My mother was very opposed to me being with my girlfriend

Updated on society 2024-04-14
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1) Okay! Another lover who doesn't listen to the old man and suffers in front of him! You'll regret it for the rest of your life!

    2) When you face a budding girl and an old woman, this is the biggest test of your life choices, behind these two faces hide two different destinies, the old woman's face is no longer seductive, but every drop of blood in her heart will flow forever for you. The girl with the sprouts is an inappropriate choice made by your soul under the urging of sex hormones, and this inappropriateness can only be seen through by the sharp eyes of the mother next to you.

    3) If you have been married and the woman you have chosen has finished your little water, and you have to endure all kinds of hardships in life, you will remember why your wife will strongly oppose the reason. But then you are nothing more than a person who regrets it. Because time cannot be turned back, and it is difficult to recover when covered with water!!

    4) Please sit down with your mother and have a good talk about it, see why she is against it, see what she is worried about. This is the most important thing before you make a decision! The dog is not poor, the son is not ugly, and the mother is ugly, let's talk to the mother! She is your real backer!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Girlfriend must have defects Why does the mother object to you Have you figured it out The mother will not harm her son The mother's words should be analyzed and analyzed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After analysis, what is right should be resisted, and what is wrong should be resisted.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Calmly face the breakup facts.

    A good mindset plays a crucial role in the recovery process, and if you can adjust your mindset as soon as possible after the breakup, accept this fact, and have a comprehensive understanding of yourself, the recovery can be better.

    2. Understand your girlfriend's needs.

    Many men never understand the reason why women leave them after breaking up, so they can't find a breakthrough to recover, but in fact, women's needs are not much. It's just that you didn't give what she wanted, so your relationship came to the point of breaking down.

    3. Promote yourself and make new connections.

    After understanding your girlfriend's needs and the reasons for your breakup, you can start to reinvent yourself.

    4. Show your own ** value.

    After a breakup, if you want to regain the attention of the other party without appearing very deliberate, then the display of the circle of friends is a shortcut. What you have to do is something that can attract the other person and show the best value.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think I want to talk to his mother, ask him about the reason for his objection, I think you can use some of your practical actions, then your girlfriend's mother thinks you are worthy of trust, for example, your own work efforts and the care of your girlfriend can be changed, so that your girlfriend's mother can change.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My girlfriend's mother is against you being together, and the only way to make yourself better and more financially independent is to make yourself better. Be loving. Be temperamental.

    So that his mom can like you. Only two people who love each other can be together, as long as the other person loves you enough and likes you. You cannot be separated.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, if your girlfriend's mother is against you being together, then you have to think about a question in this case, that is, what is the reason for her mother's objection, generally speaking, you can continue to be together as long as you have enough confidence and persistence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think that my girlfriend's mother is against you being together, which means that she has some concerns. In this way, talk to the girl well, solicit the ideas of the girl's mother, and reflect on it yourself to see if you can meet the ideas of the girl's mother.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are several things you can do in the face of this situation.

    Clause. 1. Find out the reason for your girlfriend's mother's objection.

    Clause. Second, objectively evaluate yourself, do you really have many shortcomings, which makes your girlfriend's mother feel uneasy.

    Clause. 3. Don't go to the front and let your girlfriend communicate with your mother.

    Clause. Fourth, if it is your own problem, then it is a real change, so that your girlfriend's mother believes it, and you can rest assured that you will hand over your daughter.

    As long as the above points are not achieved, it can be basically recovered. If you don't believe me, you can try. Best wishes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your girlfriend's mom is against you together, you should first ask your girlfriend what her mom likes, and then according to his mom's liking, you have to do what she likes, be impatient, and coax his mom every day until his mom approves of you, and then your business is done.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girlfriend's mom is against the two of you being together. If you two truly love each other. Mutual understanding and mutual accommodation.

    It's easier too. You have to take good care of your girlfriend. The two of them work together to do both work and study!

    Especially to make a good life! On Saturdays, Sundays, and holidays, bring some gifts to my mother-in-law's house to see her old man's home. Express yourself well at your mother-in-law's house!

    Help the mother-in-law with cleaning, cooking, cooking, etc.! Over time, the mother-in-law will approve of you both!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, it depends on your girlfriend's own attitude.

    If she wants to give up, then you have a difficult task and you have to change your girlfriend's opinion first.

    If she is willing to work with you to convince her mother, then you have great hopes.

    Secondly, it is necessary to establish a more glorious image on the mother-in-law's side.

    Through your girlfriend and other key people, say a few more kind words on your mother-in-law's side, and you yourself have to fight for opportunities, meet more, behave more, and slowly be accepted!

    Finally, you must remember to figure out the real reason for your mother-in-law's opposition and solve the problem at the source.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If I'm going to have this problem, if that's the case. Since it's my girlfriend's mother who opposes us being together, how can we save this relationship? In my opinion, you must first do it, be good to her daughter, and then often go to buy some gifts and visit your girlfriend's mother, then after a long time, maybe your girlfriend's mother will be moved, and she may agree that you will be with her daughter, and she will not interfere with your interactions.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You first find out the reason, why he opposes you, whether it is because the family has no money, or because of something, and then you can impress her through your sincerity or your efforts.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your girlfriend insists on being with you like you, you have to talk sincerely with your girlfriend's mother to show your attitude towards your girlfriend, and if you want to ask your parents to come forward if necessary, your girlfriend's mother wants your attitude and your family's attitude. As long as your girlfriend is willing to be with you, her mom won't insist on it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your girlfriend genuinely likes you and really wants to be with you, then it's useless for your girlfriend's mom to object to you being together. If your girlfriend doesn't continue dating you after her mother opposes it, then it only means that he doesn't love you enough. If your girlfriend's will is vacillating, you can also use other ways to redeem it, such as finding someone he knows and someone you know to intercede for you, and you can come up with a high bride price to discuss the matter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My girlfriend's mother will always forgive and forgive you if you are together, it may be that you are not doing enough in some aspects, so you have to understand, please reason, please ask for your own quality, let yourself become excellent, so that his mother feels that travel with you is assured, and he will agree to be happy in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, you have to find out your girlfriend's attitude, whether she thinks you are a qualified partner, and then ask why your girlfriend's mother is against you being together, whether she agrees with you falling in love or getting married, and figuring out the crux of the problem can prescribe the right medicine, and then save the relationship.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your girlfriend's mother is against you being together, so you have to behave well and work more at your girlfriend's house, and you can buy some of your girlfriend's mother's favorite food when you go to your girlfriend's house. Let your girlfriend's parents feel that you are an honest and capable person who can entrust his daughter for life, so slowly your girlfriend's mother will agree to you being together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girlfriend's mom is against you being together. If you're really in love, your girlfriend will do the work with her mother. Give a little time, and if her mother sees that you are really in love, her mother won't say anything. Slowly, they will accept you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your girlfriend's mother is against you being together, if you want to redeem it, you must first talk to your girlfriend's mother, know the reason why she opposes you being together, and then tell her what you are working on to show that there is hope and hope for the future between you together, which is the right way to redeem yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Girlfriend's mom is against you being together. Then you should try to try to change yourself. Deficiencies in a certain aspect, show yourself better. Make your girlfriend's mom impress you. That way there will be no objection to you being together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Girlfriend's mother, anyway, you are together, see what the reason is, if you can change, try to change, and strive to make his mother like it, mainly depends on the relationship between you and your girlfriend, as long as you have a good relationship, her mother will accept you after a long time, as long as you treat your girlfriend well.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on what your girlfriend's mother is against you, and if it is material, you can show her that you are self-motivated and responsible, and try to get her approval. If it's family, you can also communicate with her. In short, it is necessary to find out the cause first, and then seek a solution.

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