What is it like to watch your peers outperform you?

You go around his glamorous state in the spotlight and see the one behind him, and you see that he also has his own price to pay.

Let my jealousy burn slowly until I start to control my jealousy and see what positive impact she can bring me!

There are a lot of emotions, any kind of success is not easy, when you bypass his glamorous state in the spotlight and see the one behind him, you will see that he also has his own price to pay, even a very painful price.

If the young man doesn't work hard, the boss will be sad "This is my mood at this moment, with a lot of thoughts, if only life could be done again."

Since when have you been at the end of your life, why haven't you noticed that the people around you have unconsciously surpassed you.

When I knew he was much better than me, the first thing I thought about was not how much he got more than me, but how much he gave more than me. So, from crying jealousy at the beginning, to laughing and envious.

I thought everyone was about the same, but in an unprepared moment, I was suddenly hit by a critical attack, and I suddenly felt that I had lost very completely.

Temperament is a very wonderful thing, and it manifests itself in many ways, such as people's words and deeds, conversation, thoughts, and even clothing. But some people always look more temperamental than their peers, because although they are of the same age, family education and environment will make these people naturally have a more outstanding temperament, and another reason is because some people pay more attention to the cultivation of acquired temperament and develop a good habit of words and deeds. Everyone's physiological state, family environment, and people or things they have been exposed to since childhood are different, so some people will look better than others.

But temperament can also be cultivated by the day after tomorrow, you can start from your own living habits, through training to sit and sit, stand and stand, walk straight waist, and good living habits, go to bed early and get up early, drink more tea and less coffee, will also make your temperament look better. Temperament is exuded from the inside and outside of the bureau, a knowledgeable person, a confident person, often more than a person with a temperament, and temperamental people, they generally behave mildly, have their own independent thoughts, temperament will also be exuded.

Some people will be anxious when they get older, at this time they should learn some ways to make themselves look younger, in addition to makeup, dressing is also a very important part, learn the right match, and naturally be able to look more temperamental than their peers. A woman with a temperament must first simplify the complex, simple and basic items must be kept in their wardrobes, the basic models can often express elegant and generous temperament, and the utilization rate of clothes will also be improved. Some white shirts or simple T-shirts will be very temperamental when worn on the body, although they seem to have no freshness, but they are actually very atmospheric.

Moreover, exercise, reasonable diet, and regular work and rest can also make us more and more temperamental. Exercise can make one's body more perfect, healthier and reasonable, diet can allow one's body to absorb enough nutrients, and the regular work and rest is to make oneself have enough mental temperament is a kind of self-confidence that a person exudes from the inside out. These may seem meaningless, but they can lead to unexpected gains.

She looks more temperamental than her peers, and a person's confidence comes from her financial independence. Financially independent, cultivate body and mind in the world of books, and improve temperament. Control your expression and don't always look impatient.

The first is that they know how to dress very well, because dressing has a great effect on the temperament of the whole person. Because the outfit is in line with your temperament, if you search for a shed, it will look very advanced with Hezhao.

They are better at dressing up, decorating themselves, and maintaining their own **, and they are more regular in all aspects of Sun Book's diet, so although they are people of the same age, it seems that Pi Kai is very different.

Some people always look more temperamental than their peers, they are better in maintenance, reading, knowledge, and emotions.

Ultraviolet pickpocketing line is the main factor that makes us call the code to blacken, and it is also the main reason for us to accelerate aging. This is why women who never do any sunscreen are much darker and older than their peers who are serious about doing sunscreen.

Yes, but it's because of this feeling that I need to force myself to keep going. <> excellent people around me will have excellent people I was in college, there were many people who said that I was "excellent", but in fact, I was not very good, but a little more self-disciplined than others, at the beginning of college, I got along with our roommates in the dormitory very well, but then I found that they didn't understand a lot of things I did, and even sarcastically said to me "What are you doing here", for example, I got up early to go to the library to read books, in fact, because I simply felt that reading was boring, I liked to read, But they would think that I was doing it on purpose, and they hardly got up early, they didn't have a morning in their day, and I really couldn't fit in, so I chose to go home. <>

When I talk to my friends about my own social relationships, my friends agree on this matter: "You can't get along with them because you are excellent", but many of my friends around me are also very good, and I have always felt that I still need to improve, and most of my friends are also this idea, so I conclude that when there are excellent people around you, it is because you are also excellent, and you can feel that other people are moving forward, which proves that you are self-motivated. So the next thing we should do is to put self-motivation into practical life, and that's it. <>

Step by step, a journey of a thousand miles, starting with a single step, no one can reach the sky in one step, just like when I first entered the student union, at that time I thought that it was a very distant thing to have a good relationship with the instructor and become a minister, but I still did it, just like before reading a book, we would think that the content of the book was difficult, but slowly, we will learn it, so don't think that other people are too good, you will be able to reach the same height one day, although we are not famous, Very good people, but as long as we keep moving forward, we will definitely become excellent people one day, come on.

I feel this way. When you see a lot of people your age who are better than you, you feel like you're powerless.

I feel that way, so I'm trying to change myself and get myself up to speed.

Because now you can often brush some peers on various short-** platforms, with a net worth of millions, a net worth of tens of millions, or through their own efforts for a year, they can reach a monthly salary of hundreds of thousands. And if you look at yourself again, you will feel useless, and you will feel that you can't keep up with everyone's pace.

Generally more mature and better than their peers, and generally they have experienced a lot of things themselves. In those things that you encounter, you will learn to deal with them, and you will slowly become mature.

People who are more mature and better than their peers are because they have put in more effort than other peers, they are harder than other peers, and they are more willing to endure hardships than any of their peers, because they know how to endure hardships in order to be superior.

The reason why he is more mature and better than his peers is that the effort he himself puts in is beyond your imagination, some are from poor families, and some are rich second generations, but the effort is definitely higher than that of his peers, because they have seen, learned, and done more things than any of their peers. It is not unreasonable to endure hardships in order to win people.

Because we have procrastination, because we can't self-regulate, so we don't succeed, that's cause and effect! Push yourself to stick to a few things. As long as you are determined to change, you will definitely be able to!

If we get rid of these problems, even if we still don't achieve much in life, it's definitely not bad.

When you're too tired from running, I suggest you stop and look back at the path you've run. Look back at the time when you were the fastest, find out why you ran so fast, and stick to it. Review why you ran the wrong way, remember the fork in the road, and next time, don't make a mistake again.

Remember those muddy roads, remember the rocks that tripped over you, recall the reasons why you ran down, remember what the end point you want to run to. Summarizing and reflecting on yourself regularly is a very effective set of tools. I suggest that at the end of each quarter, do a quarterly review of everything you've done in the last three months, summarize your accomplished and unfinished goals, find out how successful you can repeat them, and identify the decisions that stuck you at an impasse.

Summarizing and reflecting, it is really a great gift from God, make good use of it, prepare for the next quarter's plan, and then, again, summarize and reflect, and you will become a better person.

Plans can't keep up with changes, and it's too ideal to have a firm grasp of your own life development. Those who are powerful to you, I guess most of them don't think they can reach the heights they can reach until they reach this state of power.

People who are more mature and better than their peers must have strong self-discipline, have a stronger will than their peers, and will work harder for their dreams and goals.

I was exposed to things in society earlier than you, and I experienced a lot of things, so I did it naturally.

I don't want your life to be idle, and I don't want you to be able to admire or envy the achievements of others. You don't have to compare yourself to others, but there are always too many people who will push you to the table of comparison, and I don't think you want to lose too ugly. Life is a wonderful thing, you can't choose where you come from, but you can decide your future.

Indeed, in terms of big data, children from wealthy families are more likely to succeed and have more resources to make them better, but mature and excellent people, whether they are rich or poor, they have similar advantages. For example: self-discipline, rationality, perseverance, love of learning.

While you are still young, quit bad habits, don't regret when you are old that you didn't develop good habits when you were young, didn't work hard, if you want to become a more mature and better person than your peers, you must give more.

Having ideas and plans is important, execution is the key to achieving all this, and the problem for many people is that they think too much and do too little.

Zuckerberg has set a goal every year since eight years, such as learning Chinese in 2010 and reading a book a week in 2015. Learn to make a monthly, weekly, and daily plan, make a to-do list for the next day before going to bed every day, divide the order of execution according to the importance and urgency, and reasonably allocate the time for the completion of the plan for each thing, and then implement it. Every day, you should also look at your own situation, make adjustments according to the actual situation, don't overestimate your efficiency, sometimes, you really can't accomplish so many things in one day, you have to face yourself.

Finally, you need to know how to plan your life. Whether it is the development of your career path or your personal pursuit, you need a ten-year, five-year basic plan, and then it must be refined to the year, quarter, month, week, and day, which is an extremely perseverance thing, and perseverance is only one of the most important things. You also need more professional training, more reading, a healthier body, clearer logic, and more demanding self-requirements, and more in the right direction.

Only those who are self-disciplined can achieve true freedom, and only healthy people can see the final victory. Many people are often unable to persevere for a long time, not because their willpower is not strong enough, but because their bodies are lit up with a red light. Maintaining exercise, regular work and rest, and healthy diet are the foundation for you to become excellent, and most people who do not exercise, have a disordered schedule, and have an unhealthy and irregular diet are immature people.

The reason why many successful people have a healthy lifestyle, ensure sports and fitness, and pay attention to health is not because they are fitness enthusiasts or nutritionists, but because they are rational enough and know too well what they want, and they know that only a strong and healthy body can ensure the efficient operation of the brain. The vast majority of people do not have a high-quality 8-hour working day, and many people work overtime every day, but the real effective working hours are only three or four hours, or even less.

If you keep a healthy body, a clear mind, a reasonable plan, and 8 hours of high-quality work, it is enough for you to become the 20% of the "28 principles". Take good care of your body, take good care of your stomach, it's time for you to mature, and stop destroying your health willfully.