Do you regret marrying your current husband?

Thank you for this question and for me to reflect on my marriage of more than 10 years. The longer the timeline is stretched, the weaker the feeling of regret will become.

I remember when I first got married, I found that the contrast between married and unmarried was so strong. Two people live together and there are too many things to overcome to change. I am young and vigorous, and I can't compromise no matter what, I think marriage is so terrible, and the other half is so hopeless.

Do you know? Once you have the thought of regret, it will occupy your brain every day, and the feeling will become stronger and stronger. I remember that Korean dramas were just popular at that time, and the perfect actor in them, you will not be able to distinguish between reality and ideals.

On the other hand, you will feel that the reality is so cruel, regret that you did not make a good choice in the first place, regret your impulsiveness, and even wonder if you have a decision to correct your mistakes, anyway, while you don't have children yet, ......A burst of cranky thoughts.

Later, I encountered miscellaneous things, and after a period of time, although I occasionally looked back, I was overshadowed by the trivial things of life.

Later, I got in touch with more friends, saw all kinds of lives, and thought that maybe having a child could solve the problem. As a result, from the birth of the bear child, I found that my life trajectory has undergone a particularly big change.

Moreover, life is like a TV series, and such a bloody plot will appear in your life when you are defenseless, whether you agree with it or not.

What is surprising is that you will find that the other half is also growing, and after experiencing some things, you will find maturity, which is to understand and discover the strengths of the other party, tolerate the shortcomings of the other party, and admit some of your own shortcomings.

In this way, inadvertently, after 7 years of itching, now looking back, married life is a common growth process of two people.

I've heard a famous sayingA good man who graduated from a school for a good woman.

Learn to manage your marriage, learn to respect your other half, and learn to understand communication, so that you don't have a chance to think of the word regret. And marriage is not one-sided, and our lives are not only about husbands and children.

Women, you should have your own life, your own wonderful, and make them proud of you.

No regrets. I am especially glad that my husband and I entered marriage from each other's first love. Now I have been in love for 3 years, married for 7 years, gave birth to two sons, and live with my in-laws.

My husband and I were introduced by classmates, and we met after a month of chatting with each other, and we both felt that each other was not good-looking enough at first sight, but we both felt that you still didn't look down on me like that!

As a result, he only leaked the old bottom in two minutes, and after a short silence when he met, he suddenly said, I am the first in my graduate major, and his expression is a little self-esteem and a little stubborn. I laughed inwardly, knowing that he liked me. I had dinner with his classmates together, and the two of them went shopping together, and I felt a little embarrassed, thinking that he was very boring, talked little, had little knowledge, had no opinions, and was only submissive, which was really not my dish.

Later, I repeatedly said that we were not suitable, but the other party ignored it directly, making it clear that he would cry again when they broke up, and he tried his best to tolerate and comfort me when he quarreled. I had the torment of not loving in my heart, but I really couldn't find a reason to break up, so I dragged on for three years as a graduate student and got my certificate.

After getting married, I slowly found that he has too many advantages, I didn't find it before, respect me everywhere emotionally, discuss with me about everything, always support me in terms of in-laws relationship, so my in-laws also respect me, and I take care of my family and love my son very much.

He can basically leave it alone in me, educate more patiently than me, do housework more diligently than me, have a better temper than me, don't touch smoking, alcohol and games, think about children's education when he has a little time, insist on running every day, his body is still very good, and his relationship is better than me.

I'm the kind of person who is called a stupid person and has a stupid blessing, it's really stupid, it's not white or sweet, it's simple, it's very kind, but it's big-tempered, it's scheming, and I'm called by my husband as the kind of person who has no ability and a temper, but I really enjoy that kind of innocent interpersonal relationship, I don't want to think a little more, I always feel that I have a clear conscience.

My husband's family is in the countryside, very poor, and I have no savings in the garage before marriage. From the time I proposed to the time I got married, I didn't ask for a penny from his family, and when I bought jewelry, we were still pushing and pulling at the door, one insisted on not wanting it, and the other insisted on buying it. All the red envelopes he received when he got married were pushed to his parents and he didn't ask for any money.

Regret! But it's hard to go back because of the baby. The baby is almost two years old, has been in a loving family atmosphere, very cheerful and sunny, if divorced, the baby's life will definitely have a great impact.

Let's talk about the reason for regret, I haven't been in love before college, I belong to a very well-behaved emotional and simple kind, my husband is my high school classmate, and he chased me for three years after work, and he was good at me during the period of chasing me, even my girlfriend thinks I found a good man, but my husband's height and appearance do not meet my ideal conditions, so I have always rejected him.

Later, I also went on a blind date, and I saw all kinds of boys introduced by friends, but there was never a suitable one, and I slowly felt that after getting married, love became family, and it was most important to find one that was good for me, so I accepted my husband. Soon after getting married, I got pregnant, and then I found out all kinds of things that I regretted.

1. My husband's personality is gentle and careful, and he has always been very close to the opposite sex, because it is not easy for my husband to chase me, I have always been very confident that my husband loves me exclusively, and he can't be ambiguous with other women or anything in this life, so he chats with friends of the opposite sex on WeChat, etc., I never take it to heart.

Until one time I looked at his mobile phone because of curiosity, and found that he chatted with netizens or female colleagues all kinds of sassies, talked about life and ideals, and talked about many things I didn't know, and after getting married, he rarely chatted with me at home except looking at his mobile phone, and instantly **, and he had a big quarrel, and afterwards he deleted her WeChat, and said that he would not commit it again in the future, but then I was caught several times.

2, before I married my husband, I never knew that my husband had a preference for chasing stars, and I chased Internet celebrities before, and I put up with the girl group, beauty, everyone loves to watch it. Actually, I don't object to him chasing stars, I'm angry that as a middle-aged person, I still put my mind on chasing stars, and I don't worry about family affairs at all.

The child is almost two years old, and I haven't seen him buy toys and books for the child, or read books to educate the child, etc., and every day when he comes home, he holds his mobile phone to study what idols eat and drink today, what shows they participate in, and what dances they practice. I have to stay up late to draw, I have to look at the color of the owner's leader, I have to work hard for the children, why my husband just doesn't understand, I regret marrying him now.

Not married, but getting married will make the relationship between two people more ceremonial. Therefore, there will be no regrets when you get married, unless someone betrays the relationship.

I'm not married yet, but I have a boyfriend! If you marry him, of course you won't regret it! Why should a man who is responsible, responsible, and will think about me regret it!

I'm not married yet, I think you have to think carefully about getting married, you have to get along for a long time before you make up your mind to marry someone, and don't regret it when you get married.

I'm still a student, and I've never experienced marriage, but I asked my mom, and what she gave me was, even if you regret it, it's useless, you can only live well, marriage is not easy.

I'm not married, but I have a boyfriend, I don't regret being with my boyfriend, I'm very lucky to meet him, to meet the man I like so much.

I'm not married yet, but I don't regret my decision.

I haven't experienced marriage yet, but I think that since I have chosen a marriage partner, I must be together.

I'm still a college student and I'm not married, but there are a lot of unsuccessful marriages right now, and I hope I won't regret it in the future.

Uh......We're not married yet, and we're still a man, if we regret getting married, then why don't we want to get married again!

I've never regretted marrying him now. Getting married is a big event in life and requires careful consideration, but I know I made the right decision. I'm glad I'm married to him now.

We met in college, and we didn't think about being together at the time. But over time, we discover that each other are soul mates. We share similar interests and life values, and we are able to enjoy life together and face life's challenges and difficulties together.

He is a very kind, considerate and caring person, which is one of the reasons why I love him so much. At the beginning of our acquaintance, he cared very much about me. He would take the initiative to ask me if I had eaten, if I had rested, if I needed help.

He has been selfless in my support when I needed it the most, and has been with me through many difficult times.

After we fell in love and got married, he took more care of me. He would take care of me and care for me when I was sick. In terms of housework, he will take the initiative to share a lot of housework, so that I have more time to focus on my work and hobbies.

In our marriage, he often tried to make me happy and make me feel his love and love for me. All of this makes me feel very happy. I think it's very important to care for and care for each other in marriage.

His kindness to me made me feel the warmth and beauty of marriage. Our marriage wasn't all smooth sailing, either. We have gone through many difficulties and challenges, but we have never given up on each other.

We support, understand and support each other, and we grow and progress together.

Marriage is not a one-sided effort, but the result of mutual care and support. His kindness made me see his sincerity and sincerity, which is also the key to the long-term stability of our marriage. I believe that with our joint efforts, our marriage will get better and better.

It happened that his kindness and care for me also made me more willing to give and care for him. This kind of marriage is a marriage where both parties can be satisfied and happy, and I am glad that I am married to such an excellent person.

To be honest, I once regretted marrying my current partner. If I had to choose one more time now, I wouldn't choose him. But there are no ifs in this world, and I am a more traditional person, once I make a choice, even if there are many unsatisfactory things, I will always persevere.

There are several reasons why I regret marrying him.

First, there is no common language. Although we are the same age and have the same educational background, we have different working environments, different growth environments, and we don't have common interests and hobbies, so it is difficult to communicate. I told him what I was interested in, not only was he not interested, but he didn't understand, and his views on some things were completely different, which caused a lot of estrangement between us, and sometimes he got angry, and even didn't say a word for two months, which is really very depressing.

Second, they don't understand each other. I have always thought that husbands and wives should respect each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, sometimes, when I communicate with her about something, she either disagrees, or stares at you, and will not communicate calmly to solve some things. It is the lack of necessary understanding, trust and support between each other.

So that the relationship between the two sides is becoming more and more rigid.

Third, the distance between the two sides is growing. Because of the difference in the working environment and working conditions between the two people, the income gap between the two sides is also very large, although I have never shown in front of him that I have a high income and is more superior than him, but he himself thinks about this aspect, feels that his income is low, and he has an inferiority complex. I've been making up for the distance, but it's not very effective.

The reason why we are still together is because I feel that I was really willing to be with him at the beginning, although we have lived together for so many years, a lot of unsatisfactory things have happened, there are many differences between us, but we have children in common, he gave me very little, but he gave me the most precious gift, that is our children.

Now as we get older, our communication and communication are getting better and better than before, and our relationship is much better than before. Therefore, when two people have some contradictions and problems, they should not be impulsive, they should look at this matter rationally, as long as the two people can treat it correctly, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

I don't regret marrying my husband, because he is very good, I am very happy, and I am really helping you look forward to it.

Alas, I'm afraid of choosing the wrong man, so if it doesn't work, I'll agree to divorce.

There are many things in the world, which are not perfect, whether it is because of impulsive marriage or other reasons, many people will regret it after getting married, and I am no exception, I have also regretted marrying him now because of some things that backfired, but in fact, imperfection is the truth, and the days will go on, and finding a way to make your marriage perfect is the right way.

Now the social pressure is high, and some people are forced by the pressure of family and society, so they hurriedly marry the person they don't like, and hastily decide their marriage, which is not responsible for marriage, irresponsible for each other, and irresponsible behavior for themselves, so this kind of person will regret it after getting married, and he doesn't like it in the first place, how can he live a stable life.

First of all, if there is an idea of regretting getting married, don't divorce impulsively, first Qingsong to find the problem, in the end, there is a problem in your marriage, is there no emotion? The question of whether Fengzi is married or separated from the two places, etc., I have found the problem and are thinking of a way to solve the problem.

If you don't have children yet, your married life is not as complete as you imagined, and it's not the married life you want, then first of all, you can discuss this issue with your other half, why are you living like this, is there any good way to solve the problem, do two people have a common opinion that can make marriage better, if so, you can implement it, don't have a pessimistic attitude, face it positively, if the method works, then you have found the life you want again, The two of them are also more affectionate, and they won't regret getting married at this time.

But if two people don't agree on the three views, and they don't discuss a good answer to Zheng's countermeasures, and the other party agrees to divorce, then divorce is also a good countermeasure, life is to live for yourself, since you are not happy now, why can't you get rid of it, of course, you must be cautious and cautious before making this decision, once you divorce, you are really a person again.

If the two of you have the crystallization of love and have children, then no matter what the reason is for regretting getting married, you must first consider the child, the child is still young, and should not bear the consequences of the adult's mistakes, you must know that no matter who raises the child alone, it is a very difficult thing, and the child of a single-parent family always lacks another part of the father's love or mother's love, and he will not be happy, he will not be happy, so don't forget that you still have a child before making any decisions, and don't let the child suffer for you.

Marriage is not child's play, I hope everyone can pay attention to it, don't tie the knot casually, so that the regret in the future must be yourself, everyone must wait until the time is ripe, Gao Xian two people came together because of love, you got married because of love, not because of anything else, so that you can make the decision to get married, only two people are willing to get married, and you can live a stable and happy life in the future. I hope everyone gets married for love, not for the sake of getting married!