What if you love each other and your parents oppose you?

The important thing is to understand that the person you love is worth your love, whether it is worth it or not, you are desperate for him, I am a person from the past, I used to be the same as you, my father, my mother was very opposed, I was very ignorant at that time, I did a lot of things that hurt them, I really regretted it, at that time, I regarded my feelings as all, and I had to be with him when I died, although we are together now, and we are very happy, but the thing I hurt my parents has become an eternal pass in my heart, and it also makes me understand that the relationship has been talked about for a long time, And family affection never will. If you really love him, her, take your time, let him show his good qualities, make your parents change their attitude towards him, remember, don't hurt your parents.

True feelings can withstand any test, and you should use practical actions to prove to your parents that your choice is right and use true feelings to influence them. Don't be rash, a marriage without the blessing of your parents will not be happy and perfect for a long time. Friends, for a better tomorrow, come on!!

Being intervened by parents when they are in love is really a common phenomenon for wives. There are many people who are sad after obeying their parents' arrangements for many years, and there are many people who regret not listening to the old man after getting married for many years. Of course, there are very few male guests like "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" are so tough.

When asked by the female guest how to deal with the relationship between the spouse and the parents, how to deal with the opinions and participation of the parents when choosing a mate. The male guest made something unexpected, he bluntly said that he would not consider his parents' opinions, and even Grandpa Meng expressed his amazement.

After in-depth understanding, I found that the male guest's hardness was not without reason, but because the original family itself was very tolerant, supporting him "I am the master of my life", and giving the male guest enough space to choose. But the truth is that not everyone's family of origin will be so tolerant.

It has been said that "a marriage that does not have the approval of parents is a marriage of courage." "It takes a lot of courage because you have to face more difficulties and obstacles, so it is best to have the support and approval of your parents for love and marriage. And when faced with parental interference, what we need to do must not be to worsen the existing situation, but to do the following:

Respect. When there is a difference of opinion, you must first respect, not only respect your parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you must know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are sure, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person.

Communicate. The second is to communicate with parents, no matter what the outcome is to achieve, effective communication is always essential! Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship.

Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing. You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make targeted breakthroughs, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them.

Balance. Finally, for parents to interfere in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings to stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, themselves, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration.

When we have a relationship, we all want to be blessed by everyone, but the beginning of a relationship often requires a lot of setbacks, such as work, academic troubles, third parties, long-distance relationships, etc. In a relationship, parents are often obstructed by their parents because they are not favored by their parents, so parents are also an important reason that will affect whether a relationship continues to go on firmly. Therefore, when encountering parents' obstruction, what should the young couple in the relationship do?

In fact, I think we should make three points clear, first of all, we must know the reasons why our parents oppose this relationship, secondly, we must know the attitude of the other half, and finally we should take practical actions to change our parents' views on the relationship. <>

First of all, in this relationship, we already know the parents' opinions on the law enforcement in this relationship, then we need to know the reasons for the parents' objections. Because many times the reason why parents don't let two people be together is actually very likely to be at the beginning of a relationship, and the other half leaves a very bad impression on parents, such as immaturity, lack of responsibility, etc. With such a stereotype, parents will inevitably have a negative attitude towards this relationship, which will prevent the two from continuing to communicate.

In addition, there is a situation that there is already a very suitable candidate in the hearts of the parents, so in this relationship, although the other party is very suitable, but because the parents have already chosen the object of marriage, then in the process of getting along, they will also be "provoked" by the parents, and try to give up this hard-won relationship. <>

Secondly, after learning the reasons for the parents' opposition, it is very effective to take targeted solutions to save the relationship that is about to break down. For us, we should first communicate fully with the other half, and carry out effective ideological work to persuade the parents to think about the relationship, rather than letting the other half defend to their parents, which will only make the parents more determined to oppose the beginning of the relationship. <>

In the end, adjusting your mindset in this relationship is the most crucial. I have a friend, and my parents were very opposed to their relationship at first, but she was not in a hurry to defend herself, but was very obedient to accept her parents' various blind dates. But after the blind date, she also told her parents about the bad habits of the blind date, and finally the parents found that the most suitable partner was still talking about it herself, so they finally agreed that they were together.

In this regard, only by having a strong psychology to withstand the real pressure of the other party's parents can we be sincere, open the golden stone, and solve the problems one by one.

I take the initiative to communicate with each other, and I will also tell my parents that my boyfriend is good to me, so that the other party can only agree.

If the parents are really very opposed, but they also like the partner they choose very much, at this time you should let your partner behave more in your parents, so that he can show his more mature side, so that the parents will slowly feel that the child is very good, and will agree.