After a relationship ends, who recovers faster than a boy or a girl?

<> two people who love each other deeply, or who once loved each other, for whatever reason, the result is a breakup, who will get out of this sadness faster?

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Under normal circumstances, not long after the breakup, the girls are heartbroken and decadent, and they have lost confidence in everything, while the boys are mostly calmer, on the surface, the girls are not decent at all, and the boys look cool and light.

Perhaps it is precisely because of this that after experiencing the despair of falling to the bottom, after a month or two, the girl will take a clean bath, change the most beautiful clothes, tie up her beautiful hair, re-enter life, and regain her former vitality and charm.

It is also at this stage that the boy begins to feel depressed, often in a daze, unable to lift his spirits for anything, as if he just broke up yesterday and entered a period of malaise.

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For those who take the initiative to break up with one party, when they first break up, they will feel that breaking up is a relief and secretly rejoicing; For the injured party, it hurts to feel abandoned, ignored, and heartbroken.

However, after a period of time, the person who hurts others will gradually develop a sense of guilt and loss, because the distance makes him gradually see his original self clearly, and he also feels more guilty.

The person who was hurt will gradually become calm, will gradually heal the wound, and most importantly, will also grow because of this, let go of the former him, thank him for his company, and continue to be the best version of himself.

In addition to socio-cultural influences, men rarely show their vulnerability, but another factor that affects men's recovery is social support.

Studies have shown that men usually rely on love for emotional intimacy and social support, no matter how many buddies they have around them, and women tend to rely on family and female friends as the safest sustenance when they are not partnered.

Good social support is essential for everyone, both men and women. Effective and healthy social support is the best reserve of our depleted psychological energy**, care, confiding, supporting, connecting, dependence, and empathy will make our inner feelings slowly better.

It must be that boys recover their emotions more quickly, boys have a lot of times when they take their feelings very lightly, they don't take them very seriously, they can quickly adjust their state.

This varies from person to person, some boys are more infatuated, and he can't get out for a long time after the breakup, and some girls are the same, but most girls are more affectionate than boys, and boys recover their emotions faster.

After the breakup, the boy must have thought about liberating himself and no one cared about him, the girl was uncomfortable for a long time, and then the girl recovered, and the boy began to miss his previous life.