Whether to maintain the status quo or break up urgently

You can think like this to show that you are very kind, but this will not solve the problem, you have the right to pursue your own happiness, you can't wronged yourself for so long for a person you don't like, and leave behind other people who have feelings for you, there may be one you like. Whether you have it or not, but you still have to try.

Otherwise, it will be unfair to yourself, since you don't like him, you have to break up with him as soon as possible, because it is good for both of you, he doesn't know that your feelings for him are like this, he may think that you love him, and think that you love each other very well. This will create a delusion for him.

I know you don't want to hurt him, but you will say it in the future, and even if you don't, I believe you will show him in action and make him feel it. It's better to have a long pain than a short pain, you should make a decision quickly, it is possible that he thinks you are very ruthless, but you have to think that it is not a way for you to drag it out like this, the sooner you can get rid of it, the longer it lasts, the less you want to hurt, because you will slowly get used to it.

To be honest, what you did was very wrong, in order to be angry with your ex-boyfriend and be with him now, this is clearly a kind of deception and harm, and from an objective point of view, it is an irrational and lack of moral restraint.

Now if you find that you don't love him, and you have only one way to confess to him, it is inevitable that he will be sad, but you have saved yourself, and indirectly you have saved him.

In fact, what men care about most is not to get a woman's body, but a woman's heart, so men are not animals who use their lower bodies to consider, that is to say, men also need love and care.

From a psychological point of view, men's psychological world is more fragile, and in this era of deformed love mixed with transmutation mixed with materialism, men are more vulnerable.

Confess to him, maybe when you confess, you find his tolerance and generosity, true love needs to be forgiving, maybe you will change your mind.

One sentence is very true, when you love, you really love, and when you don't love, you really don't love. If you and he don't plan to have a future, you might as well let it go, which can be regarded as a kind of fairness to him. I will tell you about my own personal experience, and I hope you will not make the same mistakes as me.

If there is a future, it is good for him to have peace of mind, and let all the current worries be thrown away. It's really not easy to find someone who is serious about yourself.

Divide it, it's not good for anyone

Since you don't love him, everything is meaningless

Don't let people think of meaningless things as so meaningful, and then find out the truth at the end of the day, that's really cruel.

Try to try to accept him.

Because in this world.

Someone who can really hurt himself.

is the one who can give himself happiness.

I believe in cultivating feelings.

So try to like him.

If it's about love, maybe it's better to find someone you like, if it's about marriage, it's better to find someone who loves you with a full score, and you love him with 99 points, because then you will always feel loved, hehe!

Break up early, it's good for you and for him.

A woman like you doesn't deserve his love, let him go and give him a way out.

Maybe you don't know how important he is to you until you lose him, don't care too much about feelings

If you don't love him, leave him.

The longer the breakup lasts, the more it hurts him.

Men are hurt by women like you, and women like you are also loved by someone?