I don t ask anyone for a gift anymore

What's so important about gifts?

My dad even forgot my birthday, he didn't call a **, although your boyfriend only bought you a sugar gourd, but you can't feel wronged! What do you want?

Fresh flowers? Diamond ring? Or do you want him to make some earth-shattering confession?

Even if it's to go to a dirty restaurant At least your mother accompanies you How many people in the world have lost their loved ones and can't solve the problem of food and clothing? Why do you have to complain so much?

I'm sorry, that's a bit too much, but that's what I really think, be content

Eat a sugar gourd, go to a bad restaurant and be happy?

What do you think you need to get a gift or a hotel to be happy?

Diamond ring? A five-star hotel?

Your boyfriend gets angry when you buy you a sugar gourd as a gift, which only shows that you are not true love! You will only pursue material life, and it feels like you have a strong sense of vanity. Tell you it's bad.

People who have never suffered just don't know what life is, what makes money, and what is suffering!

Do you know how many people can't go to school now? Can't eat?

Have you ever wondered how the children in the disaster area celebrate their birthdays? Have they passed?

It's funny that you have food and clothing and come here to complain!

Maybe you will say that I shouldn't talk about you, or even scold me, but I tell you, when your family encounters natural and man-made disasters and can't eat. Or when you go out alone to live in the right way for a few months, or when you go to a disaster area or live in the mountains for a few months, you will know that I am right to say you today, and then you will experience what life is, what it means to cherish, and what it means to be hard-won! These are also the best ways to change your vanity.

The gift is painful.

Actually, it's not that I don't want to send sometimes.

I really can't help it.

After all, we don't have the ability to make money yet.

Therefore, it is more practical to feel that in the student stage, it is still a gentleman's friendship, as light as water.

So it's understandable for your boyfriend.

It doesn't have to be a gift.

In fact, the most sincere blessings would be fine.

After all, we have our own environment that we find ourselves in.

As for your father's practice.

Quite a mistake.

Anger should not be done with a hand.

As for you saying that you asked your mother for gifts.

It doesn't matter if you give it or not.

Do you have to buy a gift for your birthday?

Says who. Wait until you can afford it.

It made more sense back then.

Don't be sad, I understand you, because you are disappointed in your expectations of gifts, so you can also give your share when the people around you need your gifts!

Conversely, have you ever given a gift to your mom, boyfriend, or someone else?

Actually, don't care if you have a gift or not! You can have this extraordinary birthday on your own!

Pain is comparative, and happiness is cherished.

The more you compare, the more unbalanced the psyche becomes.

The more unbalanced, the more troubles.

You don't really want a gift, but you want the love and respect that others bring to you behind the gift. This is what you really want.

If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't cry, tomorrow's beauty will still be yours. Relatives are busy with their own affairs (for example, parents are quarreling, that is a fierce way of communication for them, in the future you will understand after you have your own married life, this is called a real life, how can the dishes and chopsticks not bump?) What do you ask someone to do for you, but think about what I can do for them.

There is always a gap between what you think and what others do, and nine times out of ten in life is unsatisfactory. These are the inevitable experiences of everyone.

What you think is beautiful, and what others give you is cool. Don't be dissatisfied, that's life. When you complain about it, it will give you an unexpected surprise, and when you think very high of yourself, the life pair will give you an unexpected blow.

Therefore, after going through the wind and rain, people who still have fighting spirit always maintain a normal heart, do not like things, and do not feel sad about themselves. That is, the mind cannot be used as a servitude. Your heart should not be disturbed by the outside world, and your heart will be much calmer, and you will be able to have a clear goal, be stable and balanced, and you will be able to do whatever you do.

With all due respect, under the premise that you don't have the financial ability now, it is very logical for your boyfriend to send a sugar gourd, which is a down-to-earth behavior, he must not have his own strong financial ability, maybe he can't eat, drink and dress like you at the moment without the support of his parents, if he gives you 10,000 roses, he is not a billionaire and it is impossible, so you should not have too many ideas and expectations for the people around you that exceed reality. Most of your ideas come from other people, such as TV dramas or scenes and plots mentioned in other people's chats, etc., these are very far away from reality, and there is no need to apply them.

Who said that there must be a gift for a birthday, there must be a birthday cake, this is not a matter of course, but should be earned by sweat, and then it will taste sweet, easy to use, and happy to laugh. Feel useful, valuable, and capable. In the eyes of others, you have weight and deserve respect.

I won't have the feeling of an emotional beggar! Everything comes naturally, it should come, and it comes naturally!

Okay, I'm just going to make you happy, and you'll be able to see this kind of thing in the future. Your vision will be more mature in life!

Break a leg!!! Happy Mid-Autumn Festival!!

Friend, after seeing what happened to you, I can only say that the reason lies in you, you regard the [gift] too important, there are two kinds of gifts, one is intangible, the other is your so-called tangible gift, and your heart knot attaches too much importance to the latter, you know, your troubles, and all the depression are that you can't look at the word "gift" correctly!!

You know, I'm 23 years old, not to mention my boyfriend, my family hasn't given me gifts, I'm not just happy to celebrate my birthday, no gifts, can't I have my birthday as I wish??? 20th birthday, as a girl is a big deal, it happened that day to take the exam, dad came very early** and said, "Today my daughter has your birthday, calm down, come on", good luck! I am mindful and give my all to this exam ...

On the third day, when I learned that I had scored 87 points, I wanted to say that I would like to thank my parents for their kindness to me. With their support, my confidence has been greatly enhanced. That's the best gift for me!

Be more considerate of your parents, it is not easy for them to give birth to you and raise you, maybe you will not understand now, but when you become a parent, you will experience this hardship!! Let you understand what it means to be hardworking!! Well, be more considerate of your parents, be well-behaved, be sensible, you must know that in the second half of your life, their backer is you, come on!

Be more forgiving, when people are always impulsive, it's good to understand each other. A lot of things aren't necessarily as scary as you think.

It's really hard to understand the situation of the curcuma, because the curcuma and the curcuma are exactly the opposite type.

But I think that what others do is someone else's business, and you can't change others, so just be kind to yourself, in fact, there is no gift and nothing, then I wish yourself a happy birthday, I hope you are stronger, think more in an optimistic direction.

If you feel sad, you can listen to it.

Someone once asked you a similar question, and a well-known economist said, I don't know which one, it was the teacher who said it. Because people are reluctant to exchange their own value-added assets for other people's impaired assets. Specifically, a woman's beauty is not eternal, and every woman will slowly age, which is an impairment asset.

Furthermore, according to the law of diminishing marginal utility, a man looks at a woman for a long time, even if the other party is a knowledgeable and educated highly educated beauty, he will get tired of watching it for a long time; And a person's assets will not shrink for no reason, so men will not exchange their value-added assets for impaired assets, so they often use the method of renting, that is, go out and contract a small one.

Three, primary four... Although it is somewhat utilitarian, it is not unreasonable, after all, there are very few people in today's society who truly love each other and never abandon each other!

Damn, I didn't get it, why do you want to do so much.

First make sure she knows your birthday, and then see how you relate to her, if she doesn't know you care about her, she doesn't care.

Maybe he forgot, maybe he doesn't know you yet.

Sometimes it doesn't always pay off.

That means she doesn't care about you!

It's just a direct point, she is an ATM when you are a cash machine, you are a treasure when she is a treasure, unequal love is always painful, are you willing to continue to be the low-waisted one or re-raise your chest?

I don't think it's like to say it directly, communication is the only way to solve all problems.

If you love, you have to give, if you don't love, you don't even have a look, so if you love her, don't care about her attitude, as long as it's not intentional harm, it should be acceptable.

To put it bluntly, getting along is a long-term relationship, not relying on unilateral patience.

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You may feel that you are not romantic, virtuous future daughter-in-law, in fact, it is better to be more romantic before marriage, and then want to get married after marriage, now is the time to live for yourself, give him an unexpected New Year's gift.

I should tell my boyfriend: No matter what you send, as long as you send it, I like it! If your boyfriend is not in a good financial situation, tell him that the gift is just a thought, not about the price, and you are not allowed to buy expensive ones.

The days will be long in the future, this is your true thoughts, your boyfriend who understands you will think that you are very good at living, lack a little romance, and those who don't understand you will feel that you are not interested in him, and a little picky.

It's a matter of getting an object, you feel like a stranger when you say that, okay? If he sends you, you will accept it, and you will send it to him in the future, but if you say it to your face, no one is comfortable.

People who have no quality and no education will not be given away to save money, right?

He will think that you have a bad relationship with him and are strangers.

It should be said that you are doing the right thing.

Looks like you're still a student! You also have to look at the actual situation to think! There's something wrong with what you're dealing with!

You just shouldn't say it blatantly and loudly! Since you also know that your man has no money, you should call your man aside and ask! You said you still add some food!

This avoids embarrassment! As for your man's words, it really hurt your face!

It's better to talk to him, because communication is a good way to do it, and maybe he has a reason for doing it

One possibility is that he is really poor and has to borrow money from others to buy gifts.

The second possibility is that he doesn't love you.

The measure of love should not be singular, think about other aspects.

You just don't buy it, and don't pay it back, listen to me! Of course, this is not a cheating, but what he means! So you know that, right?

Ask for money back, or leave the gift for you, or ask for a gift.

Obviously, he wants his money back.

If you want money, if you don't have a lot of money, pay him back!

Love is such a thing, it is better to ask others than to ask your own heart.

What does this mean, isn't it normal?

It doesn't mean that she has it in her heart, it only means that she doesn't pay enough attention to it, or that she doesn't like to share it with you in the first place. You should consider other aspects to see if the feelings have faded.

Without you....Just ask; If your beloved sends you a gift; Will you order? Must be happy; I'm looking forward to a gift, right?

Maybe it's a gift you gave her, and she's not satisfied, maybe she doesn't want you to accompany her if it's not a gift! Don't think too much about it, she can have you in her heart!

Hey, you're thinking too much, maybe people are busy?

In fact, you know best whether people have you in their hearts!

Maybe she doesn't like your gift.

She has you in her heart, maybe she doesn't know how to express it.

Maybe it's in the trash. It's silly.