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People's first feeling is very important, the construction of you dress steadily, ordinary hairstyle, covered with tattoos (must), girlfriend's words must have her reason, just do it, there is no need to linger in the heart for this little thing, there are not many good women, cherish brothers, oh no, it should be said that cherish your future wife is right, you don't have to go crazy, as long as your feelings reach a certain depth, that is, your future father-in-law has an opinion and has a way to break it, of course, this is the next policy. For the happiness of both of you, start with yourself,1;The first time you go to the gift, it is indispensable, (it is better to ask your wife about their hobbies)2; It is necessary to call people (uncles and aunts are sufficient)3; Cigarettes are necessary (a man is the basic one, one pack is enough)4; Speak and behave appropriately. 5；If you suggest, your work is a must-ask project, I sincerely hope that you have a good job, do the above aspects of the bold to go, will be successful.

If her parents still want to find fault with her, I will give you the best of the best strategies to ensure your success. I don't brag, I have experience in this area, and there are two successful cases. Once yourself, once as a friend.

I advise you to remove the tattoo, it is not easy to find a girl you like. This girl should be a good baby type at home, greatly influenced by her parents, when facing her parents, she will generally speak calmly about love, and she is not willing to act like you, but she may actually like you very much. You should remove the tattoo, for the conditions that you can no longer change, for example, appearance, height, family background, you can leave it alone.

But for what you can change, you should try to behave a little better, be polite, be warm. Let your girlfriend and give you a few kind words.

This is really a woman's final say, so she can do whatever she wants.

You should try to behave better, be polite, and be warm.

I also recommend that you remove the tattoos, not to mention that the tattoos are not clean except for blood lines.

Summary. Hello, I think your friend's situation is understandable, first of all, many people in the countryside just like to chew the root of the tongue, especially girls, we young people think that a few times in love is nothing, but those old people see, which little girl in the village will definitely talk nonsense when she brings her boyfriend back, or it may be that your girlfriend is not confident in the relationship between the two of you, a little insecure.

My girlfriend won't let me go to her house. We've been talking for almost a year, and my girlfriend has come to my house a few times, but she won't let me go to her house. She said several reasons: 1

I'm afraid that the people in the village will chew on the root of the tongue, and the ex-Yetong boyfriend has been to her house a few times, saying that if I go to the village again, the people will say that they will bring the object home every day, and they are not a good womanMy girlfriend asked me to go to her house with her empty space to go. Help me analyze whether I am making excuses or have other ideas.

Hello, I think your friend's situation is understandable, first of all, many people in Nonghong Zhengpei Village just like to chew their tongues, especially girls, we young people think that it is nothing to fall in love a few times, but those old people see that which little girl in the village will definitely talk nonsense when she brings her boyfriend back, and it may also be that your girlfriend is not confident in the relationship between the two of you, and she is a little insecure.

Yesterday we communicated for 2 hours because I want to get married and she doesn't want to get married in the near future. Ask if it would be better if you were pregnant.

Hello, try not to get pregnant before marriage, it's not good for the woman's reputation.

I'm 95 years old and my girlfriend is 99 years old. We have been talking for almost 1 year, the relationship is very good and stable, I want to get married, but my girlfriend doesn't want to get married. What am I going to do!

Your girlfriend is indeed young, and it is normal that she doesn't want to get married, and a year is really not a long time, so it is recommended to develop again, and the woman may not feel safe.

First of all, you should remember this sentence for the rest of your life [Men have love, women don't, whoever is good to women will follow her. The man proposes to break up, and when the woman cries, the man may change his mind. The woman proposes to break up, and the man uses no tricks. 】

It is clear that the occurrence of such a situation is the reason why she is not satisfied with your current conditions. It's very likely that when she came home, her family introduced her to someone who had better conditions than you, and she didn't tell them about the two of you.

So, according to my first sentence, no matter what happens in the future, you must not try to retain or take excessive revenge or very painful or anything like that, it is completely unnecessary, you don't want to be a man who dies at the hands of a woman who doesn't love you, it's not worth it. You have to understand what a woman is.

It's a sign before a breakup; Hurry up and fight for it; No, you can only change people...

Divide it. It's clear that you didn't come after. If you continue to talk about it, it will hurt you more and more. After all, it's because you're not good enough, right? Go for it. Affection is not something that is begged for on your knees.

Let me ask you a question, do you love your girlfriend, do you want your relatives and friends to know that you love her?

What is there to be angry about, how much do you understand her, 19 is very big, do you understand the temperament of her parents, if she is conservative, let the family know that she must be very embarrassed! We've been together for more than a year, what do big men care about this little thing, when do you want to play, you give the gift out on Valentine's Day, and then say anything else, she's happy, maybe take the initiative to find you out to play! Why don't you coax it?

Angry at what? Long live understanding. You're still a long way from a man.

If your girlfriend is a girl who doesn't care about the family's opinions and just screams, you're going to be even angrier in the future.

Tomorrow's Lantern Festival wow, you know.

Hello, this needs to be determined whether it is based on time or times!

If it is a time calculation, it is indeed a year, but the number of times is counted, it is only more than a month!

Count, I've been talking to you for a year, even if it's okay, not to mention coming to your house twice a month, everyone knows what's going on, so this is more recognizable that you've been together for a year, which can be said in the past by anyone, so it's good to admit it.

Of course, it's been a year, if you come every day, will your body be able to afford it? The concept of service life and service life is still different.

One, if you have doubts, it's because you're with your girlfriend"With you for a year"There is ambiguity in the perception of time.

Two, what my girlfriend said"With you for a year", is from and you"Confirm the relationship"time counted. She was right to think so, in a broad sense"year"Time.

Three, what you think"With you for a year"time, may refer to"Actually together"time, i.e. twice a month. That's right, you're referring to the narrow sense"year"Time.

Fifth, when the girl says this, it is a recognition of this relationship and you.

According to your description, the two of you have been talking for a year, although you only see each other twice a month, and it feels like you are not in a long-distance relationship, but no matter how much time you have been together, you have indeed been together for a year, and it is not easy for everyone to be together again and cherish it.

Of course, the time spent in love with you is not counted by the number of times you go to your house.

She probably said that she had been talking to you for a year, and your understanding may have been overthinking.

It doesn't count or not, it depends on what you think.

Love is to be willing to give and sacrifice unconditionally for each other, you don't need any reason to love someone, you just want the other person to be happy forever, never worry about each other, be happy because the other person is happy, and feel happy because the other person is happy.

We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her.

People live nothing more than hope that they will live a happy and happy life. And being able to be with your beloved and being able to give for your loved ones is a great joy in life. When you love someone, you also want her to be happy and happy, and only if she is happy and happy, you are happy and happy.

So when you feel that you love her, you have already decided to give and even sacrifice for her unconditionally, and only when this kind of giving and sacrifice can bring her joy and happiness, your giving and sacrifice is meaningful, and the love you give can find a home. If your giving and sacrifice cannot bring joy and happiness to the other person, it means that you do not understand the other person at all, it means that you do not know how to love each other at all, it means that you are not suitable for being together at all, and when you change the way of giving and sacrificing (that is, the way of love) cannot make both parties happy and happy, it means that you are not suitable for love at all. At this point, all you can give each other is blessings to each other.

Because blessing is also a kind of love, when your love for her is only a blessing, that is the time for you to give up, then bless each other, let your last love continue, and let each of you find the love that truly belongs to you.

If she really loves you, she will naturally fight for it instead of breaking up with you if her family doesn't agree, and I hope you will look away. There will be better ones waiting for you.

Since she can give up on you so easily, it means that her love for you is not stable, calm down, if she is really reluctant to give up on you, she will not give up on you so easily, it is better than giving up on you after marriage, take advantage of this opportunity to relax yourself, she will come back if she really loves you, and there is no need to wait if she doesn't come back.

He doesn't answer ** now, maybe he's struggling and painful, he may not want to be separated from you and you, but because of the resistance of the family, he doesn't know how to face it for a while. Don't be in a hurry, and don't be cranky. You should give him some time to ask why he disagrees with you, and then start with the question to get a chance.

As for the worst-case scenario, if he is determined to share it with you, you must also understand, after all, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, and he can't live his own knot, even if it lasts for a period of time, I'm afraid it will end up without a problem. It's best to look at the opening point, of course, I still hope that a lover will eventually become a family.

Do your best and prepare for the worst.

She may have a very conflicted position, she doesn't know how to choose, maybe her family has put pressure on her, if she really doesn't want to lose her, go to her house to find her.