What is the best state for a breakup?

Emotional matters are difficult to explain clearly, and they are also the most difficult to let go. The depth of love, the depth of responsibility, and the stronger the hatred. As a result, love and hate are intertwined in the heart, and it is constantly incomprehensible. The deeper the obsession in my heart becomes. Sorrowful and speechless.

I particularly agree with the above paragraphI think most of us are ordinary people, and there may be unbearable memories of going around and around on the road of feelings, and two people may be happy when they are together, but when it comes to breaking up, unless they don't care about and don't invest in their feelings, there will definitely be some gaps and losses. So what is the best state to break up?

No love, no hate, no superfluous feelings.

If you are still angry with your ex and curse him for all the things he did to you when you were together, in fact, to some extent, you still haven't let go of him, but the breakup has been irretrievably realized, even if you can't let go, what can you do, keep in mind that you will only constantly punish yourself for not being able to devote yourself to other things in life in a good state or meet other better people.

I think it's best to forget about this person, not to forcibly erase it from your memory, but to leave it to time to fill your heart with more things than to hold on to the past.

Do not disturb each other.

If the two parties agree to continue to be friends after the breakup, in fact, this relationship is very delicateBecause you don't know if the other person is really dead to you, in this case, if you still want to greet each other and joke with each other like ordinary friends, no one can guarantee that one day one party will not be tempted again.

Summary. Therefore, the best state after a breakup is not to disturb the other person and try to forget about the other person. Try to return your emotional state to the time when you didn't have him in the first place, and continue to look for or wait for your next true love with anticipation.

Nowadays, young people can be very fast-paced when they fall in love, but if you don't like or even want to break up, how should you keep the best state to end the relationship? So let's discuss what is the best state of a breakup!

Break up peacefully - and then be friends

A peaceful breakup is actually an ideal state, and it is difficult for anyone to reach this state.

Why is it so difficult for people nowadays to break up peacefully? The main reason for this is the unfairness between men and women. Some people want to give you this and that to coax you when they are in love, but once you want to break up, there are always a lot of strange things that will make you exchange everything he once gave you and money for him?!

In the past two days, I saw a news about a woman breaking up with a man and being asked for more than 10,000 breakup fees, including various holiday gift money.

So, what can you do when you also encounter this kind of "talent"? I can only give money to someone, but I will definitely not get along with each other in the future.

So, we should keep it that way.

When two people are together, they are willing to pay for each other and do not ask for too much in return; When the two of you don't have much affection, you can think about the future for each other, since you don't love each other, being lovers together may not be the best choice.

So even if they are not lovers of each other, they can still be friends who help each other when they go out, and they can help each other when they are in need, but they will not deliberately make trouble for each other.

I think this is the best state of a breakup, it will not be the result of not getting along with each other, and we will smile and say hello when we meet each other, just like normal friends, there is no need to embarrass each other, and when there is a other half on the other side, you can also sincerely bless him.

After a peaceful breakup, we can still be friends, so I think this is the best state.

Falling in love is a breakup, and the final state is that he doesn't love you anymore, and you don't love him anymore. When you are in love, wait for your feelings about each other on the whole screen, and you can keep talking about the feeling between two people if you feel right, and the feeling between two people is the best time to break up. Because when you are in a relationship, you reach a period of fatigue, and at this time both parties feel that their feelings for each other are not so strong, and this is a time when it is easier to accept the fact of breaking up.

The reason why we talk about love is that a man has feelings for a woman, or a woman has feelings for a man, and then expresses their meaning to each other, and gets the approval of the other party, so that the activity of falling in love can be carried out. But when this feeling of one party disappears, the relationship between the two people is easy to break down, if when the feeling of two people disappears, then the relationship between two people is basically broken, since it has been broken, it doesn't matter if you break up.

When falling in love, both men and women prefer to stick to each other, if suddenly one party is unwilling to contact you, it means that one party has begun to get tired of this kind of love. At this time, you can take the initiative to break up and maintain a state of not getting along. It's just that he has no feelings for you, and you miss him.

If you continue to communicate in this situation, it is easy to cause a lot of damage to yourself, so you will not get along with each other.

Breaking up is a matter of two people, and it is best to be able to accept the reason for the breakup, otherwise it will hurt one of the first finches more, and the person who once loved it hurt her, which is a very cool thing, so it is better to say that if you want to break up, it is better to make the words between the two parties clear.

The best state of breaking up is definitely a peaceful breakup, so that we can get together and disperse.

A peaceful breakup is actually a mutual understanding of everyone and being able to bridge the bridge and filial piety, there is indeed no way to be together, and a consensus on breaking up has been reached, and after the breakup, you can still be friends with the draft.

When I was in a relationship, I think the best state to break up is, in fact, I think that state is to maintain a calm state. Calm.

When you fall in love and raise friends, the best state of breaking up is that both people choose to break up peacefully, which will not affect each other. Then, in this way, the two drafters will be able to accept the question very calmly.

The best state of breaking up is to accept yourself calmly, live your own life, and summarize what you have done badly in this relationship.

I think the best state of breaking up is that both of them are more rational and break up peacefully when they feel that their views do not agree or are inappropriate.

The best state of a breakup is to be able to quickly come out of the state of falling out of love. Able to interact with people in a friendly manner. Falling out of love doesn't affect your relationship.

When you are in love, the best state to break up is not to disturb each other, not to entangle and not to drag each other.

The best state of breaking up is not to disturb each other, and then quietly rent limbs to make yourself better and constantly improve yourself, but don't be humble and suspicious of your own luck.

The best state of a love breakup is to lose you and me, and you can live well, and we will not disturb each other's lives.

The best state of the split cover is that the two of them become strangers, live their favorite life of regret, do something they like to do, and will not be sad because of one person.

The best state of a breakup is that you can be friends after meeting, and you can greet each other without any scruples.

When talking about pretending to be in love, if you really have decided to break up, then at this time, you can break up peacefully and no longer entangle each other, which is also a good way to break up.

Breaking up when you are in love, in fact, there is no best state, the best dynamic is to continue to deepen the love for yourself and tolerate each other, which is equivalent to the real experience of living a life in the future.

The best state of a breakup should be that you can still be friends, and then you can continue to spend time together on a daily basis, and encourage you to face the future life together.

That is, two people do not contact each other, and they should not disturb each other's lives, and they should also let each other start a new life.

1.Find the right reason to break up.

Some of the reasons for breaking up are the feast gods that can't be said directly to the other party, such as rudeness, lack of warmth, lack of femininity, small heart, not **, etc. If you feel that the other person is good, but you can't be a lover, you can think of a reason gently and tactfully, and you don't have to hurt the other party. In case the other party has a violent temperament and is very face-saving, it is likely to go to extremes and threaten our personal safety, and we should think of a perfect plan according to the specific situation.

In addition, in order not to give the other person any room for reverie, the reason for breaking up must be short and strong. Don't hesitate because you're afraid of the other person, lest you mistakenly think that there's a chance to turn around. Xiaofang doesn't love her boyfriend anymore, but she's embarrassed to say it directly.

One day, her boyfriend invited her to dinner, and she hesitated and said, "We don't have the right personalities, and we will ...... in the future."Before she could say break up, her boyfriend said with a hippie smile: "I can accommodate you and accept your personality transformation, please believe that people will change."

Xiao Fang had nothing to say. As a result, this unsatisfactory relationship dragged her down for more than half a year.

2.Choose your breakup location carefully.

If the other person is emotionally out of control, they may move their fists when they hear us say that they want to break up, so we should choose the place of breakup carefully. It is best to choose the entrance of the other person's workplace, or the entrance of a large store and the cross street. There are many of these places, and there are police security patrols, which can prevent the other party from losing control of their emotions and causing harm to themselves.

Du Juan decided to break up with her boyfriend, and she chose the place where she met him for the first time - a street garden with a good view. She thinks the place is safe, however, she ignores that it's the place where they had a romantic plot. As a result, after she proposed to break up, her boyfriend begged each other hard, and he took advantage of the scene to talk about their sweet and chaotic times in the past, which made Du Juan unable to make a decision immediately.

Later, she got along with other men at the same time, and it was difficult to ride a tiger, and in the end, both men were offended. The location of the breakup may be more carefully considered than the reasons for the breakup, as it is difficult for anyone to accept being emotionally rejected.

3.Get the timing right.

Similarly, the timing of the breakup is also important and must be grasped well. We first need to figure out the other person's current situation: where is the other person's life?

Is the other person concentrating on their career? What is the effect on the other party if you break up? If we leave the other person because of his or her feelings, it doesn't matter when the time comes.

If this is not the case, and the other person is facing the risk of being fired by the company or other dangers, it is better to hold off on the breakup. We can distance ourselves and leave when they get back on their feet. In this way, there is not only the auspicious demeanor of everyone, but also to avoid the other party from pestering themselves again.

If we propose to break up when the other person's career is at a low point, financial constraints, and emotional depression, the other person may think that life is meaningless to him, and will gather all his resentment on the lover who proposed the breakup, and it is difficult for the person who has lost his mind to imagine what he will do.

For two people who have loved each other, love is the best memory, love, once have, you must learn to be content, why embarrass each other, let the beauty of the past change the taste. Memories are beautiful, let us cherish the trajectory we have walked and hold on to the existing happiness.

I think every relationship is unique and needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis whether it's worth continuing on. If a relationship has gone through a split and reunion, but both parties still love each other deeply and are willing to give and change for each other, then the relationship may be worth continuing. However, if the reason for the separation and merger is the incompatibility of the two parties' personalities, different values, poor communication, etc., then the relationship may need to be reconsidered.

When deciding whether or not to continue a split relationship, there are a few things to consider:

1.Whether the two parties truly love each other and whether they share common goals and values.

2.Whether the two sides can tolerate and understand each other, and whether they can resolve differences and problems.

3.Whether both parties have the will to change and grow, and whether they are able to give and change for each other.

4.Whether the two sides are able to establish a healthy relationship of communication and trust.

If all of the above aspects can be satisfied, then this split and united relationship may be worth burying and starving to continue. However, if there are problems with the above aspects, then the relationship may need to be reconsidered.

From now on, one is separated and two are wide, and each is fine. If it was a wrong start, it should be over early. In the future, you will hold your sweetheart, I will hold my hero, meet and smile, and know that it is best to be okay with each other. I hope you're doing better than I am.

2. For the rest of your life, one is different and two wide, the mountains are high and the waters are far away, and the sky is on one side. May you have a good friend to accompany you in the future, and I will have a strong wine to accompany you. Everyone is well.

3. This time, I'm gone, and I can't afford to take it for the rest of my life.

4. There are no regrets when you meet, no regrets in the past, since then, one farewell and two widths, the bridge returns to the bridge and the road returns, and each is fine.

5. From now on, one is separate and two are wide, each is well, and does not disturb each other.

6. Do more real things and let IQ return**. Concentrate, earn tickets, travel, and read more. What about the other love manuscript front hall understand me, stay; If you don't understand me, you will be fine, and it will be a sunny day.

7. May you, may I, from now on, one separate and two wide, each well, may I run away for three years, return to still have a place to live, may you fight for half a life, and finally can spread your wings here, you are infatuated and uninhibited, I have loved you.

8. One parting and two wide, and the rest of your life will be fine. Once I hugged you warmly and magnificently, and the rest of the life and death were slight, and I was not shocked. Let's go back to being friends, and there is no communication in the life of the two-line line.

9. There are no regrets when you meet, and there are no regrets in the past. Then one and two wide, each one is fine.

10. Boundaries are a good thing, but you don't have them, and you don't understand them. There's nothing left to save. I hope that one will be separated and two will be well.