What behaviors do children have that need to be corrected?

As a parent, what I look forward to most is nothing more than hoping that my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix. In reality, many children have also been approved as "other people's children" since childhood, and are known as a symbol of excellence and intelligence. For example, if a child is very sophisticated and his relatives smoke, he immediately turns on the lighter to help light a cigarette; Or if you make a mistake, your family will also praise you

This kid has a sweet mouth and is smart, and he will definitely be amazing when he grows up."

Other people's compliments may be sincere or casual, but parents love to hear them, and perhaps they do think so in their hearts. But in fact, some of the children's performances are precisely crises, and it is difficult to be productive when they grow up.

1.Love to be smart

Many people think that being smart is also smart, and they will definitely make a difference in the future. Although such children have active thinking and many ideas, they also prefer to be opportunistic, and once they form a habit, it is easy for people to lose their ability to work hard and become lazy in the long run.

If you try to get everything by your own cleverness, you are likely to go astray in the end. Having said that, if you are guided correctly, it can also become a kind of innovation ability, which requires parents to do their homework.

2.If you make a mistake, you don't admit it, and you love to shirk your responsibility

Some children make mistakes but refuse to admit them, and they find all kinds of reasons and excuses. Parents must not think that such children are "smart", to be precise, this is evading responsibility, and if they are not corrected in time, most of them will suffer in the future.

If parents do not correct a small mistake in time, the child will make a bigger mistake in the future, and it will be out of control. Therefore, parents should not be misled by superficial phenomena, if they really love their children, they should teach them to change their mistakes, instead of making excuses to shirk, otherwise they are likely to be unproductive when they grow up.

3."Unclean hands and feet", like to lead sheep

As the saying goes: "Steal needles when you are young, and steal gold when you grow up". Children do not have a sense of "property rights", they feel that what they like is their own.

As parents, it is not right to cultivate a sense of ownership in your children as early as possible, so that they understand that everything must be exchanged for equal value, and you must not take it away if you like it. If children understand what is their own and what is someone else's from an early age, they will naturally not do things like "stealing chickens and touching dogs" when they grow up.

If your child has the above manifestations, as a parent, you must give guidance and correction in time, don't let the child's negative personality become more and more inflated because of negligence, and become a mediocre or even disliked person in the future.

If a child behaves unreasonably, it needs to be corrected in time. In this way, children can develop good habits.

When a child has swearing, as a parent, we must correct it in time, because this will affect the child's future life and cause a bad influence on the child's heart.

Your child is a picky eater, so you have to correct it. If your child only eats some meat, then you should not skip a vegetarian diet, which will cause serious constipation.

I think that when a child behaves impolitely, or has an emotional outrage, or beats up another child, it needs to be corrected in time.

1. Timely communication: Parents should pay attention to the reasons for their children's bad behaviors in their daily life, communicate with their children in a timely manner, guide their children to express their inner feelings in words, and clarify their children's inner demands. It can allow children to express themselves correctly when they encounter related problems in the future, so as to prevent the occurrence of more bad behavioral problems;

2. Educational correction: Children like to hit and scold, or often drop things, and have a more irritable temper, which may be closely related to the family environment. Parents should set a good example for their children in their daily life, and try to communicate with their children in a peaceful manner when correcting problems;

3. Psychology**: If the child has serious behavioral problems, such as repetitive and stereotyped behaviors, or has problems with self-talk, timidity, unsociability, etc., it may be related to mental and psychological diseases, such as autism, ADHD, etc.

For example, lying, being rude, being addicted to electronics, and having aggressive behavior, these are all things that need to be corrected in time.

I think that if a child has a lying behavior, once there is a vain behavior, and there is a particularly impolite behavior, we must correct the child in time.

I think that if a child has the behavior of lying, once there is a behavior that cannot control his emotions, aggressive behavior, and the behavior of indulging in video games, he must stop it in time.

1.Empathy, the specific methods are: listening to the story, guiding understanding, continuing the story, playing a role, etc.

Role-playing is similar to role-playing, which is to let children play a certain role, and express the characteristics of the character through words, behaviors, postures, movements, expressions, etc., so as to experience the psychological feelings of the character in certain situations, and then be able to respond appropriately when encountering similar situations in real life. Practice has proved that empathy is a very important social emotion, which contributes to the perfection of personality and the formation of pro-social and pure closed-minded behavior.

2.Role models Parents and teachers are role models for children to learn by direct imitation. Educators are good at what they say they will do.

Cultivate good social behavior in children. At the same time, it is necessary for educators to choose good role models for children, for example, to recommend some good ones to children.

Extracurricular readings, movies, etc.

3.Utilize the principle of attribution to reinforce correction and observational learning.

4.Praise and rewards.

5.Organize gaming activities.

Introduction: If a child has bad behavior, parents should stop the child's behavior. While stopping the child's behavior, parents should tell the child how to correct it in the future.

When parents see their children behaving badly, do not immediately reprimand them, but understand the reasons why they are doing so. If the child is not good, parents can also help the child, so that the child can get a correction and let the child understand what to do. If parents always scold their children, it will also make children have low self-esteem, and some children are easily influenced, and parents will tell their children what to do.

If the child will chirp when he or she eats with others, the child will imitate it, and if the child will chirp when he gets home, the parent can tell the child that this is not right. Slowly correct, the child will know what to do, and slowly improve the child's understanding in life. Some children think they are very good, and they imitate a lot like what kind of rules parents must tell their children.

If parents don't want their children to behave badly, they need to lay a good foundation for them and take the time to help them develop good habits. If the child does not follow the rules at school, the parents should tell the child what kind of punishment will be received, and contact the child's teacher to interact with the child if the child has bad behavior, and the parent should help the child. Some children develop bad habits, parents let children know that this is wrong, if the child likes to shake the legs, parents should also tell the child that this is impolite behavior, let the child know what polite behavior is.

Children will imitate their parents' actions, and if parents like to interrupt others during meals, children will also imitate their parents' actions. Some children don't know whether it's right or wrong, and parents can also tell their children what to do when there is such a thing, so that they can know how to establish a correct understanding in the future, and let the child explore it on his own.

Parents should use the right way to correct their children's behavior, and they should also guide their children's thoughts, and they should also give their children some correct comfort so that they can understand that this practice is wrong. The child's misbehavior should also be stopped.

Parents should educate their children in the right way, and they should also establish correct social concepts for their children, so that children can understand the correct three views, and they should also make their children have a sense of morality.