Why do girls say boys are na ve when they are in love?

Maybe it's a sign of love for you. Hehe. Of course, if you already have feelings. If girls say boys are naïve at the beginning, it is estimated that the chances of you becoming a boy are very small. So, change yourself!

Sometimes she's not happy with what you're doing, and thinks that children do that, so you're naïve, don't take it as a compliment...Women like mature men, and it's often said that it's naïve, and your relationship is in danger.

Because girls don't like children?

The boy just wants to be loved by the girl, and thinks that the girl will think he is cute.

That's because inexperienced boys will always lose themselves in love, and you will love that woman so much that you forget yourself. It's not great for women, it's stressful. It's not that love is bad, but because you haven't mastered that degree, people feel clingy, and if you have nothing to do, you will think you're naïve.

Can you imagine a person who is passionate about you every day, do you suffer it? How do you respond? Therefore, boys need to draw their attention from girls back to themselves, improve themselves, appear stable, don't put too much pressure on girls, and love needs to be reflected in the subtleties in life.

I wish you happiness.

Because I want to be more mature and more secure!

A game for the little ones and a game for the adults?

There is a saying that goes like this: When he likes you, you think a man is very naïve, but once he doesn't like you, he can be more mature than your father. The meaning is that when a man is attracted to you, the man will behave very naïve, and even you can't stand that childish behavior and think he is stupid.

But that's the magic of love, which is capable of making sane people crazy and mature people naïve, like polar poles, and love is the catalyst for these transformations.

The man who really loves you will have these naïve performances, you don't think that this is because he is not mature enough, this is a manifestation of his deep affection for you, I hope you can understand a sincere heart under his childish performance.

It is not easy for a heart that loves you, and a person who behaves naïve to you actually loves you deeply in his heart and hopes that you can grasp him.

When a man is attracted to you, it will be like an overturned vinegar jar. He will be extremely wary of all the guys who appear around you, even if you think that you are just in a normal relationship with that man, but he will still be suspicious, and no matter how you explain it, he will not listen.

It's like when you were a child, you found out that your best friend was playing well with other people, and you would feel very depressed. If a man is in such a situation, he will have such a state of mind. Sometimes, he himself knows that you have nothing to do with that man, but as long as he sees you chatting, he feels uncomfortable.

He won't tolerate anyone watching you, even if it's just a thought that remains in his heart, after all, only a man knows men best, and he can guess the thoughts of any man who comes close to you.

When a man has his heart set on you, he will show off his abilities like a child. If a man likes you, he will want to make a good impression in your heart, he will show off his ability and knowledge in front of you like a child, no matter anything, he can judge it and show his knowledge, but in fact, this looks like a child's performance to you.

This kind of behavior is as childish and ridiculous as a child saying what I have in my house, what toys I have in my house.

Far from making you think he is very knowledgeable, it makes him more and more funny.

But if you think he's naïve and ridiculous because of this, you're underestimating men, who only show their knowledge in front of the people they like, and they don't pay a word to others when they say a word.

When a man is attracted to you, he will be coquettish and pretend to be pitiful like a child. Don't think that coquettishness is exclusive to women, in a man who loves you, they also have coquettish behavior towards you, and they will also have coquettish emotions when expressing their emotions.

It is said that when a man falls in love with a woman, he becomes a child, and his childish side will only show up in you.

Many girls around me said that they chose to be with their boyfriend at that time because they liked his maturity and stability, and felt that they would be very happy with such a man, but after falling in love, they found that their boyfriend was naïve like a child in front of them?

There has been a saying circulating on the Internet that a man will behave like a child in front of the woman he loves. In fact, this sentence has a psychological basis, a man shows naivety in front of you, and is still mature and stable in front of outsiders, which shows that this man loves you, and he takes off his disguise in front of you and lives with a more relaxed lifestyle.

Now in this society, everyone wears a mask to behave, if a man behaves very naïve in front of you, at least it means that he trusts you quite a lot, and is not afraid to be embarrassed in front of you because of naivety, if you meet a man who arranges everything for you, but you can never guess the local mind, you will understand how rare and valuable this kind of naivety is.

Girls are generally not complained about being naïve, because Chinese culture originally allows women to be weak, but for men, this kind of performance just shows that the other party is really invested in it, and believes that the relationship between the two of you is stable, so that this kind of love is very interesting, and you can go on for a long time.

The degree of childishness of a person in love can almost be used as a criterion for judging whether a person is committed to love, this behavior is normal and extremely needed, and it can help us to adjust psychologically. For example, if a father plays with his children like a child and goes crazy with his children, do we think that this father is mentally abnormal? Or do you think this scene is heartwarming?

In addition to the above becoming naïve, there are actually many changes. For example, when people become lazy, before they fall in love, they wash their clothes and smelly socks by themselves, and after they have a girlfriend, they give these things to their girlfriends to do, this is not lazy or anything!

I don't like to be alone anymore. After the boy falls in love, he understands the importance of having a close friend, although he usually makes noise, but as long as he leaves the other party, or the other party does not contact him for a long time, he will feel very lonely, and always feel that he is missing something!

After falling in love, boys will become more and more patient and tolerant, love can make men naïve, and the same will make a man mature, in front of some big things, he will be more responsible, when you face problems, he will have the ability to deal with it, and can also tolerate your little temper!

Some girls think that the signs of childishness and maturity are the outward behavior of a person. It's not really a boy's problem, it's called a girl's stereotype.

For example, some girls think that a boy who smokes is mature, which sounds ridiculous at first glance, but the reason is easy to understand. Maturity is subconsciously akin to patriarchy, and stereotypes of fathers, especially in our previous generation, are often shared with this stereotype.

Of course, this is just a small detail, but it is not difficult to know that the maturity that girls usually talk about is not the same as the calm that men understand when they have a strong heart, and they are likely to say that you have a taste in dressing, tone of voice, and even habit.

In turn, what boys perceive as maturity is mostly a change in psychological sexual characteristics, mainly reflected in the attitude of thinking, solving problems and facing problems. As for the details of life habits, boys think that the practice of deliberately destroying their own self is called pretending. A few buddies are together, no matter how mature they usually are, how stable they look, once they are relaxed, they can go to grandma's house naively, but this does not mean that they will immediately avoid and cry when they encounter problems, on the contrary, they will think about how to solve them.

When facing a girl, he will only show naivety if he confirms that you are safe enough to make him relax, otherwise the kind of "pretending" you see is just a social rhetoric.

In the final analysis, the maturity that women demand from men is essentially an underlying cult of patriarchy in the heart.

To put it simply, the way for boys to pursue security is to strengthen themselves, and the way for girls to pursue security is to find a man who strengthens them. Therefore, what women's rights should really awaken is actually a kind of self-reflection of women's blind worship of patriarchy.

You, like men, are able to solve problems on your own and create your own wealth.

Because of the different thinking, boys are rational and direct, girls are emotional and tactful, in short, in terms of feelings, boys think more simply, girls are too emotional, and many aspects of feelings are imperceptible to boys, so they will naturally feel that boys are naïve. Don't force others to do what you can't do, impose it on others, only yourself can be relied on, and you can understand yourself best. It's really not that boys are naïve, but the difference in the division of labor between the sexes, which determines that when facing problems together, men naturally stand on the role of solving problems.

At this time, if the man solves the problem, or finds a way, learns, even if he does not deal with the problem perfectly, this attitude will make people feel that the man is very reliable. And if this man can't solve it, and he doesn't think of a way and learn, he will even say "I won't, what do you want me to do." "It's more panicked than women, of course, it's very disappointing, not only women will feel so, but also individuals.

In daily life, men and women pay attention to their hobbies and hobbies, and the content of life is different. Men hunt for curiosity, like the unknown, play games, sports, and go out to play. Women may pay more attention to life, even if it is shopping and makeup, they are all things that can improve themselves, men are focused on the outside, and women are more concerned about the inside, so women are better at self-improvement.

As a result, this kind of man who "does not want to make progress and does not see growth" gives women a childish feeling. There is also a saying that when a man doesn't love you, he is more mature than your father, and men's linear thinking determines that when a man focuses on doing something, he is very able to do the ultimate, and many times a woman sees immaturity that means she doesn't care, he doesn't understand, it's not that he won't, it's just too lazy to do it. In fact, there is no one in this world who is born with the same heart, maybe you feel that the other party is immature, and some places are not good enough, then please communicate well, I believe that if a person loves each other, it will grow and change for each other.

Of course, it's not anyone's fault that you missed it, fate plays tricks on people like this.

Why do girls think boys are naïve when they are in love? This question is mainly divided into three aspects!

1. Physiologically speaking, the positioning of men and women is different. Boys in love, or in other words, in preparation for marriage, always undertake the task of inheritance, but in the responsibility of taking care of offspring, it is dominated by women, so there are boys after having children, they should still eat and play, and the responsibility of taking care of children falls on women, so boys in love will appear naïve.

Second, because of the physiological differences, there are also great psychological differences. In marriage, especially after having children, women will be meticulous, meticulous, nervous and worried, and wholeheartedly, so there are cases where men are asleep.

Third, because of these differences, the tasks of the two are also different. Women are more delicate and therefore take on the responsibility of taking care of the family, while men are more powerful and therefore take on the responsibility of earning money to support the family, and because the tasks are different, the roles they play are different?!

For the above reasons, the essence of men and women is different, and love is only the initial manifestation of this difference!

In fact, this feeling can be felt by both men and women, and some girls will be as coquettish as children, such as asking their boyfriends to buy delicious gifts and so on.

In terms of emotion, girls mature earlier, while boys tend to be later and duller. In addition, most families are now only children, and the requirements for boys are not very high, more or less lack of independence, lack of manhood, and even emotionally like children It is inevitable.

This can't be regarded as a shortcoming, it can only be said that there is too little experience, and it is not mature, of course, it is rare to see a childish old naughty boy all his life.