The height is not right, will we have a result?

Updated on society 2024-04-13
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's the same situation as me some time ago, I'm 1.58 meters, my boyfriend is 1.74 meters, and his family still thinks I'm low, and I can't put on high heels to finish him. If he really likes you, he won't care, I'm talking about how tall he doesn't care if he really loves you! That's the result.

    You have to understand that if he just likes you, then the chances of you being separated will be a little higher, and no matter how much you love him, he will talk about the family not agreeing with your height. Although I am still talking to my boyfriend, it was because I had an accident at the end of September, and I insisted on not letting my family tell my boyfriend, I thought about breaking up, I didn't want him to worry about me or something, but he still knew, and went to the hospital that night and took care of him until the end of the National Day. And then we were together again.

    Telling you these is to let you live well, I really tried the horror of the ghost gate at the time, I hope you can understand, in fact, cherish it or not in an instant, I don't know how he changed his attitude towards me, maybe it was my kind heart that touched him. People are like this sometimes, and they only know how to cherish when they lose them. If you want to know the result, take the initiative to ask your boyfriend, if he is obligated to be with you, then you still have a future, then slowly wait for him to convince his family, if he hesitates, he has to talk to you about the height, then you are unlikely to have a result, silly child, happiness sometimes requires the courage to face all setbacks.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As the saying goes, isn't height a distance I see you say that you have a lot of attitude. It's all about how you love him if you are responsible for him. But what about you?

    If he loves you as much as you love him, then I think you should have a result. If you truly love each other, you have to find a way to face all kinds of things in life together, including the worldly eyes. Hope it helps!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Age Height is not distance.

    It's not the point, the point is that you love him. He loves you too, and you can be eternal by sticking to each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Then work hard to get his parents to accept you. Be kind to him, especially in front of his parents, and let his parents know so that they will accept you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love is to be tested, if he loves you, he will choose you, or you will not be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not the point, the point is that you love him. Sticking to each other can be eternal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Learn more and deal with his family, people's hearts are made of meat, persistence, forbearance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As long as you love each other, height is not a problem, be brave enough to pursue your true love!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Age is not a problem, height is not distance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay for girls to be short, get along well to prove it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He is 1.9 meters against the family. His family wants him to find 180?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello! I'm an emotional teacher and it's a pleasure to serve you!

    Hello! I'm an emotional teacher and it's a pleasure to serve you!

    What should I do if my height is not suitable.

    Pro-3 You reply like this, height is not distance, age is not a problem.

    What are you talking about?

    This way, a woman who went on a blind date before, he was watching me grow too tall, he was a little short, to say that we were not suitable, but I liked it very much, how could I say that I could make him add me, and I regretted it.

    I'll know if you describe it in detail.

    Pro-3 I think these are her excuses.

    I don't know. So what to say.

    You wait for me. I like a person I can't get, I know I love you deeply, but I create a problem, I know I should let you go, but I say that my height is not compatible. It's what I know I can't do.

    I like you, not because of anything about you, but because you gave me this kind of affection in a special time, and no one else can give it a sense of emotion. Some people can't say that the ** family is good, but it is a happiness that no one can replace!

    Send it directly to her. Good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To be honest, my original mate selection standard was more than 1.8 meters, of course, my current husband is 1.83 meters, which is very suitable for me, but I never thought that I would like a boy who is shorter than myself? None of the boyfriends I've talked to are shorter than me, and this question is really worth thinking about.

    1. If I really meet a man who falls in love at first sight and loves me so much that I can't extricate myself, I don't think I will not express my emotions because of his height, I am a relatively open person, I don't like to hide my feelings in my heart, I like to express my thoughts boldly. True feelings need to be revealed to feel it, and true love does not have too many conditions.

    2. Of course, now many people regard height as one of the necessary conditions for falling in love, and there are also many girls who pass the boys who are shorter than themselves before they see the true face of the boy before the blind date, because they consider many factors, first of all, they will feel that the boy who is shorter than themselves has no sense of security, in fact, they will feel that there is no face to take such a boy out, and finally they will worry that the next generation in the future will inherit the boy's shortness, so before getting along, they will find a way out for themselves.

    In fact, no matter what the reason, as a person, I still can't accept a boy who is shorter than me, maybe my mind is narrower, but what I am talking about is what I really think in my heart, I can't imagine what it's like to get along with a boy who is shorter than me? I guess I don't have that feeling of being protected, but I feel that I should protect him, and as a girl, of course, I want to be protected, so from this point of view, I can't accept it. It may also be because I haven't encountered this situation, so I can only think about the problem from my own point of view, and use my feelings as a starting point to analyze this matter, whether it is right or wrong, I hope it will help you.

    Of course, there are also those who are not recommended for height, and there are two types of such people.

    The first is that you have money, and now this society. For the rich, there is no emotional hindrance. People like you, if you have nothing, you have money.

    The second is character, my father's wife is taller than him, because my father has a good character, is honest, and diligent. My mother said, "That's what I fell in love with him in the first place." ”

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In real life, almost no girl will find a boyfriend who is shorter than her height. For girls, girls will attach great importance to the issue of security, because many girls themselves are insecure, so they want to rely on their other half. If the boy is shorter than herself, many girls will feel that the boy cannot provide them with a sense of security, so they will be more concerned about this problem.

    Second, the height problem cannot be absolute.

    Although girls attach great importance to the issue of height, the issue of height is not everything, and when a boy can provide a girl with an advantage and a sense of security in other aspects, girls do not really care about the height of the boy. To some extent, a person's height is a congenital problem, and we have no way to overcome our own congenital problems, so we don't always need to use our height to talk about things, and there is no need to use height to make excuses.

    3. Boys can provide value to girls in addition to their height.

    This value is mainly emotional value, if a boy is shorter, the boy needs to be more stable in doing things, and at the same time need to reflect a certain personality charm. Girls don't really look at the guy's appearance, and when a guy is attractive in other ways, the girl will like the guy too. For boys, the issue of height is indeed very important, but the issue of height is not the whole of feelings.

Related questions
12 answers2024-04-13

Girls say that it is not suitable for a different meaning

1.Maybe it's because she doesn't like the excuses you give. >>>More

10 answers2024-04-13

If you really can't go on, then break up.

30 answers2024-04-13

The girl said that we were not suitable, and the boy did not want to give up on the issue, and to deepen his understanding of what was not appropriate in that regard. >>>More

36 answers2024-04-13

Suffice it to say, I know this is just a reason for refusal, so we can only take a step back and be friends, anyway, just don't arouse her disgust.

16 answers2024-04-13

When two people are together, there is nothing suitable or inappropriate, only whether they are willing or not, and whether they work hard or not. Inappropriate is the most excuse I've seen, and it's also the most irresponsible. It's incomparably appropriate when you meet, it's inappropriate when you break up, it's an escape to say it's good, and it's a fart to say it's bad. >>>More