What if your parents are vehemently opposed to you being with your loved one?

There is always some truth in the parents' opinions, but not all of them, because they are just against it, and they don't say the reason for it. You think you're happy now, maybe the little girls in love are so stupid. But what I'm going to tell you is that you can't hold a knife to your loved one at any time, it's a matter of principle and not something wrong and good, it's not a matter of drunkenness, it shows that a person is angry deep down.

If you think such a statement is not good, then you can look at the outcome of similar situations, which statements are higher than life, but are the best examples of life. Prudently, prudently.

Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time. If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

How nice would it be if all the sorrow, the pain, the failures were fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and your own pain, failure, and sorrow are always true.

I think.. You should let him have a good talk with your parents, show his sincerity, and let your parents know that he has truly repented. I can understand adults, and I would be shocked if I saw this scene, not to mention that you are their treasure.

So if it's true love, show sincerity and impress your parents, I think they'll see it one day.

What I want to know is whether you care about your parents' care for you, or if your boyfriend cares about you, whether your parents are better for you, or if your boyfriend is good for you. Your boyfriend is good for you when he buys you clothes, and your parents give birth to you, and let you go to school and take care of your life. Don't you even remember it?

Do you only remember the dress your boyfriend bought for you? If that's true. If I were your parents, I would be really sad for you.

Parents have a reason for their opposition. Reflect on yourself.

Communicate more with your parents, who is not at fault, just know that you can change your mistakes, persuade your parents, and be considerate and tolerant of each other.

Being intervened by parents when they are in love is really a common phenomenon for wives. There are many people who are sad after obeying their parents' arrangements for many years, and there are many people who regret not listening to the old man after getting married for many years. Of course, there are very few male guests like "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" are so tough.

When asked by the female guest how to deal with the relationship between the spouse and the parents, how to deal with the opinions and participation of the parents when choosing a mate. The male guest made something unexpected, he bluntly said that he would not consider his parents' opinions, and even Grandpa Meng expressed his amazement. After in-depth understanding, I found that the male guest's hardness was not without reason, but because the original family itself was very tolerant, supporting him "I am the master of my life", and giving the male guest enough space to choose.

But the truth is that not everyone's family of origin will be so tolerant. Some people say, "A marriage that has not been approved by parents is a marriage of courage." "It takes a lot of courage because you have to face more difficulties and obstacles, so it is best to have the support and approval of your parents for love and marriage.

And when facing the interference of parents, what we have to do must not be to worsen the existing situation, but the following three points: respect when there is a difference of opinion, first of all, we must respect, not only respect the parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you must know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are determined, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person. Communication is followed by communication with parents, no matter what kind of result you want to achieve, effective communication is always essential!

Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship. Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing. You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make targeted breakthroughs, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them.

Balance Finally, for parents interfering in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings, we must stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, ourselves, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration. Sister Fei still hopes that everyone's love can be blessed by their parents, and they can be properly handled in the face of family interference, because love and family affection are very important.

There are certain aspects of the object that are not suitable for you, such as character, abilities, background, etc.

It's common to encounter such things in real life. There are three types of measures we can take.

1.Listen to your heart.

After listening to the advice of your parents, please listen to your heart, find out the real reason why you love him, and at the same time measure your inner expectations of respect, whether you are willing to hold the hand of your son, grow old with your son, and be brave enough to face the setbacks and pain that may arise in the future. If you still want to stick to your choice after listening to your parents' opinions, you can use your parents' opinions as a reference and use actions to persuade your parents.

2.Lovers understand and support each other.

Parental opposition is a great test of the relationship, and both parties are sometimes disappointed by it. Especially the one who is opposed, because he is not recognized and affirmed by the lover's parents, it is easy to question the relationship. The most important thing in the relationship is to understand and support each other and face difficulties together, which can not only warm up the relationship between the two, but also see a person's heart.

At the same time, two people facing it together with a positive attitude can also let your parents see your feelings and determination, and feel more at ease about your future. Slow down.

3.Take targeted action.

At the end of the day, it's your lover who your parents are against. Therefore, self-improvement of TA is quite important. In the face of the dissatisfaction of parents, try to change themselves, improve themselves, and use practical actions to work hard to change the future of the two.

The external transformation does not need to be talked about, the important thing is one's own ability. Geographical reasons can be dealt with in a compromise, the economy and education have to rely on their own real efforts, parents just want their children to live a happy and worry-free life, so the opposing party must learn to show their own value, even if it takes a long time, it is worth it.

First of all, you have to make sure that you are secretly in love with the other person, and that the other person loves you just as much.

If you are sure, figure out the reason why your parents disagree, and then tell your parents that the other party is good, and grind your parents more, and you should agree.