I am not very willing to lend things to others, how to refuse others to borrow things

I also have a classmate who always eats my meat dishes and leaves his shredded potatoes behind. I'm upset, but we're friends, and if we're friends, we have to be humble to each other. As a result, he robbed me of my meat for four years!! I'm used to it, and I miss them all the time!!

You're so stingy. A dormitory?

If it's a dormitory, don't talk about him.

If not, it's okay to say it at the right time.

He probably didn't think about it.

You tell him, "Hey, I didn't bother to put the shower gel down the toilet today, it looks like I'm going to buy a new one, what brand to buy?"

In this way, you still use it before in the bath, so that he still dares to use it?

It's too annoying to not give points.

If they don't pay it back, they don't want to lend it to anyone who doesn't pay it back!!

Forehead ......I'm also having a headache with that.

I myself prefer to eat snacks and buy a bunch of them. Then I put it in the dormitory, and it was gone before I could eat it.

But friends, as the saying goes: it's not difficult to borrow well and borrow again.

So, you should let him understand that although these are small things that are not worth a few dollars, they must not get used to this kind of problem.

You can tactfully remind him that you're running out of stuff and then don't buy it until he does.

If you can't do it......That means that the skin is thick enough to be picked out directly. If you turn your face because of this, it means that this friend has no value to make and is not a potential friend.

Over, look.

Don't lend things to others easily, especially money, it's easy to lend to people, it's difficult to pay back, anyway, whether to borrow or not will end up in the end, in China's human society, many people are taking advantage of people's embarrassment to refuse this weakness, so if you really don't want to borrow, you should learn to say "no", so that everyone can still be friends, even if you can't be friends because of this, it's not worth a pity.

When a friend borrows something from you, you can pretend to be in a hurry (it's better to pick up a ** or something), and then tactfully say to your friend: "I don't have time now, I'm in a hurry to do a very important thing, and I'll talk about it when I have time." After speaking, leave in a hurry, and be sure not to wait for your friends to say anything more before leaving, so that it will seem that you are really in a hurry.

When a friend borrows something from you, you can say, "This thing of mine is not very useful, I don't use it much myself, I remember so-and-so seems to have a good one, you can ask him". After you say this, your friend will probably understand that you don't want to lend him something, and they won't pester you with anything.

When a friend asks you to borrow something, you can pretend that you can't find it and then rummage around and look for it in one place. When you look for it, you can also say to yourself, "I remember putting it in this place, why can't I find it?"

When your friends see that you have been looking for you, whether they believe it or not, they will say, "Don't look for it yet, I'll ask the others." In this way, he politely refused his friend's request to borrow something.

When a friend asks you to borrow something, you can smile and say, "Don't be kidding, are you going to lack this, who are you, you are in my mind." In short, he keeps saying how good the other party is, and there will never be a shortage of things he wants to borrow, and he must be joking with himself when he says that he borrows things.

And you have to keep talking, don't give the other person a chance to speak. However, this method may make a friend misunderstand that you are being sarcastic; But most friends will stop borrowing things from you for the sake of face, and may follow your words: "Yes, how can I lack such things, I'm joking with you."

When a friend borrows something from you, you can show that you have more than you can do. You can say to a friend, "I really want to help you, but I really don't, what should I do?"

Why don't I ask your other friends for you? "For you to be tentative and slightly embarrassed, your friends will definitely see that you are really embarrassed, and they will not borrow anything from you again.