't want to ask for. Of course, there is a little bit of method. Refuse to ask you for something but you are not willing to give it.

For example, "I'm sorry, I just need or am using it and can't give it to you", or "I just happened to give it to someone else", etc. There are many ways to refuse, but the attitude must be sincere, because the person who can ask you for something is your colleague or friend.

Put forward your opinion, this washing machine is not public, if you feel that it is okay, you will pay some money. When used together, it is equal to Pingtan.

You say, my wife has somehow ** allergies, and the doctor said it will be contagious, are you afraid?

Be bold with your opinions, tell them you don't want to borrow, and learn to say no.

Say whatever you want, and say no.