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1. Open yourself. When parents find that their children's interests are affecting their homework, do not ban them immediately, and it is better to know more about the situation.
2. Compare hearts to hearts. Parents should compare their hearts with their children, and the relationship between them will be harmonious, and the children will not have a rebellious mentality.
3. Seek advice. When disciplining children, sometimes it is necessary to seek the opinions of others to broaden one's mind. It is best to communicate with your child's teacher to understand how your child is doing in school.
4. Observe and communicate. It's about observing how your child communicates with himself. In many cases, parents have to go beyond their own role and look at the problem of their child's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. And treat children from different angles, and make limited accommodations.
5. Analysis and description. Parents should carefully analyze the specific reasons for the formation of their children's rebellious psychology and give full explanations, so that the child's rebellious psychology will gradually disappear.
6. Keep experimenting. When parents discipline their children, they should change their ways from time to time, and when their children are young, they are generally just parents who talk and children who listen. Once you're in middle school, try to communicate both ways and listen to your child's advice.
Once you find that a certain method does not work, you should change the method at any time and keep experimenting until you find an effective method.
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When communicating with children in the rebellious period, they often quarrel with each other without saying a word. The main reason is that when the child is young, the expression ability is not enough, and when the child encounters disagreement, the child will only cry and will not talk back. When a rebellious child encounters a disagreement, he no longer cries but begins to express his thoughts, and as a parent, he feels that the child has challenged his authority and is not very calm when he speaks.
It is recommended to wait until you can be calm and communicate with your child.
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1.Be patient. Children's rebellious behavior is often the case when they need more attention and support from their parents, so parents need to be patient and try to understand their children's thoughts and help them find solutions to their problems.
2.Strengthen communication. Rebellious behavior is often when the child wants to express his thoughts and opinions, and parents should care about the child's thoughts, communicate with them at the child's pace, guide the child to turn his thoughts into action, and express his thoughts in the right way.
3.Focus on training. Parents should set certain rules for their children, and at the same time let their children know their responsibilities, they should point out their mistakes and give appropriate punishments, so that children can experience the consequences of rebellious behavior, so that children can learn self-discipline and correct behavior habits.
4.Strengthen emotional communication in the family. Establish a good family atmosphere, increase family activities, give children more attention and support, and have close contact with children, so that children can feel the warmth of the family, and let rebellious behaviors be effectively controlled.
It is difficult to teach a child with a rebellious personality, which is usually spoiled. Then don't be angry, reason with him calmly, and sometimes encourage him, don't get angry when it's wrong, and reason well.
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