What if someone who loves each other ends up being opposed by their family?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Persevere, overcome all difficulties, don't be stiff, be yourself, persevere to the end, and talk to your family.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1.When you are deeply in love with each other, this is true love, even if your family is against it, don't be afraid, they will naturally understand after a long time, and your love will eventually become a family. 2.Free love, love is to make up your own mind, and the family only has the right to reference.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love it, be bold enough to tell him or her and let him know your love, direct and simple language is the most beautiful. If you don't love it, be bold and tell him (her) not to let love become a burden. Let the good memories of the past become unbearable to look back on.

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything Please cherish when you love well When you let go, bless well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, no flowery words, no grandstanding actions, Only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swear and promise.

    Illustrates its uncertainty and never trusts sweet words. Feel it with your heart. Where there is love, there is hurt.

    Once things have passed, they can never be undoneFeel happy for having each other before. Cherish happiness for this time.

    Remember what should be remembered. Forget what you should forget. Change can change.

    Accept what can't be changed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The reason why you are opposed by your family is that you are not good enough, and you are not good enough to behave well, and the marriage that your family opposes is not good.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Two people who love each other, because of their parents' opposition, and it is particularly difficult to choose, in fact, your parents, because of their more life experience, have a better view of some things, so their decisions are often correct. Still listen to your parents.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can communicate with your parents and tell your parents that the two of you really love each other, and that the two of you will be very happy after being together, and I believe that your parents will agree after explanation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you truly love each other, you must not break up easily because of your parents' obstruction, and you still have to control your own happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If two people who love each other are suffering because of the opposition of their parents, this is when they should. Calm down. First of all, talk to your parents, why are you against two people being together? If the other person's answer is indeed realistic, then think about what to do next?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then stay together and find a way to convince your parents to follow their advice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I think we should stick to being together, and the most important thing is to continue the love through the efforts of two people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If two people who love each other are in pain and difficult to decide because of their parents' opposition, then they should think carefully about why their parents disagree, and they can also choose to live their own lives.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The family's opposition is nothing more than the fear that you won't be able to give her happiness in the future, you have to work hard now, Zhengyun Qingming gave her father a wheel and quietly believed to her mother, why can't you be together if you love each other? Take advantage of it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not ancient anymore, and although the parents of the two families are against it, you can still be united. There are a lot of people who have run away from home for love now, so you might as well give it a try. Although this method is not very filial, it is still feasible, and it should be much better to go back to see both parents after you get married.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are sure that two people really love each other, have good financial ability, and do not need to rely on the family to provide financial help, I think the family can be put aside. You also try to convince your parents and communicate with them to reassure them, because there are reasons why the family members do not agree, and you have not taken into account the problem.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, and if both of their parents do not agree now, then even if they get married, they will definitely encounter more problems in their lives in the future. I went to them to get married, and suggested that they must be financially independent, independent in life, in addition to the necessary family care, life should not be involved with their parents, to avoid being affected by their parents' behavior to their family, after a long time, the parents slowly accepted.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think I should find a way to communicate with my parents and try to make sure they agree to this marriage, otherwise it would be a pity that two people who love each other can't get married because of the opposition of their families. In fact, the family members are all good for us, and they must have their reasons for opposition, as long as we can explain it to the family members, and show the intentions and positions of both parties, I believe that the family will not embarrass us.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think this kind of problem is really very common, I think first of all, it is now the 21st century, the order of parents is a thing of the past, although we should follow the ideas of our parents, but we should find what we like when we live with ourselves, not what our parents like, I think you persevere, for each other's happiness!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If two people love each other very much, then you must use your sincerity to move your parents and make them agree to your marriage. First understand why your parents don't approve of your marriage, and then rule out their concerns based on their reasons. And let them know that the two of you really love each other, will be good to each other, will bring happiness to each other, and let your parents affirm your love.

    And whether before or after marriage, two people will also honor their parents and be good to their parents.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If the family is against it, try to communicate with them. If the communication doesn't work, I suggest you stick to your choice and go away with your loved ones. Then, after a year, bring your wife and children home, so that even if your parents want to blame you, they will look at the child's face and stop saying anything.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think this kind of problem should be discussed with parents and their consent should be obtained. But in this case, you can make your own decisions and ask for marriage, and they won't do anything with you, besides, it's free love now, mainly depending on the opinions of both parties to the marriage, their opinions are secondary, if you don't mind, you can go to court with them. After all, you're an adult.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, you have to make it clear why your parents are against you being together, because of the region, family income or because of character, if it is not because of character problems, you can communicate with your parents well, and assure them that he is the person who can give you happiness, but if it is because of character, you have to re-examine your love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This kind of thing happens too much in real life, and the opposition of the people in the family leads to the fact that the two people cannot be together, and both people are very miserable. If they just want to get married, I think they should be clear about what they want, and the rest of the things should be solved in a way, although your parents are against it, but if you are so insistent, they may also agree to you being together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm basically the same now, my boyfriend is from the province, and now he is also the type of nothing, and my parents don't approve of us being together. In fact, no matter what reason our parents have, they are all for our good, and they don't want to break our hearts, but why should they oppose it? There must be a lot of problems in the middle, my situation is fortunate that we don't have that side to give up, just thinking about two people working together to prove that we can be happy together, and we can also make both families happy, self-esteem is not how to look at it, if you want to give up like this, if it is me, I don't think I have much reason to persevere, now my parents let me make my own decisions, we are all adults, many things have to be done by ourselves, even if this road is difficult to walk, Or if we make a mistake, then we all have to bear the consequences.

    If you really love each other that much, nothing can change you, just do what you said upstairs! If you're romantic, stay with him: don't want to be romantic, be realistic, listen to your parents.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Depending on your age, if you are only old, it is better to listen to your parents, if you are in your 20s, then you know what you should have experienced, and you will not be confused.

    When you love, calm down for a week to make sure that you love him and don't change. You'll know what to do.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Firm their beliefs, the two of them went on happily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When happiness comes, there are always some obstacles. Put aside the present, do what you want, and do it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I have a cousin, that's it, her way is to hold on, for a few years, the woman is getting older, the family will be anxious, and they will not care, and finally let them get married. But in order to prevent the family from saying hurtful things to each other, they told the family that they were not looking for a partner and had not contacted the other party.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In this regard, the first environmental factor, the second family's incomprehension, when happiness comes, there will always be some obstacles. Put aside the present, do what you want, and do it. A person's life is not always as he wishes.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Often the end result is to tell us that the old man is still right, after all, they have experienced more than me, the old saying is that we eat more salt than we eat rice, maybe giving up is better for each other.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's best to go with the flow, elopement is your unfilial piety, you should let your parents change their opinion of him and let them gradually accept it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Try your best to be happy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hey, my parents are all for our good, and I'm going to be as troubled as I am next, so let it be.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Patiently persuade your parents, communicate well, and tell them that in today's era, true love is hard to find, and now you must cherish it.

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