Zhang Lingzhi talks about children s education methods, why is it different from Huang Jue s concept

On the evening of March 22, Zhang Lingzhi and her two sons appeared in "Everyday Upward", and she talked about the way she educated her children during the epidemic, which resonated with many netizens. Zhang Lingzhi first accompanied his two sons to take online classes, and then tutored their homework after class, and worked hard. She said that she didn't want her children to have no gains during this time, and she worked with Chen Long to supervise the children's learning.

Huang Juejia pays more attention to quality education, saying that during this time, children should play, not study. The two families have very different educational concepts, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens. <>

Subsequently, Zhang Lingzhi posted on Weibo that because her husband Chen Long couldn't come back in the crew, she took care of two children by herself, which was a bit difficult and really collapsed, but now she has survived. She said that she was also very conflicted about academic education, but she was reluctant to let go, "I am afraid that he will delay his academic progress, and I am afraid that his absorption will be insufficient." In addition, she also apologized to her child for being anxious and shared some counseling experiences.

I think parents are all for the sake of their children, are for the growth of their beloved children, why can't they be more tolerant of each other, no matter what kind of education, the most important thing is the family environment in which the child grows and develops, which will affect his character and his way of doing things. His father would teach him to take more responsibility and responsibility, and his mother would teach him to be considerate and tolerant of others. The two need to be combined with each other to make the child's personality development more perfect.

For you to have different educational concepts, so there will always be disputes about this matter, in fact, it is just a small problem for your harmonious and happy family, you have to think more about each other are for the good of the children, so it will be like this, then you need to put the two of your education methods together to run in more, to see which education method is more suitable for the child, can be applied, can not say that you think that a good education method must be suitable for the child, I believe that as a parent, you It must be hoped that the child will grow up healthily and happily, not in a family that quarrels every day, which will have an adverse impact on his growth, so for the sake of the child's healthier physical and mental growth, it is better not to always quarrel, and always because this quarrel will also affect your feelings, the child is the crystallization of your happiness, not the terminator that leads to the destruction of your love, not to mention that it is not easy for you to take care of the child alone. After all, if two people help together, everything in life will become easier and easier to solve, and it is not easy to manage a relationship, and it is not easy to get married from acquaintance to love. So don't give up on this beautiful relationship between you easily, and don't say divorce easily.

Divorce is for families whose relationship has broken down, because they no longer have any good meaning together, so they are forced to separate. It's not about a family that still has a warm relationship and still cares for each other. So cherish each other and cherish this home.

This is because everyone has a different understanding of their children's educational philosophy, and in everyone's philosophy, they will educate their children in the same way that their parents educated them when they were children.

Because Zhang Lingzhi was tutoring his children from morning to night during the epidemic, while Huang Jue thought that children should play instead of learning at this time.

I think their needs and expectations for the future of their children are different, Zhang Lingzhi hopes that his children can develop well in the future, and Huang Jue hopes that his children can grow up happily.

The concepts between them are indeed very different, one advocates the need to be poor, and the other advocates to be rich, so their contradictions also exist.

Because there are certain differences in the personalities and concepts of the two of them. Their experiences from childhood to adulthood are also different.