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Everyone hopes to meet the right person in love, and hopes that the person I love will also love me, but not everyone can do it.
Lucky people will directly meet the destined person, and there are many people who will experience the situation of not being able to love, maybe you have chased him for a long time, you have paid a lot for him, but you just can't get his heart.
At this time, it is naturally helpless and powerless, but the person you love doesn't love you, what a sad thing!
But then again, it's really not to blame him, it's to blame yourself, if a person doesn't love you, you can feel it, it's just that you don't want to admit it, you still want to try what will happen if you continue, will it move him, or it will be different after a long time.
And in fact, the person who loves you, his words and deeds will reveal his love for you, and the person who does not love you, no matter what you do, he will be indifferent, stop deceiving yourself!
He says he loves you, but he never cares about how you feel.
What to like; knew that she didn't like to watch art exhibitions, but he dragged her to accompany her parents to watch the exhibition to show respect; I knew she was sick, but I didn't know to rush over to accompany her.
In fact, from these performances, it can be seen that no matter how much you give, he will not respond.
What is the most feared thing in a relationship? It must be that one party pays, and the other party does not respond at all, just like when you talk to the other party, but he never replies, then your mood must be very disappointed!
Sometimes, don't always be moved by yourself, don't think that as long as I pay, I will get something in return, love is the most unreasonable thing to talk about, it is likely that you give everything, and you can't get a thank you from him, at this time you should understand what he means: he doesn't love you!
Self-touching in love is a very silly act, and usually it will only move you and not the other person.
He is with you, not necessarily because he loves you, it may be that you love him, he is with you, love or not, you can feel it, the person you don't love, no matter how much you give, he doesn't have any response.
If you understand this, stop giving stupidly, love without a response is destined to have no results.
Love is not about one accommodating the other, but about evenly matching, and both parties can give willingly for each other. ”
If you know that the person you love doesn't love you, then quit calmly, don't struggle in the love that doesn't belong to you.
Barely can not be happy, if a person does not love you, you can not force it, instead of entanglement, it is better to live your own life, you have to understand that a person can also live a happy life.
Love is not everything in life, if you love the wrong person, then let go and wait for the right person to appear, he doesn't love you, you can feel it, don't deceive yourself, don't continue.
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In love, your lover may have only one role, and it is enough to give love. But in marriage, your lover is not only a lover, he or she must also play other roles, so the responsibilities of both spouses include a lot, care for the partner, education for the children, and support for the elderly. As a man, sometimes he has to love you and care for you like a father; Sometimes he has to be like a confidant who can read you and know your heart; Sometimes he has to be naughty and cute like a son and bring you innocent pleasure.
Women are the same, in addition to being wives, sometimes they should be like a red face, sometimes they should be like a mother, and sometimes they should be like a daughter.
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Because girls are becoming more and more realistic now, handsome can't be eaten as a meal after all. In addition to being a star and passing on handsomeness to children, in addition to bringing others a good mood, it has no effect on themselves. This is actually a misconception.
Therefore, a handsome man is not necessarily happy.
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This shows that most girls are still very rational and know what kind of life they want and what kind of person they want.
A boy's temperament and sense of responsibility are often more attractive than a good-looking face, and with a person with good character, you will be much more relaxed, because he knows his responsibilities, without your urging to say, he can take the initiative to do it himself, and do things very well, so who doesn't want to have a boyfriend with good character and strong sense of responsibility!
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Because the sense of character and responsibility is a person's inner beauty, which can bring a sense of security to girls, which shows that girls value a sense of security.
And the face, that is, the appearance, is only an external beauty, only a pleasure for the senses, and does not bring people a sense of security.
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Everyone's preferences are different, and falling in love with a person often pays more attention to character and responsibility, the face will change over time, and the character and sense of responsibility are cultivated through the family, you can know his family environment, and better be responsible for each other.
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It is very normal for girls to fall in love without looking at their faces, their faces will age sooner or later, and it is a man with a sense of responsibility who accompanies a woman all her life, not youth, and a man has a sense of responsibility to make others feel more secure.
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Why don't some girls look at their faces? When you fall in love, you look at the boy's character and sense of responsibilityWhy do some girls not look at their faces, and when they fall in love, they look at the boy's character and sense of responsibility? Because the character of a man is more important, the person with a long face has a good character, has no sense of responsibility, and is not good for himself, in the future.
There will be no happiness, only boys with a sense of responsibility who are good to themselves. Only boys with good character will be good to themselves in the future, and they will have greater development prospects.
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The goddess's standard for pursuing love is not to say. No, I think this pursuit is also very reasonable. If the good-looking boy is, if hers.
If you don't have a strong moral character or sense of responsibility, naturally no one likes it. This also indirectly shows that the standards for girls to pursue love are different. Some like handsome and handsome.
What about those who don't pay attention to character and moral character? Focus on moral character, character and. Nature.
I think the latter is right.
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It's a smart and mature approach. Because can you eat it as a meal by looking at your face? Can it be reliable?
The face will age, and it can be modified by makeup and plastic surgery, which are all external and cannot give you any guarantees. And a boy has a good character and a strong sense of responsibility, which can give you a certain sense of security, which is a basic premise for happiness. It's still more reliable to fall in love like this.
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There is some truth in what you said, I thought that no matter how good you looked, you have no sense of responsibility and don't like him, then he won't look for you, that is to say, find someone who loves her, someone who loves her, you like him, so that you can live together, that is, no matter how good you look, you don't eat or drink, so I said. I have to do it myself.
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I don't look at my face, I may just say that the man looks average, not very ugly, and people who contact me say that I have a good character, self-motivated and responsible, but people introduce me to almost twenty, and they all talk about it at a glance, which is so realistic, because I look really ugly, and I am busy with my career every day, and I don't pay attention to my appearance.
Later, a friend of mine gave me an image design, and asked me to do what he said, introduce a few more and say that I am willing to understand, but I think it is quite awkward.
Later, I found a girl who had poor family conditions, could endure hardships, and usually didn't wear makeup.
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In fact, the most admirable view of love is to look at character and sense of responsibility, and it is unreliable to only look at the face.
Of course, if a man has both good looks and many good qualities, then it is best to be a boyfriend.
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Such a girl is mature, maybe she has experienced a bad past, such a girl is generally a treasure girl, you should cherish it, you don't have to worry too much, be more careful in life, be kind to her.
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I think such a girl is very good, she may be more lacking in love or insecure in life, and even sometimes a little inferior.
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Such a girl is very smart, has a clear view of life, and knows what she needs.
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I think such girls are more intelligent.
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Because the face is useless, only one person has a sense of responsibility, there is a trembling thought, together can be a long-term hole, looking at the face is a momentary sight, only appreciate a person and character, this dilemma is the longest.
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Not all boys look at their faces, some boys pay more attention to the quality of girls, and beautiful girls can't fall in love in real life because they are too demanding, or because they are beautiful, so the standards are high.
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Boys don't all look at their faces, and they have a certain advantage in having a high appearance at the beginning, but they still rely on their personality and three views when they get along for a long time. Beautiful girls don't fall in love because they haven't met the one they like.
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I think most guys really look at faces, because most beautiful girls just want to make money.
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I don't think all boys look at their faces, but most of them look at their faces first, but they also have to look at themselves, because these girls are good-looking is also an advantage, and they also have a lot of choices.
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I think it's all about faces.,Beautiful girls have the advantage.,But if you find a beautiful girl, you'll find happiness.,That's the person who didn't find him behind him silently.。
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That's the way most of the time, if you get to know each other and get to know each other, you will feel the beauty in your heart.
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Turn off the lights, 13 all look the same.
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Of course not.
More objectively speaking, appearance is only the first step, appearance is favorable, it will naturally bring "good feelings", but "good feelings" cannot logically evolve into love. Whether love can be achieved or not, two people have to explore slowly.
The three views are very important, the character is very important, and some other seven-seven-eighty-eight are also very important, if it is only because of a face together, this relationship is probably also a childish tragedy.
Looking at the face is just the skin, but love can't just pay attention to the fur, love is a long-term proposition, you need to go a long way, and the setbacks and joys encountered on the road must be borne together.
The person who really loves you will not only love your face, because he knows that two people have to go on forever, and it is really not enough to rely on your face. It's just those who don't care about the ending, so they have to worry about your face.
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I think boys still attach great importance to their looks when choosing girls to date, after all, this is an era of looking at faces, and looks often determine the size of a person's charm, and the first thing boys see when they contact girls is also the looks of girls, and a sweet appearance is easy to attract the opposite sex. Every boy wants his girlfriend to be beautiful all day long, which is a pursuit of beauty, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Why are those good-looking girls more likely to be treated like stars and moons, and it is easier to have a large number of suitors around them, not because they are more good-looking and meet the public's aesthetic standards. It is everyone's nature to love beauty, whether it is a boy or a girl, they will treat their appearance to a high standard. Of course, when choosing a girlfriend, although appearance accounts for a large proportion, it does not determine everything, and personality is crucial.
Looks are innate, they are given by their parents and cannot be changed, those who have become what people call male gods and goddesses through plastic surgery are actually unnecessary, these phenomena belong to the influence of paying too much attention to appearance. Indeed, looks can bring you certain advantages, and many professions also need people with excellent looks to be competent, isn't the purpose to better serve the public? In fact, a person's heart can often be seen through the face, take my parents, they often tell me:
In the future, if you have a girlfriend, you only need to let them know what type of girl she belongs to and whether it is in line with our family traditions, so you can see a lot of things by her appearance.
There is nothing wrong with a boy pursuing a girl's appearance, if you blindly pursue your appearance, it is easy to go into a misunderstanding, the other party is good-looking and you can be very happy every day, but the girl who looks the opposite is still terrible.
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Looking back on all the realities of life that I have personally experienced, I find that getting along with people is really very realistic. Those righteous and awe-inspiring people are usually a very small part, such as interests, and appearance. Although these are vague terms, they are often very valued by us in this real society.
In the interaction between people, I think the first thing I look for is the appearance, of course, this is for the first time to meet people. However, in my opinion, only after a deep understanding of each other, such a long-term relationship brewed through the run-in of time is even better.
I think that the first thing that today's boys look for when they choose to date girls is their appearance. Because not only boys, but also girls, the male god in the hearts of our female compatriots, of course, the most important thing is handsome, which is enough to settle in this position in our hearts.
For example, if I'm single. I have a partner to date with through the introduction of others, so when I meet for the first time, the first thing I look for is the right appearance and overall temperament. Because before that, I didn't know anything about the other party at all, I didn't understand the personality, and I didn't understand the mental activities of the other party.
Therefore, you can only give a temporary definition to the other party by initially revealing your appearance.
If the other person has a better appearance, then the first impression will make you want to communicate with the other person. But if the first impression of the other person is not good, then the next situation is obvious.
Therefore, I think that boys and girls are the same nowadays, and the first sight must be that the other party's appearance and the temperament of the whole person can attract them. Walking on the street now, you will find that often beautiful women are more able to get the attention of others, and you can't help but let people take a few more looks.
Maybe it's a sign of love for you. Hehe. Of course, if you already have feelings. If girls say boys are naïve at the beginning, it is estimated that the chances of you becoming a boy are very small. So, change yourself!
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