Lan Yingying is competitive, why do girls fight so hard?

Lan Yingying said in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves": There is no shame in being ambitious. As soon as this sentence was spoken, it caused a lot of discussions, and it also exposed Lan Yingying's ambition.

What do many people think girls want to be ambitious? It's good to be able to give well in the family. But I think it has nothing to do with gender or not, it's a positive spirit.

Girls should also be ambitious and self-motivated.

01. There is no shame in being ambitious. Once a person has ambition, it is equivalent to having the motivation to move forward. This ambition allows you to constantly improve yourself and pursue the goal you want to achieve.

Ambition means that you are a person with ambitions, and if a person does not even have ambitions, it is equivalent to having no soul. A lot of people think ambition is scary, but I think anyone should be ambitious. It's a positive energy, not a negative one.

02. People must have a fighting spirit when they are young. Young people must dare to think, dare to do, and dare to break through. If you don't have the spirit of hard work, if you are just comfortable with the status quo, you are destined to spend your life in an ordinary way.

If you want to pursue your own higher value in life, you should set long-term goals. Spelling refers to the fact that an individual has a positive motivation for something, which will speed up the efficiency, and if you don't fight, you may make the result slower or even not at all.

03, girls and boys should fight! It's not that girls can't be competitive and don't fight. Equality between men and women is an integral part of society and should contribute to society.

It's normal to be competitive, and I don't think anyone is even competitive, right? Girls are not only positioned as weak, they can also make achievements, even more than a large number of boys. So I really think:

Spelling is gender-neutral.

It's actually good for girls to fight a little bit for themselves, at least you won't regret it. If you don't even fight, when the life you live is not what you expected, then you will start to regret not fighting in the first place.

Family reasons. I read an interview, although her family background is very good, her parents have always been strict with her, so her competitiveness is also quite heavy.

The reason why girls want to fight for their careers is to achieve the same social status and identity as men, and people need to work to make ends meet, regardless of gender.

Because in order to live a better life in the future, girls can easily be eliminated by society if they don't fight.

Because today's girls are very independent, they don't want to be men's accessories and want to make a career on their own.

Because this world does not give girls special preferential treatment. A girl who doesn't fight will be despised by her husband if she has no success in her career; poor economic conditions and inability to honor their parents; Without social status, it is impossible to be a role model in the eyes of children. The pressure on the girl is really high.

You can see it as a strong sense of dedication, of course girls have to work hard, just for their own careers and future paths. Because girls can't always rely on men, when you have your own career and your own achievements, you will find that it is right to work hard when you are young!

Girls are often more competitive than boys, after all, this era is still a bit patriarchal, girls can only fight by themselves without relying on others, so that others will not look down on them.

It is worth affirming that girls put in a certain amount of effort to live the life they like, and having a strong competitive spirit is a good thing in itself, and it will be the icing on the cake if this competitive spirit can be applied to real life. Girls who try to live their own lives are the most beautiful.

There are many, many reasons to fight, which can be great or small. It could be to survive, it could be to achieve self-worth, it could be to prove yourself to people, it could be for dignity, and so on.

Of course, you have to fight, excellent actors are spelled out, people have to work hard to succeed, no one can succeed casually.

Lan Yingying has been controversial recently, because "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" Lan Yingying has been pushed to the forefront many times, and she is very competitive, which is the main reason why everyone complains about her, she works very hard, mainly in two aspects.

1. Be strict with the people around you. Lan Yingying chose Huang Ling and Wu Xin as team members, in fact, Lan Yingying knows very well what she wants in her heart, Wu Xin is popular, there is always an audience, and she can add a lot of points to the team. And Huang Ling is a professional singer with a changeable music style, some people say that Lan Yingying's game of chess is very good, and it can also be seen that Lan Yingying is very scheming.

And the subsequent performance made everyone disgusted with Lan Yingying, and she asked Wu Xin to learn the instrument, but Wu Xin had never touched the bass.

Even the judges and team member Huang Ling felt that this method would not work, and it was very difficult for Wu Xin, who was not a professional, to learn bass within a few days. In the end, Wu Xin broke down and cried, which also made Lan Yingying break off this idea, but Lan Yingying did not realize her selfishness, pursued perfection excessively, was too competitive, and ignored the feelings between her teammates.

Second, desperate to win. It's completely understandable for me to participate in the talent show and want to win, after all, they are all female artists who have just debuted, and they have also won many awards, but Lan Yingying's performance is too obvious, there are many Lan Yingying's seniors in the show, and there should be humility in the face of seniors. Caring too much about winning or losing is actually very bad for passers-by, and in the end, Lan Yingying's reputation became very poor, and some people said that even if Lan Yingying successfully stayed and debuted, the people's hearts had already been lost.

Lan Yingying regards the results of the competition too seriously, this show is still a variety show after all, desperate to win, variety shows will over-amplify the behavior of artists, and Lan Yingying was also complained by netizens because she was too competitive. I think Lan Yingying should look forward and backward more, or be more kind, otherwise it will have an impact on her career, Lan Yingying is powerful, but using too much force is disgusting.

She uses all her strength to do things, and at the same time, she will not stop until she exhausts her strength.

When it comes to Lan Yingying, you will think of her efforts, her competitiveness is all written on her face, it is a good thing to be competitive, she can tie sandbags to practice for light dance steps, etc., and has made a lot of efforts.

She works very hard, and in order to make a very perfect thing, she can put a lot of effort into it in private.

The sister who rode the wind and waves is in the show. Lan Yingying almost never rests when training dance, and is strict with herself with devilish training, never giving up training even if she is injured.

I think it's right to be curious, it's just that everyone will be used to it in the game, and if it's in life, it will be a little difficult to understand, but everyone should show their greatest sincerity in the face of the game, as well as respect for the opponent, and should give full play to their strength.

No, a competitive woman is very good, she can work hard for her goals, it can be said that she will do whatever it takes to achieve her goals, and she likes competitive women very much.

The girl's personality is too strong, which really makes people speechless, because there are some things that women are competitive, and in some small things, if they are like this, it will make it difficult for others to adapt.

I think so. Boys don't like girls who are too competitive, and they feel that they can't hold such girls.

No, because some people prefer women's competitiveness, because women are so sad, from another perspective is also a manifestation of independence, many men like women to be independent, don't rely too much on others.

No, a girl's competitive spirit will make her more independent and work harder to achieve her goals, which is a sign of charm.